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Ouch, this world is really getting more and more interesting, I heard that some male compatriots now, there is a pimple in their hearts: daughters-in-law don't go to work after marriage, why are they so entangled? I'm going to tell you about this today, and see what the hell is behind it.
One is willing to fight and one is willing to suffer, anyway, the result is the boy's own choice and responsibility, there is no harm to the interests of the people around him, adults will not take care of other people's affairs, like me, every day I see the village mouth like to say that other people's parents are short of long-tongued women and long-tongued men, I take a detour, finish my life, and I don't want to stretch out my hand so long to manage other people's affairs.
It turns out that many men want their wives to work full-time at home? I also said that my husband wanted me to stay at home full-time. And I, although I like the feeling of going to bed at no pressure, I am still afraid that one day I will lose my social value.
People have a lot of desires, but what's the use, what is really used is not the clothes you wear, the food you eat, the place you live without fear of losing social value, you can save the money your husband gives you. As long as there is no pressure in life, we are not afraid of having no place to live and no food, after all, we go to work and eat with money to rent a house to live in, so as not to starve to death and live on the streets, if we don't go to work, there is really no way to survive.
Judging from the points of admitting mistakes first in quarrels, having the ability to empathize, and being considerate of your wife, you are really a good person and wish you a happy life. The comment came from a man who couldn't stand it and was kicked out in the middle of the night, and today is the fifth day of the Cold War......
Good men always appear online, right? He was unemployed in the house he bought before marriage, my salary paid off the mortgage for him, his rest time was always to accompany his children, he went to work at two o'clock every day, and he couldn't get his respect, I should have done a lot of bad things in my last life, so I couldn't meet a man who was willing to put me at ease. (I used to be gentle, now I'm independent) and he made me understand that it's better to count on a man than on yourself.
It is true that many people don't believe that this consumption habit is not because of money, she is willing to spend for me, and the clothes she buys me are all brands, but she herself can't be convinced. So I changed another way to give her a sense of security, that is, the real estate was notarized and shared before marriage, and her name was written on the RV after marriage. But what you said is right, only by working hard to earn more can she understand that women should be better to themselves.
If you don't go to work, you can't wait for anything to happen, and you won't have rice next month. China's 600 million people have a monthly income of less than 1,000, but aren't you still moving forward in difficulty? Some women have a good life, can live in a wealthy family, and marry a solid in-law, but most women are ordinary families, ordinary appearance, ordinary diplomas, ordinary abilities, how can they do without working? You're saying like, why don't you eat minced meat
Brother, it's good to enjoy this model of your family, don't bring other people, the current society is much more complicated than before, people's hearts are not ancient, do you think there are still so many single-minded and ethical men and women? What if other men or women do what you do, and they end up breaking up and losing everything? Many people can't climb out of this pit in their lives, your model is too testing of human nature, and you also value character, and never hand over your fate to others, including spouses, whether male or female
Let's go back to the question at the beginning: Is it really so difficult for a daughter-in-law to not go to work after marriage? In fact, this matter is not so complicated, as long as two people can understand each other, support each other, and tolerate each other, then the family can live in harmony and be happy.
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