In the circle of the rich, three wives and four concubines have long been commonplace, as if a status symbol. And even in ordinary families, there are many cases where people have big and small wives, which has become a social phenomenon.
It was not until 1972, after a long and tortuous process, that the mainland finally made up its mind to completely abolish this system and completely get rid of its shackles. This historic policy decision marks the progress and development of mainland society and lays a solid foundation for future prosperity.
Prior to 1972, polygamy was practiced in Hong Kong and Macau, which meant that a man could legally have multiple wives. Although the Qing Dynasty was later repealed, the existing polygamous family was still socially recognized.
Polygamy has been expressly prohibited by law since 1972. However, in reality, some wealthy people still secretly practice "polygamy", such as the well-known gambling king Stanley Ho and actor Wu Mengda, who both have four partners, which continues this tradition to a certain extent.
In that special historical period in 1952, Yang Jiewei, an ordinary girl, was born in a social environment that had not yet abolished the polygamy system. With an ordinary identity, she quietly grew up in the torrent of the times.
At that time, women were at the bottom of society, their status was low, and they were often treated unfairly. They are denied equal opportunities and rights and are not free to pursue their dreams and goals.
Since she was young and sensible, Yang Jiewei has had an indescribable disgust and disdain for the old "polygamy". Deep down, she has always maintained a resolute opposition to this unequal system that does not respect women's rights and interests.
Perhaps, even Yang Jiewei herself never foresaw that at some point in the future, she would be deeply trapped in the tender love network of a man named Alan Tam and could not extricate herself. His appearance was like a sudden gust of wind, which made her heart move.
He, the valiant man, fascinated the two women. For his happiness and glory, they did not hesitate to sacrifice their personal feelings and silently endured the hardships of serving a husband with two daughters, which was a long period of more than 20 years.
Yang Jiewei was born in a poor family, however, this did not stop her love and pursuit of life. She has always maintained a lively and cheerful personality, actively faced all kinds of challenges in life, never been defeated by difficulties, and showed endless upward strength.
With her amazing perseverance and unremitting efforts, Yang Jiewei continued to delve into beauty knowledge, and through unremitting learning and practice, she finally became a professional beauty consultant, providing valuable consulting and services for cosmetics companies.
In 1972, Hong Kong society ushered in an important change. After much deliberation and extensive discussion, Hong Kong finally abolished the long-standing system of polygamy, once hailed as "a man's dream, a woman's nightmare", which has finally been eliminated from history.
Yang Jiewei, who is in the prime of her youth at the age of 20, is surging with joy and excitement in her heart. She is full of longing for this unique "one-to-one" relationship, and believes that this is the pure and beautiful love she yearns for.
At that time, it was still two years before Yang Jiewei met the other half of her life, Alan Tam. Two years is not a long time, but it is enough to change the trajectory of a person's destiny and lead her to an unknown journey.
During his junior year, Alan Tam unexpectedly fell ill with a serious illness that forced him to temporarily put aside his heavy studies. In order to better recover his health, he chose to return to Hong Kong to recuperate with peace of mind and look forward to returning to campus as soon as possible.
After a long period of suffering, he finally recovered. However, this experience left him with a deep boredom with his studies. He was eager to pursue his own direction, so he chose to step into society and start a new working career.
Alan Tam stepped into the post of a postman, and every day at dawn, he lifted two heavy cloth bags and stepped onto the street full of letters. He shuttled through the streets and alleys, delivered each letter to the recipient accurately, and did his best to complete his work.
Alan Tam waited with anticrisy for his salary after a hard day's work, but when he saw the thin stack of Hong Kong dollars in his hand, totaling only 220 yuan, he couldn't help but feel an indescribable sense of loss and blow in his heart.
During Alan Tam's high school years, he formed a band with like-minded friends with his love for music. However, due to various reasons, the band did not last long, and eventually unfortunately disbanded.
As a postman, he repeats the same routes and tasks every day, and his life seems to be fixed on this road, with nothing new. He can't help but start to miss the days when he formed a band and sang loudly, and life was full of passion and anticipation.
