At the moment when my mother scolded me, I completely broke down and cried, wondering why my dear mother became like this? Why do people get older and more selfish and mean?
My name is Wang Juan, I am 60 years old this year, my mother is 90 years old this year, three years ago, my mother was diagnosed with uremia, and I need to do dialysis to maintain my life as an adult.
I have five sisters, one sister and one brother, and two younger brothers.
In the nineties, the efficiency of the unit was not good, our husband and wife were laid off, in order to live, there was no way to start renting a store, starting a business, at that time there was no money in my hand, not even the capital, it was my mother who took me 20,000 yuan.
Later, when the store expanded and the funds in my hands were tight, my mother reached out to me and raised money to support and encourage me.
So far, I have opened several chain stores, and I would not have been able to achieve this without the support of my parents.
Even when my father was alive, my mother supported me the most, and more than ten years ago, when my father was paralyzed in bed, I was busy with business, so I hurriedly went to see what I did for a while and left.
At that time, my mother took care of me a lot, and my mother was always afraid of delaying my business, so she would drive me away as soon as she went.
Later, my father left, I regretted it, I felt guilty, why couldn't I accompany my father more, "the tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the son wants to raise but does not wait".
I filled this guilt to my mother, since my father left, I have been doubly good to my mother, no matter how busy the business is, I go to see my mother twice a day, and I am willing to spend as much money as I eat and drink.
When my mother was getting older and more hypocritical, I was coaxing her to accompany her, and when I needed to do dialysis three years ago, my brother and sister wanted to give up treatment, so I called my fourth aunt and asked her to put pressure on my brother.
In the past three years, my mother has gone to the hospital for dialysis three times a week, and my husband has been driving back and forth, rain or shine, and the other sisters have taken turns to accompany her.
I don't have any parents-in-law anymore, and my mother is the only one left with the two old people, so I will accompany her more, and after going to inspect work every day, I will go to my mother's place every day to sit for a while.
Go to my mother to do more filial piety, to make up for my father's regrets, thinking of my father, but also my regret, at that time my father always asked: Juan, when will you buy a car? Let me sit down?
But at that time, it was the time of development, and I didn't have too much spare money to buy a car, which became a regret in my heart every time I thought about it.
For my mother, I don't want to have this regret anymore, these years, I put all my mind on my mother, I haven't even taken care of my grandson, except for work, the rest of the time is spent with my mother, I usually eat and drink to see a doctor and take medicine, and how much money I spend.
At the end of March, my mother suddenly fell ill and was sent to the intensive care unit of the hospital for rescue, my brothers and sisters were discussing my mother's funeral, only I was praying, praying that God would bless my mother to get better soon.
After my mother came back, the five of us sisters took turns to serve in the hospital, but it was not my turn, and I also came to the hospital every day to see my mother.
In the blink of an eye, my mother has been in the hospital for two or three months, and she has taken turns to take care of her in the hospital for the past few months, and she has been transferred to the hospital twice.
The mother is thin and weak, lying in bed, eating, drinking, and Lazar rely on people to serve, and they all say that old children and old children, the older they get, the more phantom they become, and the mother is becoming more and more picky and difficult to serve.
After a few months, the sisters also waited for the suffering, thinking that this was their old mother, and no matter how critical they were, they couldn't take it seriously.
After the hospital treatment, I was not allowed to live in the hospital, but how could I go home in such a situation as my mother? We are all sixty or seventy years old, who can hold her and who can carry her when we go to dialysis?
I really had no choice, so I got to live in the nursing home, afraid that she would not be used to the food there, so she took turns to go to the hospital to take care of her and buy her food and drink.
But my mother is getting more and more noisy, eating and eating all day long, no matter day and night, she can't bear it anymore at such an old age, but what can I do? My own old man, my own habit.
But this time, my mother really hurt me so much, I never thought that my mother would scold me for such vicious words: "Go out and let the car hit you and kill you."
Is this still my mother? I am my mother's favorite little padded jacket, I have never criticized me, for so many years, I have taken care of her wholeheartedly, but I didn't expect to be scolded for letting me die one day.
My mother also scolded the other sisters, but I still didn't expect that it would also fall on me, hearing this, at that moment I couldn't bear it anymore, tears flowed down, three watches in the middle of the night, called my sister, crying to tell my sister.
I don't know why my mother is confused like this, I don't know why people are so selfish when they are old? Not thinking about your children's feelings at all?
Is it true that people are like this when they get old? If I am afraid of growing old, and none of our five sisters can take care of her alone, and I only have one son and daughter-in-law, what will I do when I grow old in the future?