Indulging in love is harmful to health

If someone loves you, you can enjoy it to the fullest, but we can't expect that love to be there. People who are addicted to love are dangerous and terrible, because once they are sober, they become very ruthless. Maybe today they love you very much, but suddenly one day they wake up, find that this is an unequal relationship, they are abusing themselves, they are also being abused by you, in the past they were addicted, today they are suddenly sober, but you suddenly fall in love with each other, and the other party quietly withdraws, how do you treat yourself? So don't take love as all