In his youth, Alan Tam resolutely decided to say goodbye to the postman job that was regarded as a "stable choice" with full passion and love for music. He devoted himself to his career as a resident singer in bars and clubs, and pursued his musical dreams with his singing.
In the melodious melody of the song, a new creative passion surged in his heart. So, he gathered a few like-minded friends and formed the Wenner Band to explore the infinite possibilities of music and show their talent and passion.
As the core lead singer of the band, Alan Tam has won the love of music fans with his unique voice and excellent performance. Under the discovery and arrangement of the manager, Zhong Zhentao successfully joined the Wenna Band and formed the "Wenna Five Tigers" with other members, which became famous.
IN 1974, THE BAND SIGNED TO POLLIDO (THE FORERUNNER OF THE LATER FAMOUS POLYGRAM RECORDS), AND THEY QUICKLY RELEASED THEIR DEBUT CD "SUN SHINER", WHICH QUICKLY BECAME POPULAR AND GAINED WIDESPREAD ATTENTION AND LOVE IN HONG KONG.
Although the songs of the Lewinna band have come out, their music career is still in its infancy and has not really made its mark. At present, they are facing the embarrassing situation of "singers are not popular", and they still need to work hard to improve their popularity and influence.
Although I tried to get into the music scene, I can only say that my footsteps are not yet stable and there is still a long way to go before I can truly stand on my feet. As for the salary, it is even more rare, barely making ends meet, which makes people feel very difficult.
So, despite the dedication to Alan Tam's band career, he still goes to nightclubs from time to time to earn some extra income, which has become an integral part of his colorful music career.
In 1974, Alan Tam sang as usual at the night show, and the singing echoed in the night sky. One night, through a clever recommendation from a friend, he met Yang Jiewei, who was as pure as water, and her beauty and elegance instantly lit up his world.
Alan Tam noticed Yang Jiewei who was silently watching him from the audience as early as the performance, and that glance seemed to have passed through the barrier of time and space, and was deeply imprinted in his heart. In order to get acquainted with her, he specially commissioned acquaintances to match, hoping to compose a music of love with her.
When Alan Tam went to study in a foreign country, his emotional journey was already rich and colorful. In contrast, Yang Jiewei has not yet set foot in the love field, which is particularly innocent. Alan Tam's love experience naturally makes him more skilled and sophisticated in dealing with relationship issues.
Under Alan Tam's enthusiastic pursuit, the simple Yang Jiewei felt a little at a loss. She deeply felt his sincerity and persistence, and felt that he was the person who could spend her life with her. As a result, she quickly fell in love with this sweet and passionate relationship.
At this moment, Yang Jiewei has performed well in the beauty company and her career is in full swing. Not only that, but in the design of stage image and appearance costumes, she also showed extraordinary talent, unique insights and excellent aesthetic vision, and won wide acclaim.
She is not only well versed in the essence of choreography, but also good at choreography and lighting scheduling, and has become an excellent artistic planner who is proficient in the full range of performances. She is well-known and acclaimed in the industry, and is a role model for many artists and audiences.
Looking back on the past of Yang Jiewei and Alan Tam, it can be clearly seen that when the two first met, Alan Tam was just a little-known and unknown band lead singer, and he had not yet made huge waves in the music world, let alone become a superstar later.
Yang Caiwei has now entered the realm of financial freedom, and her career is thriving and her achievements are remarkable. She has a gentle and virtuous personality, and she is kind to others, which makes her always surrounded by many suitors, and her life is full of brilliance and hope.
In this game, it is clear who is the real climber. Without too many words and explanations, with a little observation, it is easy to see who occupies the more advantageous position and who is desperate.
The combination of Yang Jiewei and Alan Tam not only stems from her deep appreciation of his talent, but also because in her eyes, he shows that rare infatuation and firm pursuit of the future, which allows her to see a common future and hope.
Before the two decided to spend the rest of their lives together, Yang Jiewei was full of uneasiness, and she asked Alan Tam if she would like to love her alone for the rest of her life and be with her forever. Alan Tam's eyes were firm and his tone replied resolutely, which made the defense line in Yang Jiewei's heart collapse instantly and completely fall into the abyss of love.
