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My name is Li Nan, I am 28 years old this year, and I am a girl with a lively and cheerful personality. 5 years ago, I met Wang Qiang, a boy who looked stable and restrained, we fell in love at first sight and entered the palace of marriage 1 year later.
Wang Qiang has a stable personality, is serious and responsible in his work, usually does not have many hobbies, and likes to stay at home quietly. I, on the other hand, am very outgoing and like to travel, go shopping, party and the like. So sometimes disagreements arise on small things. But this is also normal, every couple will have their own little friction. In general, Wang Qiang and I still live harmoniously together.
Just one weekend last month, Wang Qiang suddenly had an upset stomach and had been complaining of stomach pain. I suggested that he go to the hospital for a check-up, after all, long-term stomach discomfort is still not normal. So early the next morning, I accompanied him to a nearby Chinese medicine hospital.
After the Chinese medicine examination, Wang Qiang may have acute appendicitis and needs to be hospitalized for observation and surgery. I was very worried after hearing this, and quickly comforted Wang Qiang: "It's okay, don't worry, the doctor has good conditions here, and it will get better soon after a small operation, and I will come to see you every day." ”
Wang Qiang nodded, his face slightly nervous: "Then listen to the doctor, I don't want to hurt all the time." ”
In this way, Wang Qiang was admitted to the hospital. I also took a few days off and went to the hospital every day to take care of him.
Unexpectedly, at this time, a travel agency that I had been following for a long time posted a 7-day trip to Taiwan, which attracted my attention. I have been longing for travel for a long time, Taiwan is my favorite place for a long time, this group period is when I am on vacation, the time is very suitable. Looking at the photos and routes pushed by the travel agency, my heart itched.
When I went to the hospital that day, I cautiously asked Wang Qiang: "Honey, the doctor said you need to stay in the hospital for a month, right?" It sounds like a long time. ”
Wang Qiang said: "Yes, I have to lie down for a month to fully recover. I also feel that it has taken a little longer, but there is no way, just listen to the doctor. ”
I continued, "It's boring to be in the hospital for a month. How about I find a time to go out and change my mood? ”
Wang Qiang said with a smile: "Then you are busy with your work, you don't have to come to the hospital to take care of me, I can do it alone." ”
I hesitated for a moment, but still said, "Actually, I want to sign up for a tour group and go around Taiwan." Anyway, it's also during vacation time, just to relax. What do you think? ”
Wang Qiang's face changed abruptly after hearing this, and he looked at me and said, "What did you say?" I'm hospitalized for a month, and you want to travel? What do you want me to think? ”
I explained, "I'm going for a week and I'll be back soon." You also know that I like to travel, and I am so busy with work, I finally have a vacation, and it is wasted not to travel. ”
Wang Qiang asked me: "I am sick and hospitalized, so you will leave me alone to travel?" You were playing outside when I had surgery, didn't you care? ”
Wang Qiang's words embarrassed me a little, and I also felt that the timing of my request might not be right. But thinking about it, I had promised to take care of him the whole time, and now that the doctor said that he needed a month to be hospitalized, it was okay for me to go out this week to relax.
So I explained: "It's not completely leaving you alone, I'll be back for a week, I'll be back before your surgery, and I'll be back to take care of you as soon as possible after the operation." Other times the doctor and nurse will also take good care of you, and you can contact me at any time if you have any questions. ”
Wang Qiang said sullenly: "Of course I know that the doctor will take care of me, but I prefer that you can accompany me." I was sick and hospitalized, and you didn't care, just wanted to play by yourself, which disappointed me. ”
I was also sad to see his hurt look, but my heart was very eager for a trip to Taiwan. I comforted him softly: "My dear, I care about you very much, but this tour really attracts me, and the opportunity is rare." I also promise to take good care of you and come back to accompany you soon. ”
"Then go if you want, I can't stop you." It's just that it makes me sad and feels like you didn't take my condition to heart at all. "Wang Qiang, don't look too far and stop looking at me.
I saw that he was depressed and remorseful, but I signed up for the tour before he was discharged. Wang Qiang was disappointed in me, but I think this trip is really important to me and I hope he will be considerate of me.
