When chasing dramas, it is clear that Fang Xiewen is sincere to Rose, but there is always a sense of awkwardness.
Yishu once said: "If a person's benefits are so many that they can't be said, others have to polish their tricks and look carefully." are just flesh and blood, they all have seven emotions and six desires, where can they be like this? ”
What Huang Yimei's father said was right,
Before getting married, Fang Xiewen always regarded roses as goddesses, never quarreled, and took the initiative to admit mistakes even if there were contradictions;
After getting married, Fang Xiewen seemed to feel that Rose couldn't escape, so he dared to quarrel with Rose, and even belittled and suppressed her.
Why is Fang Xiewen's good for roses to be low-cost ownership?
1. Before and after marriage, attitudes are very different
Before Fang Xiewen and Rose got married, they were never stingy with money: they rented a house for 1,500 yuan, but rented it to Rose at a low price of 800 yuan, and the rent was three years.
Obviously, this is Fang Xiewen's means of pursuing Rose, and after he lost his job, Rose also used money to support him to start a business.
After marriage, Fang Xiewen's attitude towards roses has changed dramatically.
When Rose bought a bouquet of flowers and went home, Fang Xiewen would say in a weird way who sent it?
At the beginning, he felt that Fang Xiewen was competing with Zhuang Guodong because he was jealous of a bouquet of flowers.
In the end, I found out that Fang Xiewen just used his "ex-boyfriend" as an excuse to better control the rose.
After Rose became pregnant, she was not allowed to touch her phone;
Without consulting with Rose, she quit her job directly;
ridiculed Rose for making little money and not expecting her to repay the loan;
Only stand in the mother's perspective and let Rose learn Korean;
……
One became a boss from scratch, and the other was forced to become a housewife.
In the relationship between husband and wife, Fang Xiewen seems to have become a stronger party, so he can order Rose to do things she doesn't like, make her compromise for the family, and even calculate interests.
2. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has never taken the initiative to mediate
When two people get married, it is essentially the union of two families.
Rose doesn't want a dowry, doesn't want a wedding, and simply marries Fang Xiewen.
This kind of behavior of going to the soup for love falls in the eyes of Fang Xiewen's mother:
The mother-in-law's attitude towards roses at the beginning was extremely bad, and when she saw roses buy flowers back after marriage, she blamed her for not being diligent and thrifty, and immediately sued her son.
The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has existed since ancient times.
If men don't know how to adjust from it, but subconsciously favor one side or the other, the contradiction will inevitably intensify.
Obviously, Fang Xiewen is partial to his mother.
From the perspective of TV series shooting, Fang Xiewen wants to empty his savings to buy a big house, and he is competing with Rose's ex-boyfriend.
If in real life, after a man gets married, he disregards his wife's wishes and is bent on changing to a big house, it is most likely because he wants to take his family over to live together.
There is nothing inherently wrong with the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law living together, but if the husband and wife do not discuss and let the man call the shots, conflicts will inevitably break out.
When a man and a woman get married, it is a process of breaking away from their original family and forming a small family.
In this process, if the man imposes the responsibility of filial piety on the woman, or ignores the conflict between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, and directly favors one party.
Then it is foreseeable that this marriage must be a chicken and a dog jumping, and it will be difficult to last long.
Do you think that Fang Xiewen and Rose's married life is close to reality? Is he wronged to become his ex-husband's brother?