The former Olympic champion, married life is also wonderful, especially in terms of educating children, she has her own set of "uncompromising" rules, let us see how she is a principled mother in a wealthy family.
When it comes to marrying into a wealthy family, the first thing that comes to everyone's mind is the word "glamorous", but when Guo Jingjing first became a member of the Huo family, the outside world did not pick on her. However, time is the best witness, and the sweetness of her and Huo Qigang slowly convinced everyone. In the past five years, the arrival of the three little babies has made Guo Jingjing's position in the family as stable as Mount Tai.
However, don't think that the life of a wealthy family is all about peace of mind. Guo Jingjing's insistence on educating children, even her father-in-law has to give three points. The old man once said half-jokingly: "This girl is gentle to outsiders, and when she arrives at home, hey, I, who is a grandfather, don't give me any face." ”
What's going on? It turned out that the old man wanted to spoil his grandchildren, and when he saw the children studying hard, he wanted to tease them as soon as his heart softened. But Guo Jingjing resolutely disagreed, thinking that when studying, you have to concentrate and not disturb. This time, the old man loved and hated, but he had to stand aside obediently and be a quiet audience.
Guo Jingjing's insistence is actually a lesson for all parents: to educate children, there must be a bottom line. Just because of a soft heart, children should not miss out on a good opportunity to develop concentration and self-discipline.
From her, we can learn at least these two things:
Don't let love become doting
Doting is like a sugar-coated cannonball, sweet in the short term, but there are many hidden dangers in the long run. When a child does something wrong, he must be criticized, and he cannot give up his principles because the elderly are taking care of them.
Guarding the temple of learning
Study time is sacrosanct, and even grandparents can't be easily disturbed. Guo Jingjing does this without ambiguity to ensure that children can grow up in an environment without interference.
As for how to communicate the educational concept with the older generation in the family, Guo Jingjing provided us with several practical tips:
Be open and honest and draw a clear line
Make it clear to the old man that in the field of education and learning, we have to stand on the same front, and we can't break the rules just because we feel sorry for our children.
Be reasonable, not partial
Patiently explain why you can't spoil and don't compromise on matters of principle, but at the same time, you must also show your understanding of the elderly, after all, it's all out of good intentions.
Set the rules together, follow them together
Bringing the elderly together to make family rules and making them feel involved will naturally make them more willing to follow.
Be an example and let the facts speak for themselves
Do it yourself first, let the child grow up in a strict and loving environment, and the results can speak, and the old man will naturally be convinced.
Talk more, understand more
Education is a long-term project, and communicating with the elderly also requires patience and time, listen to their ideas, find common ground, and work together for the future of children.
In short, Guo Jingjing proved with her own actions that whether it is on the diving platform or in family life, adhering to principles and operating with heart can win a full house. We ordinary families can learn a lot from this, can't we?