Women are naturally emotionally rich and are often moved by emotions. They love to hear affectionate promises and sweet words, simple words that are like sweet honey that can make their hearts sweet and satisfying and unforgettable.
Who would have thought that the firm oath in the past, like the alliance on the top of the mountain and the oath of the deep sea, is now Alan Tam dedicated it to another woman. The former affection has long been drifted away with the wind and has become a cloud of the past.
Although these are all things that happened later, in the days when they first met and fell in love, the relationship between the two was very sweet. Those romantic times seem to be beautiful paintings, forever engraved in their hearts.
Since falling in love with Alan Tam, Yang Jiewei resolutely resigned from her original job and devoted herself wholeheartedly to the trivial affairs of her boyfriend's life, she silently supported Alan Tam every step with delicate care and endless patience.
In the family, she plays an important role in laundry, cooking, and housework, and handles the affairs of the family in an orderly manner. She is meticulous and thoughtful to ensure that Alan Tam does not need to be distracted by trivial matters at home and can pursue his career wholeheartedly.
In the eyes of outsiders, she is like her boyfriend's all-round assistant, not only acting as an image designer, tailoring various fashion looks for him, but also busily looking for performance opportunities and preparing various events to ensure that everything is in order.
Alan Tam's success is not only due to his extraordinary talent and profound strength, but also inseparable from those important opportunities in his life and the selfless support of others. Together, these elements have made him a shining star in the music scene.
If he hadn't met Yang Jiewei, Alan Tam's musical path might not have been so smooth to the top. Yang Jiewei's existence seems to be a strong boost in his music career, prompting him to move faster to the other side of success.
With such an empathetic and excellent business girlfriend, Alan Tam has no scruples about going all out. He actively explores his own position in the music world, and at the same time, he does not forget to show his strength in the field of film and television, and develop his artistic career in an all-round way.
After unremitting efforts, Alan Tam finally ushered in the peak of his career in 1981. He won the Best Actor Award at the 18th Taiwan Film Golden Horse Awards for his outstanding performance in the feature film "If I'm Real", and since then he has become famous and has become the focus of attention.
In the entertainment industry, it is usually easier for an artist to maintain a single image to attract the attention and affection of fans. Therefore, many male stars who already have girlfriends, in order to maintain their image and fan base, often choose to declare that they are still single.
Alan Tam and Yang Jiewei's emotions are deep and introverted, and they chose to hide their marriage to protect this love. From falling in love to getting married, the two have always kept a low profile, and almost no one in the outside world knows about this beautiful marriage except for relatives and friends.
The marriage and love relationship between the two has never been made public, like an invisible barrier, isolating them from the outside world. For more than ten years, they have stayed together silently, never revealing half of it to the outside world, this secret emotion, like a treasure buried deep in the heart, precious and difficult to touch.
In these long ten years, Yang Jiewei has made great sacrifices for her husband's career, she resolutely gave up everything she had, although she has a reputation, but she can only silently support behind her back, unable to appear in public, the hardships and helplessness of this, only she can understand.
As for Alan Tam, he has never lived up to his wife's affection and fans' ardent expectations. Whether it is his brilliant performance on the stage or his silent dedication in life, he has shown his extraordinary style and firm belief.
Alan Tam has gradually consolidated his position in the music field and has released a number of classics, which are loved and sought after by fans. His fame is soaring, and he has become a bright star in the music industry with one concert after another, and people affectionately call him "Principal Tan".
Recently, the outside world learned a shocking news: the "principal" has been married for many years. This news made many fans feel angry and sad, they felt that they had been deceived, and their trust and love for this idol collapsed in an instant.
Alan Tam suddenly became the focus of public opinion, and many accusations and criticisms poured into him like a tide, making him fall into the whirlpool of public opinion. He is under tremendous pressure and anger, and cannot escape the public gaze and judgment.
In the frenzy of public opinion, Alan Tam chose to remain silent, but Yang Jiewei stepped forward, she bravely took all the responsibility, pointed the finger at herself, and blocked all criticism and accusations for Alan Tam with a firm attitude.
