Rose married Fang Xiewen, purely to heal the wounds of her first love.
Fang Xiewen married a rose, it was really high.
Since getting married, Fang Xiewen has committed three sins in this marriage:
1. Make decisions privately, without consulting with roses.
privately resigned from Huang Yimei's job, privately asked her mother not to say anything in advance, and privately decided to buy a big house without listening to Huang Yimei's advice.
2. Monitor Huang Yimei
Fang Xiewen asked his mother to come, mainly to watch Huang Yimei not mess with flowers and grass, and then to take care of her body.
Fang Xiewen installed the positioning on Huang Yimei's mobile phone, which is extremely hateful.
Fang Xiewen always asked his mother, and even asked Taichu, who Huang Yimei was with and what she had done.
Fang Xiewen couldn't take his eyes off Huang Yimei's body for a moment, otherwise he would go crazy, always thinking that Huang Yimei was fooling around with other men.
3. Confiscation of money
Huang Yimei followed Fang Xiewen, and the only change on his body was looted by him, and he didn't even have the money to buy flowers, so he could only buy a cauliflower.
Fang Xiewen kept saying that his money was all for Huang Yimei, but he took all the shares for himself.
However, Huang Yimei and Fang Xiewen also did two very good things in their marriage:
1. The male protagonist is outside and the female protagonist is inside
If there is no Fang Xiewen's neuroticism, Huang Yimei and Fang Xiewen can be regarded as talented women.
Fang Xiewen graduated from Fudan University in computer science, and after graduation, he started his own business and set up a company.
Huang Yimei, a heartthrob with high emotional intelligence, can stand up and help her husband start a business together when he has an employment crisis.
Fang Xiewen's career has soared; Huang Yimei is in the house, everything is done in an orderly manner, so that Fang Xiewen can feel warm when he goes home.
Huang Yimei and Fang Xiewen are not afraid of living in such a small space, they work hard and will inevitably live happily.
As the saying goes: behind every successful man there is a woman who silently supports his greatness.
Fang Xiewen can manage this marriage well. It's a pity!
2. Avoid children when quarrelling
In the later marriage between Huang Yimei and Fang Xiewen, Huang Yimei saw Fang Xiewen's face clearly, no longer tolerated it, and the two began to quarrel.
But every time he quarreled, he broke up his daughter Fang Taichu.
Huang Yimei wore a skirt to the interview, Fang Taichu insisted on letting her change her pants, Huang Yimei said:
"Are you sure you want to do this in front of your children?"
Fang Xiewen had no choice but to give up.
Every time Huang Yimei talked to Fang Xiewen about something bad, when she was angry, she would break Fang Taichu away and ask her to wash her hands or go back to her room.
When Huang Yimei talked to Fang Xiewen about divorce, she also asked Fang Taichu to go to Yueyue's house next door.
It is the children who hurt the most when couples quarrel.
Huang Yimei and Fang Xiewen still have a consensus on this point.
Write at the end
Since a person was born, her original family has always been with her, and in the relationship between husband and wife, parent-child relationship, the relationship between husband and wife is put in the first place.
Only when the relationship between husband and wife is good, children can learn how to love, just like Huang's father and mother, who are really a model of how to create a good original family.
Every relationship goes through four stages: expectation, disappointment to despair, acceptance to mutual appreciation.
Many people experience a time when they have great hopes for each other at the beginning, but they become more and more disdainful of each other day by day, and they will be separated.
And once you go through this stage, you know that in marriage, everyone is the greatest love for each other by doing their best, accept their other half, and slowly move towards mutual appreciation between the two parties, and the run-in period can be regarded as a good result.
In this marriage, Fang Xiewen turned Huang Yimei into an object for him and didn't let her be herself, on the contrary, Fang Xiewen's daily life is full of doubt and fear, not only Huang Yimei is depressed, but he himself is also easy to be irritable, which is not good.
Fang Xiewen couldn't accept his inferiority, and he couldn't tolerate Huang Yimei's beauty, he didn't understand the truth that the sand in his hand, the tighter he clutched, the less he felt.
Marriage is not easy, but it is done and cherished.
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