Tong Dawei, who became famous with "Struggle" back then, broke up with Guan Yue, the "teacher" who had been pursuing so hard.
And Guan Yue at that time also accepted this decision silently.
I thought it was another vulgar drama of "going ashore to kill the person you like", but I didn't expect that the "prodigal son turned back" later, and the relationship between the two ushered in a second spring.
In the blink of an eye, the husband and wife lived in harmony for almost 20 years and gave birth to two daughters and a son.
Now that a family of five is living happily, Tong Dawei and Guan Yue are also ridiculed as the "strongest teacher-student love" in the entertainment industry.
According to the concept of ordinary people, the "teacher-student love" that violates human ethics has always been spurned.
But the combination of Tong Dawei and Guan Yue has been blessed by the public, why is this?
Strong little boy
Tong Dawei was born in 1979 in Fushun, Liaoning Province, to a people's police officer.
In such a family, he and his sister lived carefree as children.
However, all the changes happened when Tong Dawei was 6 years old.
One day, his father was in a car accident while he was on duty outside.
Due to a strong blow to the head, he became a vegetative state and never woke up.
In order to maintain this family, Tong Dawei's mother rotated between the unit and the hospital every day, and was very busy.
Despite her best efforts, the mother still can't avoid neglecting her child's life.
Therefore, Tong Dawei and his sister were forced to learn to bear the pressure of life at a young age.
Tong Dawei, who is in the third grade of primary school, often carries 50 catties of rice upstairs on his back, and also learns to change gas canisters.
Even when he went to college, in order to relieve his mother's pressure, Tong Dawei also did many part-time jobs outside the school.
Such a growth environment made Tong Dawei suffer a lot, but it also made his character very strong, tenacious and assertive.
In 2001, Tong Dawei, who had just graduated from the Shanghai Theater Academy, signed a contract with the National Theater to work.
After working, his income is also very considerable, and on the basis of supporting himself, he can save a lot of money to send to his mother to subsidize the family.
True love can cross mountains and seas
Also in 2001, Tong Dawei happened to be filming in Beijing.
On this day, he went to the Beijing Film Academy to play with friends, and when he returned, he passed by a classroom, and the teaching assistant in the classroom attracted him.
This teaching assistant was Guan Yue, who was beautiful and generous at the time, and she was giving acting lessons to students.
But what she didn't know was that under the podium sat an outsider who was attracted to her charm.
Tong Dawei fell in love with Guan Yue at first sight, and then in order to meet his sweetheart, Tong Dawei often went to Beiying to attend Guan Yue's classes.
He also called Guan Yue "Teacher Guan", a title that continues to this day, which is also the origin of the "teacher-student love" between the two.
After getting acquainted, Tong Dawei launched a crazy pursuit of Guan Yue.
But Guan Yue is a slow person emotionally, so the progress of the two is slow.
However, how can this stump Tong Dawei, who has perseverance and tenacity?
At that time, Tong Dawei's new crew was in Shanghai, and Guan Yue was still working as a teacher in Beijing.
In order to meet Guan Yue, Tong Dawei always went to Beijing whenever he had a holiday, and then returned to Shanghai when he worked.
Tong Dawei, who turned back and ran back and forth, spent more than ten hours on the train alone in order to meet Guan Yue once.
But he still enjoyed it. In the end, Guan Yue was moved by his sincerity and agreed to his pursuit.
The mentality is inflated and the prodigal son turns back
Because the personalities of Tong Dawei and Guan Yue are very suitable, the relationship has always been very good after falling in love.
The two have been looking forward to a better life and career in the future, but the change happened in Tong Dawei's career.
After graduation, Tong Dawei, with his superior appearance and actor talent, has always had good acting resources in the entertainment industry.
In 2004, the TV series "Jade Guanyin" was a great success.
Tong Dawei performed well in it, and even won the Golden Eagle Award "Most Popular Actor" in one fell swoop.
With his masterpieces, he finally gained a firm foothold in the entertainment industry, but the success of his career suppressed their love.
Because the company did not allow him to make his relationship public, Guan Yue could only hide their relationship aggrievedly for a long time.
After that, Tong Dawei's career was still thriving.
In 2007, he became completely popular with "Struggle" directed by Zhao Baogang and became a real "top stream" at that time.
It is said that "when a man is rich, he becomes bad", in fact, sudden popularity is the same as getting rich, and it will also make people's mentality swell and make them unable to recognize themselves.
Tong Dawei also became fluttery at this time, his temper became worse and worse, and he showed impatience for many trivial things in life.
At one point, when Tong Dawei was angry, Guan Yue, who was already aggrieved, proposed that "the two of them should calm down for a month first".
But unexpectedly, in less than 20 days, Tong Dawei proposed to her to break up.
Tong Dawei, who had just broken up, felt that he had gotten rid of a shackle, but within a few days, he regretted it.
In his own words, "going out feels like Beijing has become black and white."
Two months later, Tong Dawei found that he couldn't leave Guan Yue at all, so he immediately went to his friend Dong Xuan to help him recover Guan Yue.
Win back trust and live a happy life
But at this time, Guan Yue had already walked out of this relationship with difficulty, and she even comforted herself to hurry up to find a boyfriend.
When Tong Dawei came to her again with a flower, she realized that it was Dong Xuan, a "spy", who betrayed her position.
At dinner in the evening, Tong Dawei also "shamelessly" introduced "Guan Yue is his girlfriend" to others.
Guan Yue himself didn't completely let go of Tong Dawei, and now that he is stalking again, the two are naturally reconciled.
However, even if he recovers his identity as a lover, Guan Yue is still very uneasy about him, who knows if he will break up again when he will break up?
But this time Tong Dawei is really a prodigal son, and he is simply a different person after getting back together.
Not only did he change his temper and become gentle and considerate, but even if he was busy at work, he was always worried about Guan Yue.
Tong Dawei is a smart person, he knows that he has an incurable disease, and Guan Yue is the corresponding "medicine".
So he decided never to let Guan Yue leave again, and quickly made a decision that he didn't dare to make before - marry Guan Yue.
Finally in 2008, with the blessing of relatives and friends, the two entered the palace of marriage.
After marriage, Guan Yue decided to give up her acting career and stay at home to take care of the "big rear" for Tong Dawei.
In just 8 years, the two gave birth to two daughters and a son, and their little life was warm and happy.
At the same time, Tong Dawei's acting career has also reached a higher level, and many excellent works have been filmed.
In January this year, the TV series "The Night is Thick" starring him was also officially launched.
In the blink of an eye, 20 years have passed, and Tong Dawei's family of five is living a happy life in Beijing.
The relationship between the couple has not changed at all, and every year on the wedding anniversary, Tong Dawei will post a happy photo of the two now.
At the end of 2023, the two also participated in a variety show together, and they showed their affection generously in the show.
From various details, it can also be seen that Tong Dawei is really considerate of Guan Yue.
epilogue
In the entertainment industry, sincere feelings are rare, but Tong Dawei and Guan Yue have really been consistent.
Their "strongest teacher-student love" has become a good story in the entertainment industry!