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"My girlfriend asked, can our family give 420,000 dowry?"
If she could, she would continue to date me, and if she couldn't, she would break up with me and not want to waste any more time.
Li Jiajie asked his parents directly, and he felt that the 420,000 bride price was not much.
"It costs 420,000 dowries for a month of acquaintance, and your family's money is blowing in the wind, and we haven't even seen her face."
The mother is angry, and the son who can't hold up the wall is about to make her angry.
If you don't agree, she won't follow you......
01
I am 51 years old this year, I have been married to my husband for many years, and my son is 26 years old this year.
But the girlfriend he made was really disgusting from the bottom of his heart, and after only knowing each other for a month, he talked about the bride price directly, and he asked for 420,000 yuan.
The point is that the girl never came to the house from beginning to end. As a parent, I haven't even seen my son's girlfriend, but I have to agree to her first condition, and I really use my home as an ATM.
My husband and I graduated from high school and came out to work hard, because we had no education and technology, we could only ride a tricycle, collect waste in the streets and alleys, collect waste from house to house, pedal the tricycle every day, have back pain, and the bitterness is falling apart.
Sometimes when I come back from collecting the paper, it rains heavily halfway, and I am very desperate, and the paperskin is rained and becomes very heavy, and it takes a lot of effort to drag it to the recycling station.
Later, my husband and I went to the outskirts of the city and found that there were very few scrapyards there, so we rented a house and opened our own scrap recycling station.
But the two of them are still the same as before, collecting waste everywhere, and getting acquainted with every household in the nearby area, where there are fewer communities and more private houses, but fortunately, there is less competition and the income is okay.
It really depends on luck to make money.
After more than a year, the houses in the nearby community began to be delivered, and we found a business opportunity.
The owners of the community want to decorate the house, and many people want to demolish the balcony, seal the balcony, install guardrails, etc., and someone needs to help remove some of the original guardrails.
My husband and I went to print business cards overnight, and then we went to each house to place cards, and we could recycle guardrails, paper and other waste products and recycle them at home.
My husband also found a store to cooperate with with an anti-theft net, and the owner needs to seal the balcony and install the anti-theft net, and he will refer them to him, and we will get a commission.
In this way, in the past ten years, 6-7 nearby communities have successively delivered houses, and my husband and I have also earned a lot, bought 3 suites and 2 shops, accumulated a lot of customers, and stabilized business.
This kind of life is not easy to come by, it is all spelled out with both hands, although it is not a rich family, but it is more than enough than the top, and my husband and I cherish it very much.
02
However, without the economic pressure, there are other problems.
Because he was busy with business and neglected his son's education over the years, he didn't study well at all, and he was even admitted to high school.
We knew the helplessness of not having a degree, so we let him go to a vocational and technical school, not expecting him to earn a lot of money, just have a stable job, and help him with the house and car.
But his son (Li Jiajie) is not angry, after graduation, he is idle every day, and he will quit if he can do a job for a maximum of 3 months.
It's not that he dislikes the low salary and tired work, or that the leader is unhappy with him.
"We can't always get used to him and stop all his living expenses", I discussed with my husband that he should be self-reliant and learn to be independent.
In this way, my son did not have our financial support, so he could only go to work and find a job in procurement, with a salary of 5,000 yuan a month, which was quite stable, but he often had to run the market.
For the convenience of work, my son offered to buy a car in the hope that we could sponsor him, and this was for work.
I thought, it's not impossible, I plan to buy him a car of more than 100,000 yuan, just travel. His salary of 5,000 is a problem for maintaining a car.
What I didn't expect was that Li Jiajie, a son who is not fuel-efficient, took the money we gave and took a loan to buy a car worth more than 300,000 yuan, and the loan interest rate was quite high.
When my father saw such a high interest rate, he took the money to repay the loan in advance, and was so angry that the two of us didn't talk to our son for a week.
However, he can work with peace of mind, and the car will be a gift to him, so he can only comfort himself in this way.
03
Last week, my son suddenly told us that he had a girlfriend and had been together for almost a month.
The girl is a local, 3 years younger than him, and has a younger brother at home.
Her requirements for marriage are not low, she has a car, a house, and a dowry of 420,000 yuan, and only when these conditions are met can she continue to have a relationship with her son.
If they can't meet her conditions, the girls don't want to delay their time, and their local girls have basically the same requirements.
In addition to the bride price, Li Jiajie met all other conditions, so she contacted her son first to try, and after a month like this, I felt okay, so I asked about the bride price to see if the parents agreed.
I asked my son how much he knew about his girlfriend, her education, family background and personality.
The son spat and said, "It's good that the two of us are together, why do you ask so much." ”
I'm not angry, is this called falling in love, come up and talk about the conditions, it's more realistic than a blind date, where is there any emotion at all, I'm worried that he will be used.
Although we take out the bride price money, we have earned it hard, and we can't just take it out and give it to others.
It's a good thing that you talk about the object, but we are a family of our duty, not to mention finding a girl who can accompany you to endure hardships and work hard, at least you need a girl with good views.
04
Drive a car of more than 300,000 yuan. will attract these unserious girls.
I don't agree with the bride price. My husband didn't speak, and he felt unreliable in his heart.
It's not that we can't get 420,000 yuan at home, so why can't we agree...... My son was so angry that he quarreled with me and had to run away from home.
We've all lived together, so I've got to be responsible for her.
"Which of you took the initiative?" I picked up the guy and wanted to hit Li Jiajie, but my husband quickly stopped me.
"If you like it, you can be together, what is the ...... of taking the initiative or not"
After speaking, my son put down his cruel words, if you don't agree, I won't come back, you can live by keeping your money.
Then, the son took the car keys and went out, for more than a week, he really didn't go home to live, I don't know if he was with his girlfriend?
My husband and I also discussed, should we compromise? But I'm worried that he's lying to us asking for money, maybe he doesn't have a girlfriend? Maybe my girlfriend isn't a good girl?
05
Follow-up: My son still didn't come back, so I called him to go home and discuss it again, but he didn't listen at all.
In this case, my husband and I decided to take back the car directly and let him continue to pretend to be a local tyrant.
If he hadn't driven the car, the girl wouldn't have looked at him at all.
As for his marriage, he still has to think about it in the long run, and would rather get married on a blind date than this kind of fishing girl who has never seen him in person.
Sometimes, I have to say that if the child is not defeated, in fact, life is very good.
Everything that parents work so hard for, children are unreliable, and wealth cannot be retained, education is really important.