Ha Ri so, in addition to her glamorous appearance and the label of "transgender", she is also an excellent singer and actress.
In order to love her, she bravely changed sex, and even gave up her good future, but in the end she still failed to save this marriage, and was abandoned by her husband because she could not have children.
The departure of her husband, coupled with the physical problems caused by sex reassignment surgery, made her want to commit suicide for a while.
So, after experiencing these hardships, what kind of trajectory has Ha Lixiu's life gowards?
Will she be able to find her own happiness again?
The statements in this article are based on reliable sources of information and are detailed at the end of the article.
Be brave to transgender for love
In 1975, Ha Ri-so was born into a wealthy family in South Korea.
Although he is a boy, he has been different from other boys since he was a child.
He doesn't like boys' games, but he is full of curiosity and yearning for feminine things.
After going to school, Ha Ri-so's gender recognition problem became more prominent.
He was reluctant to wear a boys' uniform, and always secretly wore a girl's uniform in his uniform.
I am even more reluctant to go to the toilet with boys, preferring to hold back.
These behaviors seem out of place in the eyes of their classmates, and even a little weird.
Soon, Ha Lixiu became the laughing stock of her classmates after dinner, and no one wanted to be friends with him.
With the onset of puberty, Ha Ri-so's feminine characteristics became more and more apparent.
He began to secretly take estrogen to make his skin more delicate and his voice softer.
When she was in middle school, an unexpected encounter made Ha Lixiu feel the throbbing of love for the first time.
It was a sunny afternoon, and Ha Ri-so met a boy on her way out of school.
The boy is tall and handsome, and he is very friendly to Ha Ri-so, and the two quickly get acquainted and become good friends who talk about everything.
However, when Ha Ri-so plucked up the courage to confess to the boy, she was brutally rejected.
The boy told her that he only regarded him as a good friend and that he couldn't accept a "woman who wasn't real".
This sentence, like a sharp blade, pierced Ha Lixiu's heart.
Only then did he realize that even if he liked someone again, she would never be able to get true love without a woman's body.
The abandonment of her boyfriend made Ha Lixiu fall into deep self-doubt.
He began to blame himself for his cowardice, for not being brave enough to pursue his true self.
This self-blame and pain accumulate over time, and eventually turn into a strong determination.
She is going to have sex reassignment surgery and become a real woman.
However, sex reassignment surgery is not only expensive but also very risky.
Ha Ri-so's parents couldn't accept this decision at all, and even threatened to break off the relationship.
But Ha Ri-so's determination has been made, she secretly went to Japan to work without telling her parents, and began to save money to prepare for surgery.
In Japan, Ha Ri Xiu lived a very hard life, working in factories during the day and singing in bars at night.
Although she lives in poverty, the thought of becoming a real woman in the future makes Ha Ri so full of strength.
Finally, in 1999, Ha Ri-so saved enough money for the surgery and completed sex reassignment surgery in a hospital.
When she wakes up from the operating room and sees herself in the mirror, Ha Ri-so feels happier and relieved than ever.
She returned to her boyfriend full of joy, looking forward to his joy and acceptance.
However, reality hit her hard again.
Not only did her boyfriend not accept her, but he disliked her as an "artificial woman" and turned around and left.
When her parents learned the truth, they were also furious and scolded her for discrediting the family and being a "monster".
Faced with the double betrayal of love and family affection, Ha Ri so completely collapsed.
She fell into deep self-doubt and despair, and the heart-rending pain almost swallowed her up.
In that darkest hour, it was music that saved her.
Ha Ri-so began to write songs frantically, using her singing voice to vent her inner anguish.
Gradually, she found solace in music and rekindled hope for life.
She decided to use her own strength to prove that transgender people can live a wonderful life and have a shining life.
Become a top star
One day, Ha Ri-so was wandering the streets, and a talent scout was attracted by her outstanding appearance and came up to talk to her.
The scout praised Ha Lixiu for her delicate facial features and tall figure, which is very suitable for being a star.
At first, Ha Ri-so will be skeptical of the scout's words.
She can't believe that a transgender person can really gain a foothold in the entertainment industry?
However, the sincerity and enthusiasm of the scout touched her.
He told Ha Ri-so that in the entertainment industry, unique personal experiences are sometimes an advantage.
As long as she is willing to work hard and pay, she will definitely be able to break out of her own world.
The encouragement of the scouts rekindled Ha Ri-so's enthusiasm for life.
She decided that she must seize this opportunity to prove herself and the value of transgender people with her strength.
Under the arrangement of the talent scout, Ha Lixiu began systematic performance training, learning to sing, dance, and act, and strive to improve her artistic quality.
Hard work pays off. In 2000, Ha Ri so officially debuted and released her first album.
