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Right now, the summer fireworks in Beijing are thick. Xu Yajun sat in the living room of his home, looking at his wife Zhang Shu who was busy in the kitchen, and a faint sense of happiness surged in his heart.
At the age of 55, he has short hair and wears comfortable loungewear, with a calm and kind expression. Zhang Shu is 12 years younger than him, but he has given birth to a son for him, and now the family of four is happy.
Xu Yajun's eldest son Xu He is 22 years old and has been living with him since he was a child; And the youngest son Xu Shu is only 13 years old this year, lively and cute, and is a ray of light in his later years.
Calming down and thinking about the past, Xu Yajun couldn't help but feel a lot of emotion. This happy family life is really what he has worked hard all his life for. He went through the baptism of four wives and went through countless ups and downs before finally finding the happiness he has now.
After that, Xu Yajun put all his energy into his work, trying to use his career to relieve the sadness in his heart. The TV series "Looking for the World Back" became an instant hit, and he won the Golden Eagle Award for Best Actor for the role of "Earl" in the play, and his career rose like a thunderbolt.
However, the inner loneliness cannot be completely filled by work. In 1995, during the filming of "Wind and Lotus Resentment", he fell in love with the actor Zhang Na, who played the heroine, and the two finally entered into marriage.
But this fate was short and ended without a problem, and due to the contradictions, he finally chose to break up and divorce, which made Xu Yajun taste the bitterness of marriage for the second time.
The object of the third marriage is He Qing, a well-known actress who is 7 years younger than him. At first, the couple was as affectionate and inseparable as the characters in the play.
The following year, they gave birth to their beloved son Xu He, and they were about to start a happy new life.
Dating back to Xu Yajun's childhood, he was born with extraordinary talent and outstanding appearance. He was born in 1964 in Handan, Hebei Province, where his father was an ordinary worker.
Soon after, due to his father's job transfer, the family moved to Beijing.
As the youngest child in the family, Xu Yajun has been cared for and pampered by his parents since he was a child. Seeing that he was lively and energetic, his parents sent him to the well-known youth performance team at that time, hoping that he could find his interests in acting.
Sure enough, in the days of the junior performance team, Xu Yajun gradually fell in love with the magical profession of acting. He began to be enthusiastic about various performances, showing his talent again and again in front of the stage, and won the applause of the audience.
The joy of acting allowed him to find the direction and goal of his life.
Once, Xu Yajun also met Wu Gang, who was also young but already famous, on the set. The two teenagers looked at each other, no one thought that they would become well-known and powerful actors in the future, famous in the film and television industry.
When he was 8 years old, Xu Yajun tried CCTV casting for the first time. At that time, CCTV Film Studio was holding the casting of "Beacon Boy", and he was favored by the director with his outstanding conditions, but in the end he was not selected because he was too short.
Although he lost, this experience strengthened his determination to pursue a career in acting.
Three years later, the opportunity came again. 11-year-old Xu Yajun participated in the casting of the movie "Youth Like Fire", and this time he finally passed successfully. In the process of shooting, he officially came into contact with photographic equipment for the first time, facing the heavy camera and the gaze of countless people, and the freshness and excitement in his heart made him yearn for the path of performance even more.
At this time, Xu Yajun also received the full support and affirmation of his parents. As parents of ordinary families, they also saw their son's extraordinary talent in acting.
So at the age of 12, they encouraged and sponsored Xu Yajun to participate in the enrollment of the children's actor class held by the Central Academy of Drama at that time.
There, Xu Yajun not only met Cai Guoqing, a classmate and friend who later became a national singer, but more importantly, he received formal acting training, which laid a solid foundation for him to embark on the road of film and television in the future.
In retrospect, it was these youthful experiences that shaped Xu Yajun's persistent pursuit of the performance career and his never-say-die fighting spirit.
In 1980, after graduating from the children's actor class at the age of 16, Xu Yajun was directly assigned to work in the children's theater. Since then, his career has begun.
At the beginning of his career, Xu Yajun first participated in some drama performances, such as "The Mermaid of the East China Sea" and "Paul Kochakin" and other children's plays. Although the scale is small, these stage experiences have allowed him to gradually become familiar with the rhythm of the actor's work, and hone his acting skills on and off stage.
At this time, Xu Yajun also met his first partner, Huang Jianping, who is also a children's theater actor. The two are of similar age, they hate to meet late, and in the ignorant era of youth, they fell in love at first sight and fell in love.
In 1985, 21-year-old Xu Yajun and Huang Jianping entered the palace of marriage. They are stage partners in front of the audience, and they are also inseparable loving couples in life.
At that time, no one could have imagined that the pair of golden boys and girls would part ways.
However, the good times did not last long, and soon after marriage, Huang Jianping suffered from a serious illness and died young, which brought Xu Yajun's first marriage to an abrupt end. For him at a young age, the sudden death of his wife was undoubtedly a heavy blow, and he buried his grief deep in his heart and devoted himself to his work.
