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Wen | Leyou
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Summer vacation travel has become a "necessity" for children
When the summer vacation comes, many families will choose to travel to relax their bodies and minds and enhance their parent-child relationship. However, have you found that nowadays children are more and more demanding for travel, not only to go to distant places, but also to luxurious places, stay in high-end hotels and eat delicious food. They see travel as a "necessity" rather than a "reward."
Behind this phenomenon, it is actually the result of ordinary families raising children. In order to meet the needs of their children, many parents do not hesitate to spend a lot of money and time, and even borrow money or work overtime to raise travel funds. They feel that as long as the child is happy, whether they can bear it or not. They overlook an important issue: tourism is a consumption, not an investment. Travel can bring joy and knowledge to children, but it cannot bring abilities and character.
The dangers of enriching children
Ordinary families raising children may bring the following harms to children:
· Form high consumption habits. Children are accustomed to a high-end lifestyle from an early age, and their pursuit of material things is getting higher and higher, and their sense of value for money is getting lower and lower. They don't know the hard work of their parents, nor do they know how to save and manage money. They may become "moonshiners" or "borrowers" and fall into financial hardship.
· Lack of gratitude. Children take the best for their parents for granted, turn a blind eye to their parents' efforts, and expect more and more from their parents. They will not appreciate their parents' kindness and will not respect their parents' opinions. They may become selfish and apathetic, estranged from their parents.
· Develop a psychology of comparison. Children who see that others have better things or better experiences among their peers will develop dissatisfaction and jealousy. They will measure their own and others' worth by material things, ignoring their inner qualities and abilities. They may become vain and impetuous, losing self-confidence and self-esteem.
· Lack of independence. Children are handled by their parents from an early age and have no opportunity to face difficulties and challenges. They did not learn to think and solve problems on their own, nor did they develop their own interests and strengths. They may become dependent and lazy, unable to adapt to society and work.
How to enrich children with spirit
Ordinary families should not enrich their children, but teach them to support themselves and enrich their children with spirit. Specifically, the following can be done:
· Establish the right values. Parents should convey correct values to their children, so that children understand that the value of human beings does not lie in how much material they have, but in how many virtues and abilities they have. Parents should lead by example, not to overly pursue material enjoyment, but to pursue spiritual growth.
· Cultivate a sense of responsibility in your child. Parents should make their children understand that life is not smooth sailing and that everyone has to take their own responsibilities. Parents should give their children certain housework and obligations, and let them participate in the management and decision-making of the family. Parents should give their children a certain amount of pocket money so that their children can learn to manage and spend money.
· Stimulate your child's interest and potential. Parents should pay attention to their children's interests and strengths and provide them with suitable learning and development opportunities. Parents should encourage their children to read more, exercise more, participate in social activities more, and broaden their children's horizons and knowledge. Parents should support their children in pursuing their dreams and give them confidence and motivation.
· Promote family and friendship in children. Parents should give their children enough love and respect to make them feel the warmth and support of the family. Parents should communicate more, communicate more, understand more with their children, and establish a good parent-child relationship. Parents should teach their children how to get along with others, how to establish and maintain friendships, and let children have good interpersonal relationships.
Write at the end
Summer vacation tourism is a way of leisure, not a way of life. Ordinary families should not enrich their children, but teach them to support themselves and enrich their children with spirit. In this way, children can become capable, characterful, and happy people. Do you agree? Welcome to leave a comment.
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