There is indeed a group of people around us who are very different from us. They can hear the outside noise that we can't hear, they can smell the smell that we can't smell, and of course there are some very small emotional states that they can feel strongly and have a noticeable impact on them.
Such a group of people will be labeled as "highly sensitive", we often don't understand them, we don't know why they are different from us, and when they are defined as "highly sensitive", we will advise them not to be so sensitive.
Can such advice really have a positive impact on them? The answer is no, our incomprehension only makes them hurt more, and they can only continue to hide themselves. For adults, they will bury their pain in the depths of their hearts and never let people know about it again, but this is also doomed to a tragic life for them.
And for our children? They are often regarded as problem teenagers, a group of people who need to be constantly reversed and corrected, which makes us see that there is such an alternative group of children around us, their growth path is constantly blocked, and of course, they are destined to enter a painful adult life.
In fact, for any parents and teachers with highly sensitive children, it is necessary to have an in-depth understanding and establish an understanding that "high sensitivity is not actually a disadvantage, but may have a different possibility in life", and then use the corresponding skills to give full play to their highly sensitive advantages, which will achieve a better life for "highly sensitive" children.
Christad Butticonam, a French psychological counseling expert, is known as the "National Psychologist" and has more than 30 years of clinical treatment experience. As for the growth of highly sensitive children, he provided us with such a book "The Inner World of Highly Sensitive Children" that recognizes and helps them achieve a different life.
In this book, the author first makes it clear that the reason for the high sensitivity is that these children have a supernatural brain, which is a manifestation of their extraordinary state. Their sensitive nerves are indeed part of the manifestation of their genius that can indeed make them feel the world that we ordinary people cannot discover.
With such a cognition, we can remove the label of "highly sensitive" anomalies, and we need to give them better room for personality development and improvement. Therefore, in this book, the author provides parents with six key tips to help their highly sensitive children understand themselves correctly and actively develop in a better direction.
Each of these suggestions has been proven to be feasible, and the author presents the performance of these suggestions after the implementation of a large number of real-life scenarios, so that we can feel the real cases in reality, help us evaluate the value of these suggestions with reason, and of course, help parents to correctly understand these suggestions and practice them in their daily upbringing.
For children, they spend most of their time in school, so school is bound to be a scenario that highly sensitive children have to face. Parents also have the obligation to establish a good relationship with the school, coordinate and communicate with the school, assist their children to understand such a scenario, and actively develop themselves.
If you have a highly sensitive child in your family, then congratulations, your child must be a natural minority in the crowd. Then create an environment that is more suitable for them to grow up and help them move forward on their own successful life path. #高敏感##心理##高敏感人群#