Why are more and more elderly people now afraid that their children will go home for the Chinese New Year? When I was smoking in front of my mother-in-law's house, I was chatting with an old woman, and her words made me feel scared and uneasy.
Friends who are celebrating the New Year at home, you must watch carefully, maybe your parents are also afraid that you will go home for the New Year, but they dare not tell you.
Aunt Liu is 68 years old this year, she is older, and her health is not very good. She has three sons and two daughters. Before the Chinese New Year, the children said that they wanted to go home for the New Year, but the aunt was resolutely opposed! and even feared that they would come back for the New Year, so in the end the children did not go home for the New Year.
The Chinese New Year is a festive event in everyone's eyes, a day for family reunion, but what Aunt Liu said made me feel fearful. She said that she has been afraid of the New Year for more than ten years, and this year she is finally relaxed.
Aunt Liu said that before the age of 50, she looked forward to her sons coming home every day, even if it was not for the New Year, she also hoped that they would go home often, and it didn't matter whether they had money or not.
But since the age of 50, her physical function has begun to decline, and she can't do anything, especially every time she celebrates the New Year, she is particularly scared!
If you are friends who are celebrating the New Year at home now, you must take a serious look at this work to see if you have the same situation, otherwise the old mother of the family will suffer where you can't see, and she won't dare to tell you, and even secretly shed tears!
The New Year's Day was originally happy, and everyone looked forward to the day, and it was happy. And the holidays are also very long, so you can have enough time to spend with your family.
But Aunt Liu is older, many things are not easy for her, and she needs to prepare a lot of New Year's goods before the year, which is a problem faced by every family and cannot be avoided.
After the children came home, six children needed her to take care of, from 2 to 6 years old, and now she is 68 years old.
After the children went home, they basically left on the sixth day of the Lunar New Year, and stayed for a total of 6 days, but the 6 days made Aunt Liu feel that it had been as long as 6 years.
The children are not at home all the year round, and when they go home, they always say that they miss their former classmates and friends, and go to them every day to party, but they forget that Aunt Liu also has classmates and friends, and she also has a few children, who have not seen each other a few times a year, but they have not been able to talk well during the New Year.
In the past, when the children went home, Aunt Liu cleaned them inside and out, for fear that the children would get used to it in the city and not get used to it when they went home. Even cooking and cooking are all Aunt Liu's Zhang Luo. Even after the meal, the children were chatting with their mobile phones, or going to drink tea, and the dishes and chopsticks on the dinner table were not cleaned up, and Aunt Liu was also cleaned up by herself at the end.
The daughter-in-law opened her mouth and said Mom, don't clean it up first, wait for us to clean it up, but after the New Year, after the meal is finished, what does it look like if the table is not cleaned up and left there? Although she misses the child very much, but this New Year makes her even more afraid!
Reunion is what many people miss, but after only a few days, the thoughts that have been accumulated for a year have not been properly said, and on the sixth and seventh days of the Lunar New Year, the children will leave their hometown together and return to work.
At this time, Aunt Liu always secretly wipes her tears, always worried about the children, but she is afraid that they will know, because she also understands the hard work of the children.
After all, every child has taken out a loan to buy a house and a car, and she has to repay the mortgage to the bank every month, so she really doesn't dare to put a psychological burden on the child.
Although in the eyes of outsiders, this is a very beautiful thing, and the children are promising, but in the end, only she knows in her heart, only she feels sorry for the children, but when she is older, she can't do anything about it.
I believe that there are really not a few old people who think the same way as Aunt Liu, there is no New Year's flavor, and they are afraid that their children will go home for the New Year. If I am old and my children are like this, I believe I will be afraid.
Many times, we young people go back for the New Year, it is really just a formality, it is better not to go back for the New Year, let the old people rest for a few days.
Therefore, I hope that you who are now at home for the New Year must do more to help your parents, accompany your parents more, and don't neglect to accompany the elderly for the sake of so-called classmates and friends. Don't let our parents who are tens of years old prepare New Year's meals for us, do you agree? Everyone is welcome to share their views and ideas.
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