There are a few sayings that say it well: "Whether a person lives well or not is not what he has, but what he has in his heart." ”
People who pretend to be good and well-intentioned are more likely to live simpler and happier lives.
When it comes to making friends, we all want to be treated with sincerity, but not everyone can do that. Some people are naturally fond of jealousy, comparison, lying, revenge, and so on.
People who don't know how to give love must stay away, otherwise they will be hurt.
The rest of your life is short and hard, and you have to leave your sincerity to the right friends.
A truly shrewd person will have more deep friendships with people who have these qualities, which is not a compliment but a vision.
01: Will wake yourself up, will not indulge in false perceptions
There is a saying in the Tao Te Ching: "Those who know others are wise, and those who know themselves are clear." ”
In this life, the most regrettable and heart-wrenching thing is not knowing yourself.
Some girls suffer from their original families and have not received the truest love, so they do not have a clear self and dare not love themselves.
They tend to become humble in their relationships, and they are afraid of change, and they do not listen to anyone who gives them, and they are extremely stubborn.
Associating with such people can actually make you feel very burdened, and you may even be affected by their negative emotions.
But a person who dares to wake himself up and does not indulge in wrong perceptions is really great.
Most of these people are worthy of deep friendship, and girls with this ability love to learn and think, and do not allow themselves to live ignorantly.
No matter whether it is facing the moral kidnapping of parents or the deception of partners, they will adopt principles and will not let their love be perfunctory and used.
The more savvy people are, the more time they will spend with their awakened friends, and you can get energy from them and become determined and free.
02: Will remember the kindness of others and be grateful
Jay Chou and Liu Genghong have always been very good friends, and when he first signed the company, he lived a very difficult life. I don't have a place to live, I'm introverted, and I don't know how to make friends.
Only Liu Genghong takes care of himself very much, they are in the same company, and they eventually became very good friends.
Later, Jay Chou became popular all over the country, but Liu Genghong's career fell into a downturn. However, their friendship continues.
In order to make Liu Genghong popular, as long as there is a chance, Jay Chou will take him with him.
Liu Genghong will always appear in his MVs, and when he makes movies and TV series, he will also give Liu Genghong a good role.
Jay Chou is a good friend who remembers others and is very grateful. So after becoming popular, I did not forget the care and love of my brother in the past.
On the day of Liu Genghong's wedding, no matter how busy Jay Chou was, he still attended and sent his most sincere wishes.
People who will remember the kindness of others and have a grateful heart are definitely worthy of deep friendship.
03: People who dare to slow down, the kernel is more stable
John Lennon said, "Life has left us while we are struggling to do it." ”
In an extremely noisy world, most people are too anxious to stop.
You can only feel self-satisfied by constantly comparing and showing off. And people who are really powerful and determined often dare to slow down.
People with this ability live more transparently and deserve deep friendships.
The more savvy a person is, the more he will be best friends with someone who has this trait, which is not a compliment but a vision.
Slowness is not in a hurry, it is to leave a blank space in life, and it is also to give yourself enough time to feel the beauty of life.
I like what Jiang Xun said: "The most beautiful life is not a life that is constantly accelerating, but a life with a sense of balance between speed and slowness." ”
With people who can slow down, you won't feel nervous, your heart will be relaxed, you don't have to worry about being looked down upon, and you won't have a state of internal friction.
Those who can slow down live a more real and happy life, and it is worth going deeper.