I have always adhered to the principle of secret love and hidden marriage, and I took the initiative to keep a low profile and not let the outside world know. Please don't blame him, it's entirely out of my personal choice and consideration, and I hope you can understand and respect my decision.
This innocent woman silently endured all the pain and pressure, hoping to protect that deep affection. However, the unswerving loyalty she was looking forward to was ultimately exchanged for Alan Tam's indifference and betrayal, making her persistence seem so pale and powerless.
Alan Tam has been secretly dating a young lover in private, and he has kept it a secret. Looking back on his life, the most guilty thing is undoubtedly the treatment of Yang Jiewei, this guilt cannot be described in words, it can be described as painful.
Maybe this stems from his natural amorous character, or maybe it really confirms the old saying - once a man has wealth, his mentality will change. But whatever the reason, his actions already make people start to doubt his essence.
After Alan Tam gained fame and fortune, although he was once prosperous, he failed to stick to his original intention after all. He carried his original wife behind his back, secretly interacted with fans, and secretly displayed his position, which is undoubtedly a departure from his moral bottom line.
In 1991, at a fan party, Alan Tam unexpectedly met an enthusiastic fan Alice Chu, and the two quickly sparked after they met, and started a "secret relationship" that was unknown to the outside world, which became a good story in the entertainment industry.
In this year, Alan Tam was in the prime of life, and he had entered the age of not being confused, at the age of forty-one. And Zhu Yongting is in the prime of her youth, only 19 years old, full of vitality and vitality. The age gap between them is a full twenty-two years, but fate makes them meet.
However, the age gap has not become an obstacle, and the madness and restlessness between the two are still in full swing. They seem to have crossed the gap of time, their hearts are connected, their passions are overflowing, and they are chasing the unique enthusiasm that belongs to them.
A talented and wealthy music superstar who meets a young, beautiful and passionate little fan. The two talked happily, fell in love with each other, and their emotions quickly warmed up, and finally fell into a whirlpool of passion that they couldn't extricate themselves from.
Since then, the relationship between Zhu Yongting and Principal Tan has gradually warmed up, and she has become his "secret lover". Although their relationship is not public, this relationship has quietly grown in mutual understanding and has become an unspeakable secret.
Principal Tam is very fond of his beloved Zhu Yongting, and he generously gave her a luxurious mansion, a luxury sports car, gold and silver jewelry, fashionable bags and all kinds of gorgeous clothes, showing his deep love for her.
The illegitimate child incident quickly spread in the city and became the focus of heated discussions. This matter inevitably reached the ears of her original partner Yang Jiewei (Lisa), who had mixed feelings after hearing about it, both shocked and angry, and deeply disappointed and saddened by her husband's betrayal.
Facing her husband who has been with her for many years, Yang Jiewei's heart is as painful as being torn. She once thought that their love could stand the test of time, but the reality made her feel extremely disappointed and heartache, as if all hope had come to naught.
She has always had a hard time accepting her husband's betrayal, after all, she once hated the idea of "polygamy" as a desecration of marriage. This betrayal, for her, is undoubtedly a serious impact on her love and faith.
However, on the other hand, she has always been unable to let go of the deep feelings she has accumulated with her husband for many years, and this tangled emotion has left her deeply troubled, hesitant and unsure of how to make a choice.
Yang Jiewei knew that crying could not solve the problem, so she chose to face it calmly. Instead of crying or making a fuss, she sat down and started an in-depth conversation with Alan Tam with a calm mind, hoping to find a solution to the problem.
Yang Jiewei admitted frankly that she can understand and accept Alan Tam's illegitimate child, but she hopes that he can give up the connection with the woman and rejoin the family. She firmly believes that as long as Alan Tam is willing to return, his remorse and change will be extremely precious, because after all, the prodigal son will not change gold when he returns.
Yang Jiewei doesn't seem to have understood that there is a famous saying in the world, that is, "children make choices, and adults want all". She is too obsessed with making trade-offs, but she ignores that as adults, we sometimes need to learn to embrace everything, rather than just making a single choice.
