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In 1994, Guo Jinan carefully planned a romantic marriage proposal ceremony in order to be able to marry his girlfriend Liu Xiaohui, who had been in love for 4 years, home.
However, what Guo Jinan didn't expect was that this marriage proposal, which made him full of confidence, ended in failure.
Not only that, not long after rejecting Guo Jinan's marriage proposal, Liu Xiaohui quickly threw herself into the arms of Su Zhiwei, the "Grasshopper Band", and quickly got married to Su Zhiwei, leaving Guo Jinan alone in the wind.
After marrying Su Zhiwei, Liu Xiaohui soon lived a life of Kuotai, and every month, Liu Xiaohui's pocket money alone was 200,000 Hong Kong dollars.
Probably because of this, back then, Liu Xiaohui was also accused by many media of being too fond of vanity.
Until recently, after Guo Jinan and Ou Qianyi officially announced the end of their 18-year marriage, Ou Qianyi's "situation" of being a "full-time wife" for 18 years was exposed.
After seeing Ou Qianyi's "situation", netizens suddenly discovered that Liu Xiaohui's decision to leave Guo Jinan and pass on Su Zhiwei was too wise...
is not good at words, honest and honest, it seems that it has always been the public's impression of Guo Jinan.
It is probably for this reason that the media often uses the word "boring" to describe Guo Jinan.
And such a man, the first feeling he gives people will give people a very down-to-earth feeling, of course, he was true in his early years.
Back then, after Guo Jinan graduated from junior high school, he became a company clerk who did his duty, and completed the tasks assigned by the leader every day with quality and quantity.
It's just that later, this kind of boring work made Guo Jinan feel bored, so a few years later, Guo Jinan chose to transform.
In 1985, Guo Jinan was favored by Lu Guozhen, a famous lyricist in Hong Kong, with his outstanding appearance, and successfully joined TVB, officially knocking on the door of the entertainment industry.
Because of his appearance and the shadow of Leslie Cheung, coupled with Lu Guozhen's matchmaking, Guo Jinan was highly valued as soon as he entered TVB and won the leading role of "City Story".
But it's a pity that this work didn't make Guo Jinan make any splash in the entertainment industry.
Of course, the fledgling Guo Jinan's performance in the works also has many deficiencies.
So, after that, Guo Jinan began to play various supporting roles under the arrangement of TVB to hone his acting skills.
During that time, Guo Jinan looked at Zeng Huaqian, Deng Cuiwen and others who had cooperated with him, and they became popular one by one, but his career has been stagnant, and he felt an indescribable loss in his heart.
However, at that time, the only thing he could do was to do his best to shape every little supporting role he received, and silently wait for his own opportunity.
It's just that day has not come for a long time, and in that darkest time, Guo Jinan met Liu Xiaohui, a small supporting actor with a similar experience to himself.
The two cherished each other, and soon sparked a spark of love and confirmed their relationship.
It's a pity that not long after falling in love with Guo Jinan, Liu Xiaohui's career began to get better.
First, with the single "First Love", he won the "Radio Television Hong Kong Top Ten Chinese Golden Melody Newcomer Bronze Award" and gained a firm foothold in the music scene.
Later, with the comedy "Super School Bully" with Jacky Cheung and Ekin Cheng, he became a "student lover" in the eyes of the audience.
Finally, Liu Xiaohui became popular, and there were more suitors around her.
On the other hand, Guo Jinan is still tepid, even if it is, Guo Jinan was still in controversy when Liu Xiaohui's career was booming.
In 1994, Guo Jinan, who had been a supporting actor for many years, finally won the male lead in the TV series "Ode to Life and Death", but because the plot was too tragic, the ratings were very bleak.
This is not enough, Guo Jinan's performance in the play is not satisfactory, so that his acting skills have been seriously questioned.
The collapse of his career made Guo Jinan's mood fall to the bottom, probably in order to change his mood and start over, Guo Jinan planned a romantic marriage proposal at the lowest point of his career.
It's just that what Guo Jinan didn't expect was that the confident marriage proposal he planned was rejected by Liu Xiaohui.
This is not enough, after Liu Xiaohui rejected Guo Jinan's marriage proposal, she turned her head and fell in love with Su Zhiwei, a member of the "Grasshopper Band".
Because the "Grasshopper Band" was in the limelight at that time and swept many music awards, Liu Xiaohui's choice was also accused by many people of being vain.
However, these accusatory voices did not affect the relationship between Liu Xiaohui and Su Zhiwei.
Soon after the two officially announced their love, they entered the palace of marriage hand in hand.
