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Text: Mo Hanxue
Edited by Mo Hanxue
The content of this article is based on reliable sources of information and has been placed at the end of the article
[Preface]
He was an enviable 985 college student, or a rare scientific research reserve force in the country, when everyone thought that this was the beginning of Zhang Di's new life, who would have thought that God actually played a joke with him, he suffered from sudden leukemia.
Due to the torture of illness, Zhang Di lost his previous demeanor, and even his energetic parents were covered with sadness, but Zhang Di's parents knew that they could not give up.
However, Zhang Di's illness was menacing, and in desperation, Zhang Di decided to give up the next treatment, and left two sentences in the last days of his life, which caused countless speculations, so what does the meaning of the two sentences left by Zhang Di imply?
[Two sentences before dying]
If the biggest blow to a person is bankruptcy, then health problems will be an unsolvable proposition for a person, especially for a young person, no money and illness, which is not only psychological torture, but also physical torture.
When the disease begins to enter the countdown, it also means that a young life has entered the countdown, and Zhang Di is one of the examples.
He suffers from severe and critical leukemia, which had already cost his family a lot of money for the first treatment, and when leukemia hit Zhang Di again, he told his parents about his decision.
That is, he chose to give up treatment and then donate his body, Zhang Di's parents strongly opposed his choice at first, and comforted Zhang Di, even if he smashed the pot and sold iron, he must extend Zhang Di's lifeline.
According to the doctor's diagnosis, even if Zhang Di received a second treatment, it was only enough to last for more than half a year, and Zhang Di's body had been eroded by leukemia, and the doctor was powerless to recover.
Now that God has given Zhang Di a verdict, there is no need to spend it in the hospital, in Zhang Di's last days, he and his parents went to see the longing sea.
After returning from the beach, Zhang Di was much more calm in the face of life and death, but he still had an unfulfilled wish, that is, not to let his grandmother know about his condition.
And Zhang Di didn't want to make his grandmother sad, so he discussed with his parents, and after Zhang Di's grandmother asked Zhang Di's whereabouts, Zhang's parents told Zhang Di to study abroad.
Zhang Di and his grandmother have a deep relationship, and in the last period of their lives, they must have met each other, so when Zhang Di's grandmother learned that Zhang Di was going to study abroad, she was very excited.
Before Zhang Di arrived, he also made a table of his favorite dishes, and when Zhang Di saw his grandmother, although he still maintained a happy expression on his face, his heart was surrounded by a huge parting emotion.
Because he knew that this was the last time he saw his grandmother, when all his wishes had been fulfilled, Zhang Di began to prepare for body donation.
He believes that he has been educated for such a long time, and although he will have time to repay his parents for raising him in the future, he can use his body to promote research and progress in the field of leukemia in the medical field.
After learning the news that Zhang Di was going to donate his body, Zhang Di's father also adhered to his last wish and donated Zhang Di's organs, although this decision is unacceptable, but this is not another rebirth of his son.
The meaning of life is very complicated, and it is impossible for everyone to face it calmly, so as soon as Zhang Di's deeds were released, they resonated with the majority of netizens.
Naturally, it also attracted the media to come for interviews, and in the face of reporters' inquiries, Zhang Di only said one sentence, which probably means that life is only a moment, but it is better to leave some meaningful traces.
Because of the illness, Zhang Di witnessed the transformation of his parents from full of spirit to mental exhaustion, he didn't want his parents to work hard for him anymore, in an interview with the media, he said such a sentence: "I hope my parents can forget me."
Sometimes God is so ruthless, on May 7, 2019, Zhang Di, who was not yet 30 years old, said goodbye to his dear parents and went to another world.
Although Zhang Di left, the spirit he left behind was profound, so shortly after Zhang Di's death, Shenyang selected Zhang Di as "one of the top ten people who moved Shenyang".
This award seems meaningless, but in fact, for Zhang Di's family, this is a commemoration of Zhang Di, and it also means that netizens have not forgotten Zhang Di's contributions.
Because of the arrival of the award, it actually aroused everyone's "curiosity" about Zhang Di, so what kind of person was Zhang Di before his death?
【Zhang Di's Biography】
Zhang Di, like the general public, because the family's economic conditions are not very good, his parents have to choose to go out to work in order to change the family's economic situation.
Out of consideration for the family, Zhang Di's parents did not choose to take Zhang Di to the big city together, but left him in his hometown to live with his grandmother.
Although he lives with his grandmother, the whole family cares about Zhang Di's education very much, and in order to expand Zhang Di's horizons, his grandmother has told him stories of traditional Chinese culture since he was a child.
Under the influence of the family atmosphere, Zhang Di not only developed a gentle character, but also did not have to worry about his family in learning, and it was his gentle personality that attracted many peers, and many friends liked to play with Zhang Di.
Don't look at Zhang Di's young age, but he knows what he wants, after going to high school, Zhang Di has been studying hard, and he has achieved good results after the college entrance examination.
