This life is like walking on a long road with no end in sight.
Some people say, "When people reach fifty-five, the king of Hades counts", although this sounds a little pessimistic, but it also expresses some real insights in the journey of life.
Fifty-five years old seems to be a turning point in life, beyond which people can't help but think: how far can I go? What is the next step?
1. The first hurdle in life: 55 years old
Fifty-five years old, for many people, is an age to carry on the past and the future.
This year, you may have gone through half a lifetime of ups and downs, accumulated a certain amount of wealth and experience, or you may be facing both physical and psychological challenges.
At this age, the body's functions begin to decline gradually, and the metabolism is not as vigorous as when it was younger.
I used to stay up all night without feeling tired, but now I may be languishing all day because of a night of insomnia.
Here's the body's first warning to you: it's time to start focusing on your health.
Fifty-five years old is also a psychological juncture in life.
You begin to look at your past and think about what the future holds.
Achievements or frustrations at work, joys and sorrows in the family, are magnified during this period.
Many people fall into a sense of confusion and anxiety about the future, not knowing how long they will live and what their next goals will be.
But the age of fifty-five is not the end of life, but a new beginning.
It reminds you to start cherishing your body more and focusing on a healthy lifestyle.
At the same time, it's time to reimagine the future and find your new direction and purpose in life.
2. The second hurdle in life: 73 years old
If the age of 55 is the first hurdle in life, then the age of 73 is undoubtedly the second threshold that is difficult to cross.
In traditional Chinese culture, the saying "seventy-three, eighty-four, the king of Hades does not call himself" is widely circulated, and although there is no scientific basis for this, it reflects a certain fear of this age.
By the age of seventy-three, the decline in bodily functions is even more pronounced, and many people begin to feel the relentlessness of the years.
What was once done easily can now become overwhelming.
But more importantly, people in this age group tend to face more psychological problems.
Negative emotions such as loneliness, fear of death, and confusion about life may ensue.
However, seventy-three is not the finish line of life.
Rather, it may symbolize a new beginning.
People in this age group usually have more leisure and freedom, which gives them the opportunity to explore personal interests and hobbies that were previously too busy with work and family life.
They may choose to learn a new trade, or they may be keen to participate in volunteering and contribute to society.
These activities not only enrich their lives, but also give them a deeper meaning in life.
3. The third hurdle in life: 84 years old
Eighty-four is a distant age for most people.
But if you've been lucky enough to make it this far, congratulations, you've surpassed most people's life course.
At this age, the body may no longer be your "friend".
All sorts of geriatric ailments can start to find you, and every fall can mean a long period of bed recuperation.
But remember, physical aging does not mean mental decline.
Life at the age of eighty-four is more of a spiritual inheritance and accumulation of wisdom.
You can share your experiences and stories with the younger generation and be a guiding light in their lives.
At the same time, you can also take advantage of the tranquility and calmness that characterize this age to explore areas that were not touched when you were younger.