Alan Tam faced with an emotional choice, and firmly chose the double full method. He is neither willing to give up the responsibility of marriage, nor does he want to give up his deep affection with his lover Chu Yongting. He stood his ground and hoped to enjoy the happiness of family and love at the same time.
Alan Tam's greed deeply disappointed Yang Jiewei, who wanted the warmth of his family but couldn't let go of the temptation outside. Faced with such a double standard, Yang Jiewei finally couldn't bear it, she was disheartened and had the idea of divorce.
However, time flies, time flies, and now she is no longer the high-spirited, young and beautiful girl she was back then. Although her work ability is still excellent, the traces of time have quietly crept up on her face, making her a little more calm and restrained.
After years of married life, she is no longer the girl in her prime, but the yellow-faced woman who spent years with Alan Tam. Time flies, the years are ruthless, she lost the confidence and capital at the beginning, but she gained the warmth and happiness of the family.
Her friends advised her that divorce was not a wise move. Once divorced, won't the family's property be cheaper than the third party? Isn't that perfecting them? She should be thoughtful and not make decisions lightly.
At a critical turning point, Alan Tam's best friend Tsang Chi-wai stepped forward and played the role of mediator. He sincerely persuaded Yang Jiewei, hoping that she could let go of the distractions in her heart and live a peaceful and harmonious life with Alan Tam.
Whether Zeng Zhiwei analyzed the pros and cons of this in detail, we have no way of knowing. But what is certain is that Yang Jiewei finally decided not to easily give up the status of years of hard work to a third party, and she seems to have figured out the truth.
lived a life of tolerating her husband's concubine and two women serving one husband. Although this arrangement violates the values of many modern societies, it has become a reality that they have to accept in this particular situation.
Yang Jiewei's silent endurance and selfless concession finally won Alan Tam's deep pity. Her tolerance and understanding warmed Alan Tam's heart like a spring breeze, so that he could also feel the deep affection from Yang Jiewei in his busy life.
Perhaps feeling deeply guilty, Alan Tam decided to hand over all the property in the family to the original partner Yang Jiewei. In this way, he hopes to express his apology and respect for Yang Jiewei, as well as recognition and gratitude for her efforts over the years.
Indeed, Yang Jiewei's deep affection for Alan Tam is unforgettable, and she has always waited silently, looking forward to his change of heart. She did not covet any of his penny, but shrewdly invested her assets cleverly, bringing Alan Tam rich returns.
In her heart, she firmly believes that Alan Tam will one day abandon that woman and return to her. In her opinion, he just hadn't had enough fun, and was temporarily confused by the woman's rhetoric.
Alan Tam's choice does not seem to be as expected by the outside world. He did not part ways with Zhu Yongting, but on the contrary, when his father died, he chose to make his relationship with Zhu Yongting public and gave her a rightful name, which undoubtedly aroused a lot of attention and discussion.
In 2006, Alan Tam's father passed away, and at this sad moment, Alan Tam made a shocking decision. He publicly admitted his affair with Zhu Yongting and announced that they had an illegitimate son, Tan Xiaofeng, in order to give them their rightful name.
He even ignored the world's eyes, and in the obituary after his father's death, he resolutely included the name of "little wife" Zhu Yongting in it, which was undoubtedly the last blow to Yang Jiewei, making her completely collapsed and disheartened.
Yang Jiewei knows that her husband's heart has long been completely owned by another woman, and the good times that once belonged to them are gone, and no matter how they are recovered, it will be difficult to return to the way they used to be.
Since then, Yang Jiewei, who has been deeply emotionally shocked, has completely changed her attitude towards life, and she has turned to devote herself to Buddhist practice, abandoning the turmoil of love and love in the past, and finding solace and liberation in her quiet heart.
On the winter solstice in 2007, Alan Tam specially led his lover Chu Wing-ting and their lovely son, together with his 90-year-old mother, to Causeway Bay for a warm family dinner, which was full of joy and harmony.
Three generations spend the winter solstice together, this warm scene undoubtedly highlights the important position of Zhu Yongting in the family. As time goes by, she seems to have gradually replaced the position of the original partner Yang Jiewei and become an indispensable member of the family.