With excellent grades, Zhang Di was admitted to Northeastern University, and since entering the university, Zhang Di believes that his studies should not end here, and he has embarked on the road of study again.
Learning is a "difficulty" that Zhang Di must face, but learning pays attention to the combination of work and rest, sometimes when he is tired of studying, Zhang Di will also go out to exercise appropriately to find breathing space for tense nerves.
For the dream in his heart, Zhang Di is also willing to hold boring professional books, and soak in the library tirelessly all day long, but fortunately, the emperor lives up to his wishes, Zhang Di realizes his dream and is admitted to Shanghai Jiaotong University for a master's degree.
For a poor family, it is very difficult to train a master's degree, so when the news of Zhang Di's admission reached the family, the family was very happy.
It is precisely because of Zhang Di's excellent efforts that he has also become a "child of someone else's family" in the mouth of his neighbors, but Zhang Di, who was admitted to university not long ago, made a small plan for his future life.
He thought that after graduating and entering the society, while helping his parents reduce their financial pressure, he could also take his parents and grandmother out to see the great rivers and mountains of China.
Adhering to the practical dream, Zhang Di worked very hard at Shanghai Jiaotong University, in the school, he followed the mentor every day to carry out projects, for the future of life, Zhang Di in the school also participated in many competitions, and also won many professional awards.
With the blessing of professional awards, not only companies in Shanghai, but also some companies in other regions also want to invite Zhang Di to join at a high price, and for Zhang Di personally, he is more inclined to develop in Shanghai.
Therefore, he chose the invitation of the Shanghai Institute of Metrology, with a job to support his family and realize his personal ideals, Zhang Di can't wait to share the news with his family.
At first, he only thought it was caused by exhaustion, but the doctor's results made Zhang Di a little unacceptable!
【Sickness Experience】
When Zhang Di was about to go out to work as usual, he suddenly noticed a little red spot on his body, and he thought that maybe there was some small problem with his body, so he didn't pay much attention to it.
However, the small red dots develop quickly, and in less than a day, in addition to the small red dots found in the morning, similar small red dots appear in other parts of the body.
These small red dots are a little different from the common red dots, whether Zhang Di touches it or not, it will bleed, and at this time, Zhang Di realized that something was wrong.
In order to find out the cause of the small red spots on his body, after he explained the situation to the unit, he went to the hospital for an examination, and after arriving at the hospital, Zhang Di also specially explained to the doctor that it was the first time he had this kind of situation and had never seen it before.
After the doctor looked at the small red dots on his body, he always felt that something was wrong, but medicine pays attention to the basis of diagnosis, so the doctor suggested that Zhang Di do a blood test first to take a look.
If there is time, the doctor also recommended that Zhang Di do a comprehensive and detailed examination, and when all the results are out, the doctor gives a final judgment.
The result of the examination was that Zhang Di had leukemia, and the symptoms of leukemia were not mild, and the doctor hoped that Zhang Di would be hospitalized as soon as possible, but when he thought of his elderly parents, Zhang Di felt a little worried.
After many struggles, Zhang Di decided to be hospitalized first, but within a few days of hospitalization, Zhang Di's condition deteriorated rapidly, to put it simply, he must have a caretaker by his side.
At this time, it was unrealistic for Zhang Di not to inform his parents, he called his parents with a heavy heart, and Zhang Di's parents, who got the news, bought tickets overnight and came to Shanghai.
Although Zhang Di's parents were a little devastated when they saw their son for the first time, they quickly cleaned up their mood and asked the doctor if there was any way to save Zhang Di.
The doctor told Zhang Di's parents that the most suitable way was a bone marrow transplant, and the old couple did not hesitate to do bone marrow matching.
At first, the doctor did not recommend Zhang Di's father to have a bone marrow transplant, but Zhang Di's condition was too fierce, and the doctor had no choice but to agree to Zhang Di's father's request.
Zhang Di, who had undergone transplant surgery, was in good condition, and even the doctor said that there was great hope for recovery, which made Zhang Di's parents very excited, but the king of Hades did not intend to let Zhang Di go.
Not long after the operation, Zhang Di's leukemia recurred, this time trying to save Zhang Di's life, the doctor said it was difficult, after getting the news, Zhang Di thought that there was not much hope for treatment.
It's better to go home to accompany his parents more, so Zhang Di returned home and spent the last time of his life with his parents, I don't know if he has any regrets in his short life, but I hope he will stay away from illness in the "new life".
【Conclusion】
Disease is the natural enemy of human beings, and it is also the biggest "burden" that drags down a family, diseases are often unpreventable, and human life is only once, so take advantage of the limited time to fly.
I also hope that Zhang Di can find a new life path in the "new world", and I also hope that in this world, the "friends" he helped will continue his "new life" and move towards a better life.
[Information sources]
The Paper published on May 10, 2019 "Shanghai Jiao Tong University, who gave up treatment and donated his body... The last moments of life..."
On May 1, 2019, Observer.com published "29-year-old student with leukemia and gave up treatment, and his last wish in life is..."
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