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Text: A window of history
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Let's talk about those "old scalpers" born in 1961, speaking of which, these people are really an indispensable landscape in our lives.
You must know that in these years, the label of "cattle" always seems to have such a taste of diligence and hard work, which makes people have to respect it.
However, then again, in their later years, what is the fate of these "old scalpers"? Let's take a look at it today, it's purely a melon-eating mentality, and it's a lively picture, after all, life is varied, and each has its own way of living.
First of all, I have to say that this 1961 cattle man, when he was young, he was really running for the family, and he didn't worry about the children's affairs, thinking that he would be able to enjoy the blessings in his later years.
As a result, sometimes things backfire, the children have stiff wings one by one, fly far away, busy with work and love, and seem to forget that there are still two pairs of expectant eyes at home in a blink of an eye.
No, the old cows are inevitably a little empty in their hearts, feeling that their children are thin, and they are a little more lonely in their later life.
In this world, filial children are precious everywhere, and I hope that every family can have one or two intimate little padded jackets.
Moreover, we have to beware of those bleak stories.
These friends who belong to the ox are straightforward and good-hearted, and they always think that they can live a leisurely life in their later years, but they know that the reality is that they are a master who loves to joke.
Sometimes, life is like a sudden storm, which not only tests people's bodies, but also baptizes people's hearts again and again.
The financial constraints, physical pain, and the loneliness of the absence of the children are really distressing to watch.
Sometimes, people have to go through something to understand what it means to "life is like tea, and it is sweet after suffering", but this time the sweetness comes later, and the price is greater.
When it comes to health, that's a big deal.
As I get older, all parts of my body begin to make noise, and "geriatric diseases" such as arthritis, high blood pressure, and diabetes are like uninvited guests.
What's even more anxious is that these older generation of people, believing that "medicine is not as good as food", always feel that Chinese medicine is omnipotent, but as a result, sometimes it delays the best time for formal treatment, and the disease is getting worse and worse.
It has to be said that the times have changed, and the concept has to change with it, health first, scientific treatment is king.
Having said so much, in fact, in life, whether it is a cow or a monkey, they all have their own joys, sorrows, ups and downs.
For those "old scalpers" who are experiencing the challenges of life in their later years, in addition to being distressed, we should give understanding and encouragement.
After all, no matter how difficult life is, you still have to move forward, right?
Finally, I would like to say that destiny is determined by heaven and fortune is made by oneself.
No matter how the script of fate is written, we must learn to face it with a smile, cherish every minute and every second of the moment, and be grateful for the bits and pieces of life.
Go with the flow and keep an open-minded and optimistic heart, maybe in this way, even in adversity, you can feel the beauty of life and find your own happiness and satisfaction.
As for those controversies and discussions, leave it to time, after all, everyone's life is a unique landscape painting, which is worth savoring.
Let's continue to talk, just now we talked about the ox friends born in 1961, some of the challenges they may encounter in their later years, such as the lack of children's companionship, the difficulty of life, and the trouble of physical health.
These situations do sound quite worrying, but we also have to look at them objectively, after all, everyone's life is written by themselves, and the ups and downs are the spices of life.
Imagine that when you were young and strong, the "Niu Buddies" and "Niu Sisters" in 1961 were famous for their ability to endure hardships and work hard.
In the spring breeze of reform and opening up, many of them were the first to go to the sea to do business, or they worked diligently at their posts to contribute to the construction of the country.
At that time, they may have thought relatively simply, thinking that as long as they work hard, they will be able to enjoy their old age in retirement in the future.
Who would have thought that the times are changing too fast, when children grow up, they are busy in their own way, and the social pressure is not small, sometimes it is not that they don't want to be filial, but they really can't find time to accompany them.
Speaking of this, I remembered my neighbor's Lao Li, who is also a cow.
When he was young, he was the technical backbone of the factory, and after retirement, his children all started a family in other places, and he and his wife were left at home.
It stands to reason that this should be the age to enjoy family fun, but Lao Li often walks alone in the community, occasionally plays chess in the park, and doesn't talk much, but there is always a trace of loneliness in his eyes.
But Lao Li also has his stubbornness, unwilling to cause trouble to the children, every time the children call, they always report good news and not bad news, saying that everything is okay, so that they can rest assured.
This is probably the "bull temper" of that generation, who would rather carry it themselves than burden their children.
Physical health is a big problem.
We all know that when you are older, all kinds of problems are easy to find at your door.
Lao Li was diagnosed with diabetes last year, and at first insisted that he could get better by drinking some Kuding tea, but later under the repeated persuasion of community doctors, he began to take medicine regularly and have regular check-ups.
Now, Lao Li is more energetic, and he often shares his sugar control experience in the community's WeChat group, and has become a well-known "health consultant".
You see, this shows that concepts have to keep up, and the body is the capital of the revolution, and it must be treated scientifically.
Of course, we can't just focus on the bad side.
Some friends who belong to the ox, although they have encountered such and such challenges, they have a good attitude and actively deal with them.
Some taught themselves to use computers, surfed the Internet, and video chatted with their grandchildren, enjoying themselves; Some joined the university for the elderly, learned painting and calligraphy, and fulfilled their dreams when they were young; Others became community volunteers, helping their neighbors and finding new value in life.
This shows that the key to how you live in your later years depends on how you live.
Therefore, while the people who eat melons are watching, we must also learn some lessons from it.
It's not that we can sit back and relax when we're young, but we have to plan ahead, whether it's physical health, financial arrangements, or emotional communication with our families, we have to be mindful.
At the same time, you must also have a positive attitude, live to learn, don't let yourself be eliminated by the times, and don't let your life lose color.
Born in 1961, the Ox people have both challenges and highlights in their later life, and the key lies in how to face and adjust.
Life is not easy for each of us, but as long as there is light in our hearts, there is a road under our feet.
As for the arrangement of fate, let it go with the wind, we have to learn to be the master of life and live our own wonderful.
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