Immediately afterwards, Xu Yajun's career suddenly began to rise and fly fast. After 1988, he starred in more than three film and television works almost every year, running between major crews.
In 1992, he starred in "Wind and Rain Beauty" and won the Feitian Award and the Golden Eagle Award, and his personal popularity also rose.
At the same time that his career was in full swing, an actress named Zhang Xiao gradually came into his sight. Zhang Wei is not only a powerful actor, who won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Actress in "Cardamom Years", but also a lively and lovely Beijing girl.
The two met and fell in love, and finally entered the palace of marriage in 1995.
It's a pity that the good times didn't last long, and this marriage was destined to be short-lived. Due to various reasons, including Zhang Miao's choice to quit the showbiz, frequent conflicts between the two, etc., eventually led to the end of the breakup.
Despite this, Xu Yajun still did not give up his belief in finding true love, and he was determined to continue to move forward on the road of affection.
In 1998, Xu Yajun and He Qing tied the knot, and the love between the two became famous. The following year, they ushered in the crystallization of love - a lovely boy named "Xu He", implying his parents' ardent expectations for him.
The warm picture of a family of three should have been the best start for them to start a new life. However, the reality is far more cruel than imagined. As the actor in the heyday of his career, Xu Yajun has been running around for a long time and can't be separated; And He Qing, as a novice mother, can't teach her husband and children at home full-time, so the conflict between the two broke out.
Take care of your children or continue your career? This dilemma, which has plagued countless families, has finally pushed them to the brink of divorce.
Not only that, He Qing already had a love history with another actor Liu Wei before marrying Xu Yajun. Although Liu Wei regarded her as simple as a sister, He Qing was relentless in pursuit of him and repeatedly entangled, and the two even had an ambiguous experience of living together.
And when Xu Yajun appeared and became the new love in He Qing's life, her unrequited love for Liu Wei came to an end. As a result, she completely focused on her relationship with Xu Yajun, and her deep love for him, before and after the saddle, can be said to reflect the determination of women to desperately bet on love.
It's a pity that although love did exhaust all her efforts, it also made her pay a heavy price in her career. He Qing used to be a well-known and powerful actor, not only frequently appeared in the crews of the four famous novels, but also served as Anita Mui's stand-in in Zhang Yimou's movies.
However, after marrying Xu Yajun, she gradually faded out of the entertainment industry and focused most of her energy on her family.
In this way, quarrels arose, and finally in 2003, they signed a divorce agreement, and He Qing left the house with his son Xu He.
For Xu Yajun, this is the third divorce in his life, and from then on, he will also become a single father.
After the divorce, Xu Yajun continued to focus on his career, taking care of his son Xu He while running around the major crews. However, the loneliness in his heart cannot be filled by work, and he still longs to find true love and have a complete family.
On this long road of searching, by chance in 2006, Xu Yajun met his fourth wife, Zhang Shu. At that time, Zhang Shu was known as "Anita Mui" because of his striking resemblance to the late superstar Anita Mui, and he was also well-known in the circle.
But she didn't care too much about this nickname, but was deeply attracted by Xu Yajun's pure personality charm.
The reason why the two met was because of a common sports hobby - golf. Xu Yajun, who was celibate, became obsessed with the sport and often played on the court.
And Zhang Shu is also a golf enthusiast, so the two became friends with each other on the court.
In the back and forth exchanges, Zhang Shu was gradually impressed by Xu Yajun's steady, mature, humble and polite. She found that this man, who was 12 years older than herself, looked majestic on the outside, but was full of warmth on the inside.
Especially when she learned that Xu Yajun was divorced and had a son, she admired his dedication and dedication to his family and children even more.
Gradually, a step-by-step love began in this way. The two even starred in the family ethics drama "Forgiveness" together, and in getting along in and out of the play, their feelings gradually sublimated, and love gradually grew.
For Xu Yajun, Zhang Shu is really a good wife who is considerate and nuanced. She can not only care for Xu He, a son who has been away from home for many years, but also share his worries and support his career development.
This tolerance and trust are what Xu Yajun has always lacked in his first three marriages.
In this way, a heartfelt love and cherishment finally gave birth to their determination to enter the palace of marriage. In 2009, 45-year-old Xu Yajun and 33-year-old Zhang Shu joined hands to prove their marriage, opening a new stage of life.
In the second year after marriage, Zhang Shu gave birth to a healthy and lively boy for Xu Yajun, and since then they have a complete family of four. In this family, there are not only Xu Yajun's energetic care when he was old, but also Zhang Shu's young and strong contributions, and two lovely children full of vitality and hope.
The hardships of life have been resolved by this strong family affection, and the tribulations of the past have finally ushered in a happy ending. In this way, Xu Yajun, who has experienced four wives and four marriages, finally found his own spiritual home and reaped a happy life.
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