There is a view that the core of the defeat of the original partner Yang Jiewei is that she failed to continue the bloodline for Alan Tam and gave birth to a son and a half daughter. This may be the key to her inability to gain the upper hand in the emotional competition with Alan Tam.
Just ask the women in the world, who doesn't want to have children with their loved ones and continue the bloodline? That expectation and desire, like a seed planted deep in the heart, is always looking forward to breaking through the ground and blooming into the brilliant flower of life.
When Yang Jiewei and Alan Tam were newly married, she was overjoyed to find out that she was pregnant. However, Alan Tam was worried that the arrival of the child would hinder his career development, so he persuaded Yang Jiewei to give up the child and choose to become a "Dink family".
After several years of marriage, Yang Jiewei has been pregnant many times. In order to protect her husband's career future, she always followed her husband's wishes and repeatedly chose to have an abortion. However, this decision ultimately cost her the opportunity to become a mother.
Who would have predicted that Alan Tam, the man who once declared that he would stick to the way of Dink, secretly conceived an illegitimate child with his lover. Men's words, like ethereal smoke, are elusive and often misleading. Sure enough, men's sweet words are often deceitful nonsense.
What's even more disgusting is that Alan Tam has done much more than his little wife. In daily life, he frequently messes with flowers, which is not only jaw-dropping, but also makes people seriously question his moral bottom line.
He pretended to be a respected "principal" on the surface, but in private, he played with all kinds of beauties, giggling and laughing, without any solemnity, completely subverting people's expectations and imagination of his identity.
Among the many emotional relationships, the "little wife" who was corrected only occupies a place, however, the number of confidantes cannot be accurately calculated. Their existence, like the stars, shimmer with different lights in the night sky of life.
In Alan Tam's elaborate love labyrinth, he enjoys the satisfaction of multiple emotions, like a dancer who is at ease, left and right on the emotional stage, can enjoy both sweet warmth and exciting passion, and life is full of endless fun.
As a concubine, Zhu Yongting gave birth to a baby boy, which undoubtedly made her status instantly elevated. With this son, her future position in the family will be very secure, and inheriting the family property is just a matter of course.
Between those confidantes and him, there is a dewy relationship one after another, like the dew on a spring night, short and beautiful. They take what they need, and in this complex emotional entanglement, they are looking for comfort and sustenance for each other's souls.
The experience of the original partner Yang Jiewei can be called the most worthless and tragic. She silently endured her husband to find another love, and was even forced to have miscarriages many times, and devoted her life to her husband. However, in the end, what she got was despair, and in desperation, she chose to become a monk and ended this heartbreaking marriage.
She, the woman who paid silently, is undoubtedly Alan Tam's deepest regret in his heart. He had a great time on the bustling stage, but he owed her an irreparable debt. Her shadow has always haunted his heart, becoming the most difficult pain in his life.
Time flies, and now 71-year-old Alan Tam is still in the whirlpool of public opinion. Recently, he was once again exposed to an affair with a fan who was 46 years younger than him, which undoubtedly hit his public image hard, and his original image completely collapsed.
If this is true, it is also reasonable. After all, his second wife was also an avid fan of him in the past, and the two have a deep relationship and emotional bond, so this development is not unexpected.
He can be described as a "master of sleeping fans", and has repeatedly used his influence to infringe on the rights and interests of fans in a deceptive and tempting way, which has been exposed and confirmed many times, and it is appropriate to call him a "habitual sleeping fan".
However, although Alan Tam enjoys the prosperity and hustle and bustle of life outside, and indulges in the joy of spending days and drinking, Yang Jiewei has always maintained her inner tranquility and calmness, as if all this has nothing to do with her, she still lives her life lightly.
She was so engrossed in practicing the Dharma that she had become irrelevant to all the disturbances and struggles of the outside world, and the complicated emotional entanglements that had become irrelevant to her, and her heart was filled with only the wisdom and tranquility of the Dharma.
Perhaps, for Yang Jiewei, "becoming a monk" is a kind of spiritual relief. After experiencing the chaos and confusion of the world, she finally found her true inner peace, and now she has completely comprehended and liberated, and has gained unprecedented freedom and tranquility.