At nine o'clock in the evening, my doorbell rang again, and when I opened the door, a man wearing glasses said angrily: "Can your house be quieter!" ”
My anger came up in a flash. What is my house for? Neither renovated nor quarreled, did you? This is the sixth time he has come knocking on the door.
The reason is that he thinks my children are noisy. I have two boys in my family, one aged five and one seven. They all go to school during the day, and on weekends at grandma's house, they come home from school at night, and is it wrong for the brothers to play for a while?
Seriously, I'm already trying to discipline my kids as much as I can, so they wear floor socks and speak quietly. But you can't control the lively nature of children. At night, I have to clean and cook, and I can't keep an eye on them all the time. And at this age, always restricting their activities is not good for physical and mental development.
When they ran underground, my husband glared at the child again, telling the child to shut up and sit down obediently. Because of this, my husband and I disagreed. "Why, is it because the downstairs likes to be quiet, do you have to restrict the child's every move?"
There would be no way about the epidemic, and then I often took my children downstairs to play. Seeing them running and playing wantonly in the sun, your liberating nature to catch up with me, I suddenly felt that the children of today are really pitiful.
The epidemic in three years occupied a small half of childhood, with a heavy academic burden and overall involvement. Every day in the building, except for studying, there is almost no exercise on the TV or mobile phone. One by one, they have had vision problems since elementary school, and electronic products have ruined the concentration of a generation of children.
Because of the lack of physical exercise, the physique is not very good. Last year's new crown, this year's A stream, being a mother stayed up night after night. Every day, I worry about whether my child will accumulate a cold.
Remembering our childhood after the 80s and 90s, in the countryside are in contact with mountains and nature, no constraints, no troubles, from the head of the village to the end of the village, a group of people like little madmen to enjoy the joy and no one to care.
Of course, I am not an unreasonable person, and neighbors should be considerate of each other. I understand that you like to be quiet and try to be restrained. You should also understand that children, they can't sit there quietly like adults, do you want me to tie my legs and stick to my mouth?
Everything has a degree, how can a single man without children experience the noise of a second-child family. We are clearly separated from each other, but we cannot do it without interfering with each other.
I closed the door, tossed and turned over and over and couldn't sleep, and wrote this article. Friends and friends, I really don't know if it is his hypocrisy and fuss or my parenting concept. What am I going to do? See you in the comment area.