As the old saying goes, "Pity the hearts of parents in the world"! However, the mother actually educated her daughter like this, is she afraid that her daughter will be "too happy"?
Netizens shouted: "I can't stand it, if my boyfriend is a leg, I'll run away!" ”
Recently, some netizens posted, "Mom taught me to test men!" Attracted countless netizens to complain! It's incredible! ”
Indeed, the ignorant mother actually used her daughter's happiness to satisfy her humble "vanity!" ”
If the blogger complains about his mother, he is "turning his elbow out"! That can only be said that this mother's behavior is really too much!
Here's the thing:
The blogger's mother called her, but she didn't expect her mother's words to make the blogger feel very bad!
The reason is that the blogger's mother has a broken phone and asked her boyfriend to help buy one!
Later, my mother gave the money to the blogger to buy a mobile phone and asked the blogger to transfer it to her boyfriend!
However, the blogger's mother's operation actually has ulterior motives!
On the phone, my mother asked the blogger: "Did your boyfriend take that money?" If you accept it, it can only be said that your boyfriend is really stingy, what is it for you to buy a mobile phone as a boyfriend and girlfriend? ”
While feeling sorry for his boyfriend, the blogger felt that his mother's words were really excessive!
It turned out that her mother treated her boyfriend like this more than once!
The blogger said that last year, her mother was hospitalized, and his mother told her not to tell her boyfriend! I didn't expect the blogger to believe it, but he really didn't mention it to his boyfriend!
However, her mother later found fault with this matter! I think my boyfriend must know about her hospitalization, and I don't say that I will call her to ask, or go and see her!
It's not just that, a very small thing can be picked on by the blogger's mother! For example, during the Chinese New Year, the blogger's mother was disappointed with her boyfriend because she didn't receive a blessing text message from her boyfriend!
Faced with such behavior, as a mother! actually proudly said: "This is testing a man for you!" ”
Seeing this, many netizens complained about this mother while complaining about the blogger's boyfriend!
"Is your parents' relationship really good? Why does your mother always have to find presence in your boyfriend? ”
"Your mother is not called a test, this is simply taking advantage, not enough!"
There are also many netizens who ridiculed:
"It's really a blessing for you to have a mother like that!"
"If you can, you'd better change your mother!"
There are also people who rationally analyze this mother's mentality:
"Your mother is a test, she wants to screen out a man who can give money to her father-in-law and mother-in-law, anyway, it is you and not her who have to pay the price!"
What people never expected was that what this netizen said spoke the blogger's heart!
In fact, as a parent, when the child reaches the age of talking about marriage! The first thing to consider is the character and character of the other party, not to do the so-called "test man" for the sake of his own little "vanity"!
In fact, there are many such mothers, such as:
Seeing such a post two days ago, it also made people "cry and laugh!" ”
Sure enough, the original family is really important to the education of children!
This blogger is a kind girl, after getting married, her in-laws are very good to her, and she also sees it!
However, her parents instigated her to "not be too good to her in-laws, her in-laws are unreliable, only they are her backers!" ”
But the reality is that when the blogger gets married, the blogger's parents don't give any of the gift money that the man gives to the woman!
In fact, as an adult, anyone's attitude towards themselves can be clearly felt! Some love is just lip service, some love is action!
Some people think that no one will be true to themselves, only themselves!
Such words make people feel a little "cold"!
In fact, people are mutual, you are good to me, and I am good to you! Trust your eyes, trust your feelings, and don't always listen to others!
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