In this way, Wang Qiang was hospitalized, and I flew to Taiwan alone to begin the journey. When I first arrived in Taiwan, I was very excited, taking pictures everywhere and posting moments of friends, and I wanted to experience all kinds of food and attractions. But in addition to being happy, I often think of Wang Qiang who is alone in the hospital bed, and I don't know how he feels now.
On the third evening, the team visited a local opera performance. I was very interested, but looking at the singing words of the actors on stage, I somehow always felt that I was reproaching me for not leaving my husband halfway out to have fun.
I instantly realized that Wang Qiang was ill and hospitalized, and I shouldn't have come out to play alone. No matter how much I want to travel, he is the most important person for me, and companionship is my most important responsibility at this time. Thinking about this, I suddenly lost the mood to continue traveling.
Early the next morning, I got up and went to tell the tour guide that I wanted to leave the tour group and return home early. The tour guide advised me to think again, but seeing my firm attitude, he agreed to my request. At noon that day, I got on the plane back to Beijing.
When I got home, I was very worried about Wang Qiang's condition and called him as soon as possible. Unexpectedly, he was discharged from the hospital! It turned out that the operation was successful and the recovery was very good, so I was discharged early. He said that he knew that I had given up his favorite trip for him, so he didn't blame me for selfishly reporting the group.
I was so excited that I burst into tears. It has been a lifelong privilege to spend my life with such thoughtful people. I swear that no matter what happens, I will always be by his side.
After Wang Qiang's serious illness, I was particularly concerned and considerate of him. Usually, I will prepare more nutritious delicacies so that he can supplement more nutrients and restore his body. Sometimes when I see him tired from work, I will also take the initiative to massage him to help him relax his body.
This experience made me see the importance of husband and wife supporting each other. In the past, I always thought about myself first, but this time when Wang Qiang was sick, I chose my own desires, which made me feel very remorseful.
One day, I said to Wang Qiang sincerely: "My dear, I am very sorry, when you were sick, I should not choose to travel, but should be by your side wholeheartedly." I'm so selfish, can you forgive me? ”
Wang Qiang took my hand and said gently: "Nan Nan, you don't need to blame yourself, you were also confused at that time, I can completely understand." Now that you have changed your mind to give up travel and come back to take care of me, I have already been touched. I feel all the love you give. ”
"Thank you for your understanding." I said gratefully, "This event made me really experience being a couple." In the future, whether we are born, old, sick or dead, we must support each other and get through the difficulties. ”
Wang Qiang nodded and hugged me.
Since then, my relationship with Wang Qiang has become closer than before. We learn to put ourselves in each other's shoes and understand everyone's ideas and needs.
Once the company needed to work overtime temporarily, I was going to push off the movie night with Wang Qiang. But Wang Qiang took the initiative to say: "Work is important, you just go, we can watch the movie another day." ”
I also often give in, and if I want to go to a party but Wang Qiang is tired and wants to stay at home quietly, I will also choose to accompany him at home.
There was more understanding and compromise between us. They no longer quarrel over some small things, but find ways to make concessions to each other and take care of the overall situation.
On the other hand, after experiencing this incident, Wang Qiang learned a lot more cheerfully, and would take the initiative to take me out to travel and accompany me to many places that I was not willing to go to before. I also encouraged him to attend more parties and meet more friends.
In this way, our lives become more fulfilling and meaningful. Every moment, even ordinary daily life, I cherish the time with Wang Qiang very much. That tour eventually became an important turning point in our married life.
After Wang Qiang recovered well, I suggested that we go on a small trip together to make up for the regret of my previous trip alone. Wang Qiang readily agreed.
After careful planning, we chose to go to Sanya. The flights and hotels were booked in advance, the itinerary was made, and everything was ready for the day of departure.
The night before the trip, I excitedly said to Wang Qiang: "Honey, tomorrow we will be able to tour Sanya together, I am super looking forward to it!" ”
"Yes, I can finally enjoy traveling with you." Wang Qiang also had a smile on his face.
In the morning, I got up earlier than Wang Qiang and took out all the prepared luggage to check it, for fear of missing something important. Wang Qiang saw my serious vigor and also assisted in checking.