After marriage, Liu Xiaohui gave birth to 2 daughters successively, and with the birth of her daughter, Liu Xiaohui slowly retired from the entertainment industry.
Of course, Su Zhiwei also gave Liu Xiaohui enough protection, and every month Su Zhiwei would give Liu Xiaohui a lot of living expenses.
It is said that Liu Xiaohui's pocket money alone has more than 200,000 Hong Kong dollars per month, so after marrying Su Zhiwei, Liu Xiaohui can be regarded as living a broad life.
It's just that Liu Xiaohui is happy, Guo Jinan is heartbroken, but fortunately, Guo Jinan's career has just improved, which made Guo Jinan quickly get out of the haze of Liu Xiaohui's departure.
In 1994, Guo Jinan played a very treacherous role in "Laughing at the Storm", which made Guo Jinan unexpectedly popular.
It's just that Guo Jinan became popular at the wrong time, at that time, Guo Jinan's contract with TVB was about to expire, because the renewal issue was not negotiated, so that Guo Jinan finally became popular, but he had no resources in the Hong Kong entertainment industry.
In desperation, Guo Jinan had no choice but to set his sights on the mainland market and the Taiwan market.
It wasn't until 1998 that Guo Jinan was once again included in TVB and continued his previous supporting role.
It was at that time that Guo Jinan met his love again, and when he was filming a travel show, he met Ou Qianyi, a girl who was 15 years younger than him.
At that time, Guo Jinan, who was 35 years old and mature, made Ou Qianyi, who was only 20 years old, excited.
And Guo Jinan happened to have a good impression of Ou Qianyi, who was lively and cheerful and lived like a little sun, so the two hit it off and walked together.
With the support of Ou Qianyi, Guo Jinan's career finally got better.
In 2003, Guo Jinan left a deep impression on the audience with the silly boy "Ding Changwang" played in "Jackie Chan".
Although later, this role made Guo Jinan receive a lot of ridicule.
But it still didn't stop Guo Jinan from becoming popular, and even Guo Jinan won the TVB "Emperor Award" that year because of this role.
This is not enough, in 2005, Guo Jinan's career was climbing to a new high, and he became a high-profile actor in Hong Kong with a "New Biography of Ngawang" and "Seeing the Emperor".
And when Guo Jinan became famous, Ou Qianyi happened to be pregnant.
The two ended their 7-year love run and entered the palace of marriage together.
After getting married, Ou Qianyi soon gave birth to a son and a daughter, in order to take better care of the children, Ou Qianyi had to choose to take care of the children at home.
As a result, the two formed a marriage model of female protagonist and male protagonist.
Because at that time, Guo Jinan's career was flourishing, and he often took Ou Qianyi and the children to attend various activities, and the family interaction was sweet and happy, which also made Ou Qianyi the envy of many people.
On the other hand, Liu Xiaohui at that time was not so lucky.
Because of the failure of Liu Xiaohui's husband Su Zhiwei's investment, the family's economy fell into a crisis.
Therefore, Liu Xiaohui can no longer maintain the life she once lived.
It's just surprising that Liu Xiaohui, who was once ridiculed by everyone for "loving vanity", did not choose to leave her husband who failed in business, but chose to be with her husband through thick and thin.
In order to help her husband Su Zhiwei tide over the difficulties, Liu Xiaohui chose to make a comeback at the age of 41.
It's just that because of the lack of popularity, Liu Xiaohui's comeback road is not smooth.
In order to fill the hole in her husband's business, Liu Xiaohui, as a female star, even did not hesitate to go to nightclubs to sing.
With the help of Liu Xiaohui, Su Zhiwei finally got through the difficulties and his career got better again.
And for Liu Xiaohui, who accompanied him through the career crisis, Su Zhiwei is also very grateful.
So, after Su Zhiwei made a comeback, Liu Xiaohui once again lived the life of a wealthy family and lived in a mansion of more than 100 million.
It is said that every month, Liu Xiaohui only spends 30,000 yuan for the cost of raising pets, and I can't imagine that after Su Zhiwei makes a comeback, Liu Xiaohui's monthly living expenses.
As Su Zhiwei's career is getting better and better, Liu Xiaohui's life is getting happier and happier, and those ridicules about Liu Xiaohui slowly disappear.
On the other side, Ou Qianyi, behind the seemingly beautiful marriage, there are turbulent waves.
During this year's May Day holiday, 59-year-old Guo Jinan even suddenly announced the news of their divorce with his wife Ou Qianyi.
