As a cheated woman, you must learn to love yourself well, if extramarital affairs are inevitable, it is difficult to solve,
If you can't end the marriage yet, the most important thing is to maximize your interests.
Su Yue had dealt with an extramarital affair case before, and it was originally said that she had been married for twenty years and had been cheated on for ten years.
Because she is a full-time wife, has no independent economy, or marries far away, her mother's family is thousands of miles away.
And her mother's family is more patriarchal, and she has not been very good to her, and the cheating man feels that he has pinched her.
After the cheating was discovered, he pretended at first, as if he was very remorseful.
But he has been persuading the original partner to accept the affair, saying that the mistress is stupid and is willing to post money.
The cheating man and the original have three children, and it is more difficult for him to make money alone to raise three children and so on.
Of course, the original match did not want to, saying that he could go out to find a job to make money, and really went.
Before giving birth, he worked as a shopping guide in a clothing store and gave birth to three children, because he was usually very tired.
So I have been dropping the scale, my figure is very good, my appearance is also good, and I have previous work experience,
Even though I didn't have a job for many years, I quickly found a job.
The original naïve thought that the attitude shown by the cheating man and what he said was true.
The cheating man feels sorry for her for cheating, but cheating is for profit, and has no feelings for the mistress.
The original match is very painful here, the cheating man will feel guilty, and the original match can make money.
The cheating man does not need to take benefits from the mistress, and will break up with the mistress.
As a result, the cheating man still continued to cheat, and found a lot of reasons to perfunctory the original match.
The original match was so angry that he said that he wanted to divorce, and even really pulled the cheating man to the Civil Affairs Bureau.
The original match was indeed impulsive and did not think too much about it.
But this move made the cheating man feel that the original match was really going to divorce.
Most cheating men don't want a divorce because divorce is also a loss for them.
So this cheating man did not want to divorce, but did not end the affair.
Instead, he threatened the original match, knowing that the original partner valued the child, and threatened to rob the child's custody.
He also said that even if he got the custody of the child, he had to go to work and take care of the child, and the child was estimated to be uncomfortable.
My mother's family is thousands of miles away, and she will not give any help to the original match at all.
If you want to let any child suffer with her, divorce and rob the custody of the child,
Originally, she was angry to death, but there was no way, she still couldn't bear the child.
But this original match is not submissive, and immediately accepts the extramarital affair,
She negotiated with the cheating man and could ignore the existence of the mistress.
But there are three requirements, and the cheating man promised to pass just like that.
One requirement is that all the money earned by the cheating man must be handed over, and the original side will give him pocket money every month.
Because the original match was in charge of money before, the cheating man did not feel that there was any problem.
Another requirement is that the cheating man cannot let the mistress have children, and the original match to continue the marriage is for the sake of the children.
If the mistress gives birth to a child, and the cheating man spends money on the mistress's child in the future, what will happen to his own child.
Raising three children is very stressful, and the cheating man himself does not want to bear more, which is naturally the reason.
The last requirement is not to let the child know about the man's cheating.
Cheating men can't always go to mistress, and cheating men naturally don't want their children to know, and they agreed.
The original match said that after she negotiated with the cheating man,
A parallel pattern of marriage and extramarital affairs began, and she had a hard time in the previous years.
There must be feelings for the cheating man, otherwise he would not have left home to marry this man and have three children.
So watching the cheating man go to find the mistress, it is impossible not to be uncomfortable.
But she didn't run away, just forced herself to face it.
Slowly despair of the cheating man, the number of pains increased, and began to numb.
This original match used as a painful method to let himself cheat from love.
After the original pair of cheating men was indifferent to Xiaomi, they used the cheating man as an ATM.
I only care about the money made by cheating men, and I secretly saved a lot of money.
Cheating men don't know how much property there is in the family, so wait until the original partner wants to divorce.
He found that the children were closer to the original match, and he did not understand the family situation.
The cheating man began to be afraid, willing to break up with the mistress, and wanted to save the original match.
This original match is actually not unshaken, she came to Su Yue because she was shaken.
She asked Su Yue, will cheating men really get better? If you have played enough, you will live a good life with peace of mind.
Su Yue asked this original match, what did she think? Can cheating men get better?
In fact, this original pair answer is well known, but I can't help but look forward to it.
Someone needs to help her identify it before she can end the marriage.
In the end, he was originally divorced, fought two divorce lawsuits, and finally successfully got rid of the cheating man.
Finally, Su Yue wanted to say that not all women can be like this original match.
Many women love cheating men too much, so they can't accept the existence of mistress.
If you do this, you will only let yourself collapse early and destroy yourself beyond recognition.
So be sure to choose according to your actual situation.
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