At the airport, Wang Qiang helped me carry my luggage and was concerned about whether my body was struggling from time to time. I looked at his gentle appearance, and my heart was very moved.
After getting off the plane under the sunshine of Sanya, I said happily: "The air is so fresh, and the sea here is so beautiful!" ”
Wang Qiang said with a smile: "Let's go to the beach for a walk, listening to the sound of the waves, it must be very comfortable." ”
So we strolled along the beach, and every now and then I bent down to pick up some beautiful shells. Wang Qiang also learned from me and helped me find small shells. I winked at him happily: "Thank you, I will collect these little shells as a souvenir of us." ”
During these few days of travel, we went to various popular attractions and tasted authentic specialties. Wang Qiang looked at me happy, and his face was full of happy smiles. I knew he had arranged this trip lavishly for me.
We also went to participate in some activities, such as night market department store shopping and tropical fruit picking. I brought a big and sweet pineapple, patted Wang Qiang and said, "Let's go home and make pineapple stew with pears, and replenish our bodies." ”
Wang Qiang hurriedly said: ", must do as you say." ”
This trip allowed me to see the positive and optimistic side of Wang Qiang, and also sublimated our feelings to another level. I know that no matter what twists and turns in life, we will work together to create our own happiness.
On the last day of the trip, we strolled along the seaside promenade in Sanya. The sunset blooms in the sky and gradually falls into the sea. I quietly leaned on Wang Qiang's shoulder.
"Honey, thank you for giving me this trip." I say it sincerely.
Wang Qiang looked at me gently: "This is what I should do." Making you happy is my greatest happiness. ”
I know that I am extremely lucky to be with him. In the years to come, we will meet all kinds of beauty and difficulties together, and write our own life chapter together.
After returning from the trip to Sanya, my love for Wang Qiang became stronger. I will often prepare some supplements for him to replenish more and get back to his best condition as soon as possible.
One day, I handmade red jujube yam cake, and when Wang Qiang came home from work, I greeted him with a smile: "Try my newly developed red jujube yam cake, it is guaranteed to be delicious!" ”
Wang Qiang took a bite and immediately smiled: "Well, it's super delicious!" You blend the sweetness of yam and red dates just right, healthy and nourishing! ”
I added a big chunk to him and laughed, "Then you eat more!" This is great for replenishing blood. ”
Wang Qiang was full of praise while eating. Seeing him eat with relish, I was also very happy in my heart.
After dinner, Wang Qiang said to go to bed early because he has been busy with work recently. I immediately said, "Then you go take a shower, I'll give you a head massage to help you relax!" ”
Wang Qiang smiled and said, "Okay, then I'll look forward to your divine work." ”
After Wang Qiang took a bath, I asked him to lean into my arms and gently massage his temples and scalp. Wang Qiang said "Uh-huh" comfortably, and I saw that he was very relaxed, and the strength on his hand was also increased, helping him massage deeper.
"It's so comfortable, I'm almost asleep!" Wang Qiang sighed with emotion, "My dear, I feel extremely happy to have you next to me. ”
"That's a must, I'll always be with you." I said gently.
We slept in each other's arms, and the next day Wang Qiang went to work in high spirits.
Now every night, after Wang Qiang takes a bath, I give him a massage. Sometimes if he comes home late from overtime, I will heat a bowl of red date fungus soup and wait for him to come home.
We are like two 059 gears, closely biting each other, making each other's lives more complete and prosperous.
It is inevitable that there will be some ups and downs on the road of life, but with our mutual support, we will definitely be able to get through. The greatest wealth of Wang Qiang and I is to have each other, a big tree that we can rely on.
As the days passed, I often smiled and recalled the bits and pieces of my trip to Sanya. It wasn't just a trip, it was a milestone in the sublimation of our relationship.
I believe that life will be better in the future because I have Wang Qiang, the person I love the most. We go through every stage of life together until our hair turns gray and our steps falter.
Thinking of this, I couldn't help but curl up the corners of my mouth. I know that with my beloved him, I will never have any regrets in my life.