With her outstanding appearance and unique personal experience, she quickly attracted the attention of the media and the general public.
Her singing voice is ethereal and moving, her dancing is beautiful and moving, and with that delicate face, she has become the brightest new star in the entertainment industry.
However, the road to fame is never easy.
As a transgender singer, Ha Ri so faces far more doubts and attacks than ordinary people.
Some people say that she relies on "transsexuality" to attract attention, some people say that she is "polluting" the entertainment industry, and some people viciously curse her, saying that she is a "monster".
In the face of these controversies and attacks, Ha Ri-so did not back down.
She knew that if she wanted to gain a foothold in this circle, she had to have extraordinary strength and courage.
As a result, she worked harder, constantly improving her singing and dancing skills, and tried more different styles and dance styles.
She has also ventured into the film and television industry, participating in films and TV series, showing her multifaceted talent.
Gradually, with the accumulation of works and the improvement of word of mouth, Ha Lixiu's position in the entertainment industry has also been increasingly consolidated.
She is no longer just a "transgender singer", but a real artist.
She grew in fame, gained more and more fans, and became a household name.
The end of a ten-year marriage
In 2007, Ha Ri-so's life ushered in another important moment.
She married singer Jung Young-jin and became an enviable "talented woman" in the entertainment industry.
Jung Young-jin is gentle and considerate, and takes good care of Ha Ri-so.
At the wedding, the two held hands, looked at each other and smiled, happy and sweet, like a prince and princess in a fairy tale.
However, the good married life soon faced a test.
Because of the special physiological structure, Ha Ri so is unable to have children.
This is undoubtedly a heavy blow to couples who are eager to have children.
After careful consideration, they decided to adopt a child as a way to make up for their regrets and complete the family.
However, when the staff learned of Ha Ri-so's special situation, they politely refused.
This result hit the two hard.
As time passed, the relationship between the two began to crack.
Jung Young-jin longs to have a child of his own, and Ha Ri-so's inability to have children has become an eternal pain in his heart.
At the same time, the side effects of hormone therapy also made Ha Lixiu's appearance begin to change.
She began to lose weight, her skin became rough, and she even showed symptoms of baldness.
Ha Lixiu, who was once glamorous, gradually became old and haggard.
Jung Young-jin began to frequently stay home at night, and there were even scandals about the affair.
And Ha Lixiu, in endless self-blame and despair, gradually lost the courage to live.
She began to drink heavily and even had suicidal thoughts.
In 2017, the news of domestic violence brought this marriage to a complete end.
It turned out that after a drunken time, Jung Young-jin beat Ha Ri-so and beat her all over her body.
After this incident was exposed by the media, it caused a huge sensation.
In June of the same year, the two officially announced their divorce, ending the marriage that lasted only ten years.
After the divorce, Jung Young-jin soon remarried another woman and soon welcomed a child of his own.
When she heard the news, Ha Ri-so felt heartache, but she still chose to bless her.
She understands that she can't give Jung Young-jin the life he wants, and that he has the right to pursue his own happiness.
Looking for true love again
The failure of her ten-year marriage has brought great trauma to Ha Lixiu's body and mind.
At one point, she fell into deep self-doubt and despair, feeling like a "defective product" who did not deserve love.
However, time eventually healed the pain.
With the encouragement and support of relatives and friends, Ha Lixiu gradually came out of the haze.
She began to re-examine her life and began to learn to love and accept herself.
She understands that she is a unique and precious being, both as a man and as a woman.
In 2020, by chance, Ha Ri so met a successful entrepreneur.
The entrepreneur is humble and gentle, and has shown great understanding and tolerance for Ha Ri-so's past.
Under his care and care, Ha Ri-so once again unloaded her guard and started a new relationship.
However, the sequelae of sex reassignment surgery have become an insurmountable obstacle for Ha Ri-so.
Frequent hormonal treatments have made her body function worse.
She began to experience symptoms such as osteoporosis, heart disease, and even the threat of cancer.
But Ha Ri so was not knocked down by the illness. With the support of her lover, she is determined to live well for the rest of her life.
She began to travel frequently to see this beautiful world.
She also began to try new things, learn painting, yoga, and feel the color of life.
In the company of her lover, Ha Ri-so rediscovers the meaning of life.
epilogue
Today's Ha Lixiu is no longer the helpless little boy, nor is she the controversial transgender actress. She is herself, a brave, strong, loving being.
Her life is an inspirational legend about self-acceptance and courage. Her story will always inspire those who are confused and hesitant on the road of life, encourage them to be brave and be themselves, to pursue their inner desires, to create their own gorgeous life.
[References]
China News Network-August 27, 2010-"Ha Lixiu Encounters Baldness and Busy Plastic Surgery and Hair Transplantation, Open Transgender Club Rejuvenation"