With the news of the divorce of the two, Ou Qianyi's 18-year marriage, the sadness behind the scenery was also picked up by netizens.
After looking at Ou Qianyi's "situation", everyone finally discovered Liu Xiaohui's "shrewdness".
At the same time, netizens also regretted Ou Qianyi endlessly.
Back then, Ou Qianyi's career, although it was not as brilliant as Guo Jinan, was not bad.
In 1996, she made her debut in the singer competition, and soon after entering the entertainment industry, she became popular in Hong Kong with the Cantonese ending song of "Cherry Maruko".
After occupying a place in the music scene, Ou Qianyi began to expand her career and develop in the direction of the film and television industry.
has starred in film and television works such as "Journey to the West 2" and "Double-Faced Yiren", which are familiar to the audience.
It's a pity that Ou Qianyi, who originally had a promising future, met Guo Jinan, and for the love with Guo Jinan, Ou Qianyi began to put Guo Jinan first in everything.
Especially after giving birth to a pair of children with Guo Jinan, Ou Qianyi gave up her career in the entertainment industry and chose to be a full-time wife at home.
Since then, Ou Qianyi has begun to put all her thoughts on her husband and children.
This also means that Ou Qianyi began to live on the support of her husband, which officially kicked off.
However, in the entertainment industry, there are not a few female stars who are supported by their husbands, such as Guo Aiming, Lu Shuyi, and the aforementioned Liu Xiaohui and so on.
However, these actresses who have withdrawn from the circle for the sake of their families, their husbands have given them enough protection, not only the family's assets are almost all in their names, but also a large part of the family's money is at their disposal.
In contrast, Guo Jinan did not give Ou Qianyi much protection.
According to Hong Kong media reports, Guo Jinan purchased a property worth hundreds of millions of Hong Kong dollars at his peak, and only Guo Jinan's name was written.
In this regard, Guo Jinan also stood up to explain, saying that the reason why these properties only have their own names is because Ou Qianyi thinks it is too troublesome to add names to these properties.
Family assets are Guo Jinan's name alone, and it is not difficult to see that in the years of marriage with Guo Jinan, Guo Jinan, as a "visual emperor" with a lot of income, should not give Ou Qianyi much life.
In 2021, Ou Qianyi talked about the details of her relationship with her children in an exclusive interview.
In these details, it is obvious that Ou Qianyi, who gave up herself for the sake of the family, did not get the gratitude and respect of the children.
"So as not to be degraded by them", Ou Qianyi had the idea of wanting to return to work.
After Ou Qianyi's comeback, the focus of Ou Qianyi's children is not Ou Qianyi's performance in the entertainment industry, but how much money Ou Qianyi can make.
Of course, Ou Qianyi also told the reason why children do this, because when children wanted toys before, they often excused themselves because they didn't have a job and had no money to buy them.
This led to the phenomenon that after Ou Qianyi's work, the child only cared about his mother's income.
However, this incident also revealed Ou Qianyi's economic situation from another aspect, and Ou Qianyi's embarrassing economic situation and lack of achievements in her career also made her "disliked" by her children to a certain extent.
Probably in order to reverse her imagination in the hearts of children and change her situation, since 2019, Ou Qianyi has won a lot of "freedom" like Guo Jinan and started to run her own business.
Although it is difficult because of her age, Ou Qianyi is ready to face the difficulties and dangers in the future.
However, the change in the family pattern also made the two often quarrel about their children's education.
There is also Guo Jinan's incomprehension of his wife Ou Qianyi's giving up taking care of the family for the sake of a salary that is not high.
In the quarrels again and again, the relationship between the two has also decreased little by little, and then decreased, and on May Day this year, the two even directly announced the news of their divorce, ending their 18-year marriage.
After watching Ou Qianyi and Guo Jinan's 18-year marriage, I understood Liu Xiaohui's "shrewdness".
Ou Qianyi has always been the one who paid silently in her marriage to Guo Jinan.
Even in this marriage, I didn't get much protection, and I still chose to burn myself.
has been burning for 18 years, and in these 18 years, she has suffered countless grievances and missed the good years of her life.
In the end, all the efforts were in vain.
On the other hand, Liu Xiaohui, after discovering that Guo Jinan couldn't give him the life he wanted, he didn't hesitate to turn around and leave to find the right person.
Although she experienced a turmoil after marriage, Liu Xiaohui was able to put down her body, work together with her husband, and reap happiness again.
And the different marriage endings of the two also sounded the alarm for all women.
In the face of marriage, you must find the right direction, if you go in the wrong direction, all your efforts will be in vain.
So, what do you think?