In recent years, class reunions have become less and less common. And it's one thing to hold it or not, and even if it does, there are fewer and fewer people who go to participate. Why is this so? It turns out that everything is for a reason.
I've found that when you're old, it's best not to go to class reunions!
It's a class reunion, but it's more like a comparison. Young class reunions compare themselves, and old class reunions compare their offspring.
The original intention of holding a class reunion was originally because everyone used to study together, and it can be regarded as a relatively deep friendship between classmates, so a party was held to let everyone get together to meet each other, and also miss the good memories of studying together.
However, today, the current class reunion feels slowly becoming sour, because after graduation, they go their own way, and different classmates have different family backgrounds, and everyone's abilities and lives are different. Therefore, after graduation, some people mix very well, while some people don't mix well.
It is precisely because of the differences that when you get together again, the good ones may show off there, and they like to compare there. It's not that you won't show off when you reach the old age, in fact, the class reunion in the old age may not show off yourself, but some people will also show off their offspring.
Class reunions in the elderly stage do not have much interest exchange value, that is to say, they do not have much meaning.
Whether it is a class reunion or making friends in life, the reason why two people are relatively close to each other is sometimes because of the problem of interests, that is to say, there is an intersection of interests between the two parties, and it is profitable to say that it is not good. If the other party has no interest in us, or even if the other party just wants to take advantage of us, then these two people will basically not become friends, and they will not get too close at all.
The point is that when we reach the old age, the friendship between classmates has long since faded after so many years, and even almost non-existent. Therefore, if there is something busy between old classmates, the other party may not be able to help.
This also means that the reunion between old classmates does not have much meaning, at most everyone gets together to chat and have a meal, which basically does not help much in life.
It is not easy for the elderly to save some money, and some money is really not necessary to spend.
Not everyone is particularly rich, and many people lament that money is not easy to earn, and some elderly people are facing the pressure of providing for the elderly. There are also some retirees who feel that their pension is too small to spend. Therefore, for many elderly people, it is not so easy to save a little money in their pockets, so their savings have to be spent on the blade, and some unnecessary money is not wanted to be spent.
For example, spending money to attend a class reunion, for the elderly who are a little financially stressed, there is really no great need to attend.
Especially for this kind of gathering after many years, many people pay more attention to the so-called pomp, so the food may be very expensive, and the wine may have to be drunk very well. So in the end, if you want AA to pay, you may have to pay a lot of money. So for the elderly who don't have much money, instead of spending so much money to attend this kind of party, it is better to take some money to improve their lives.
It is easy to cause trouble to children.
If we reach the stage of old age, then our children are basically considered to have entered the stage of middle age, and some of the young people in the middle age stage have successful careers, some people experience the crisis of mid-life unemployment, and some people are worried about finding a job.
Then when we go to the so-called senior class reunion, like some people who are not very sensible and selfish, they will not think about you so much, they will think that everyone is an old classmate anyway, so they should help each other, so they may think that they want your son to introduce him to a good job, or ask your son to help him with something.
It's a little embarrassing to refuse at this time. But if you don't refuse, it's not appropriate. After all, asking our son to help his son is equivalent to us causing trouble for our children. Therefore, in order to avoid these unnecessary troubles, it is better not to go to the class reunion in the elderly stage.
If you don't mix well, it is easy to cause yourself to feel unhappy.
Especially after retirement, as long as they get together, many people especially like to inquire about each other's pension, pension treatment and so on.
If we don't mix well, or if our retirement benefits are relatively low, or even if we don't have a pension at all. And then in front of those classmates who are better mixed, there will be some imbalance in my heart.
Because sometimes I think, why can you still receive such a high pension when you retire? And we ourselves have worked hard all our lives, but we can only take such a little? Therefore, there may be an imbalance in the heart, so there is no need to find yourself unhappy.