Text: Stir-fried tomatoes with tomatoes
Edited with tomatoes and fried tomatoes
Recently, a "chopsticks turmoil" in Xiamen Donghai Vocational and Technical College can be described as a stir, which has attracted great attention both inside and outside the campus.
Today, let's take a closer look at this remarkable incident.
It was a normal noon, and the cafeteria was crowded.
The girl bought two meals, took six pairs of chopsticks, and thought about enjoying them with her sisters in the dormitory.
Unexpectedly, this ordinary act attracted the anger of the canteen manager.
It is said that at that time, the canteen manager's face was longer than that of Changbai Mountain, and his voice was so loud that he could tear down the roof, and in front of many students, he pointed at the girl's nose and loudly reprimanded her for being a thief, which was extremely bad.
The girl was stunned at the time, and when she came back to her senses, she hurriedly explained, saying that she had bought two meals and took a few more pairs of chopsticks to facilitate everyone to use together, not to steal.
But the canteen manager couldn't listen to it, but he still didn't give up, and he tore up with the girl and didn't let her leave.
I thought that when the matter got to this point, the cafeteria manager would realize his excesses and give the girl a public and sincere apology.
But who would have thought that the manager would just apologize casually in private, and his attitude was perfunctory like asking for food, without any sincerity at all.
This can make the girl angry, not to mention how aggrieved she is.
It was just a trivial matter, but she was treated like this, which made her unable to raise her head in front of her classmates, and the psychological pressure was rising gradually.
I feel like Dou E who has been wronged, and I can't say anything about my suffering.
After this happened, the school cafeteria actually issued a new rule, saying that it was necessary to distribute chopsticks by a special person, and only one pair of chopsticks were allocated for each meal.
This is really laughable, do you have to beg grandpa to tell grandma for a meal? As soon as this rule came out, it was a lot of trouble for the students to eat.
Sometimes, after the queue for dinner, you have to queue up again to receive chopsticks, which wastes a lot of time.
In addition, if the staff who leads the chopsticks is not there or moves slowly, the meal will be cold.
In the face of this practice in the cafeteria, the girl was not convinced.
She gritted her teeth, stomped her feet, and spent thousands of dollars out of her own pocket.
I bought 10,000 pairs of chopsticks.
Then, a "chopstick stand" was set up at the entrance of the cafeteria and distributed to the students for free.
On that day, the scene at the entrance of the canteen was even more lively than the New Year.
There was a long line of classmates, all wanting to support this brave girl.
While receiving the chopsticks, everyone praised the girl and said that she did a good job.
The girl looked at this long queue, not to mention how relieved she was.
Things got bigger and bigger, and finally the police came.
The manager of the cafeteria was still arguing there, saying that the cafeteria had recently lost 1,500 spoons, as if he wanted to put the blame on the girls.
When the girl heard this, she was so angry that she almost jumped up, and said loudly: "I just took a few more pairs of chopsticks, what does your spoon have to do with me?" I'm holding chopsticks, not spoons! ”
The police comrades were also in a dilemma in the middle, and they tried hard to mediate.
In the end, although the mood of both sides eased slightly, the problem was still not fundamentally resolved.
After all, it's not just about a few pairs of chopsticks, it's about fairness, respect and understanding.
As soon as this "chopsticks turmoil" was exposed, it instantly exploded on the Internet, and netizens expressed their opinions and discussed it hotly.
Some netizens gave a thumbs up to the girl's behavior, thinking that she was simply a brave spokesperson.
They said: "This girl is too good, you have to fight bravely in the face of unfairness, otherwise you will not be bullied to death!" "They think that the courage of a girl to stand up for justice when she has been wronged is commendable.
But there are also some netizens who feel that the girl's approach is a bit too radical.
They felt: "Although I was wronged and wronged, is it a bit too much to buy 10,000 pairs of chopsticks for free with such fanfare?" ”
Most netizens criticized the canteen mercilessly.
They all accused the canteen of being too inappropriate, and it was simply a small thing to make a big thing.
Moreover, there are many discussions about the poor quality of chopsticks in the cafeteria.
Someone said: "The quality of the chopsticks is so poor that they will break as soon as they are used, isn't it normal to take a few more pairs of spares?" ”
Netizens strongly called on the school to properly handle the matter and uphold fairness and justice.
Everyone is worried that if this matter is not handled well, it will tarnish the image of the school.
Some netizens left a message: "The school has to be handled well, otherwise who will dare to come to school here in the future!" ”
First of all, let's talk about whether it violates the rules for girls to take chopsticks more.
In fact, in a strict sense, it is indeed a bit out of line for girls to take more chopsticks without clear notice.
But we also have to think about it, does this rule also have to be a little humane? In campus life, it is necessary to abide by the rules, otherwise the school will not be chaotic.
But the rules should not be too rigid, and they must be flexibly adjusted according to the actual situation, otherwise it is easy for people to feel unfair.
Both the girl and the cafeteria manager had something wrong with handling the matter.
The girl may be a little impulsive at first and does not calmly communicate with the manager.
As for the canteen manager, that attitude is simply adding fuel to the fire, and he doesn't know how to value harmony at all.
If you want to communicate and solve problems rationally, you must first learn to listen to the other person's ideas and not criticize them as soon as they come up.
Then, everyone calmly agrees on a solution, rather than arguing.
For example, a feedback mechanism can be established so that students have a place to give their opinions on the service of the cafeteria.
In this case, the role of the school cannot be overlooked.
The school has to maintain the normal operation of the canteen while also taking care of the feelings of the students.
Schools should assume the responsibility of guidance and coordination, intervene in a timely manner, and deal with them fairly.
Schools can educate students and staff on how to deal with similar issues properly by conducting lectures or courses.
For example, teach students how to express their needs reasonably while following the rules, and tell employees how to resolve conflicts with students in a friendly way.
This "chopsticks turmoil" started from the girl who took more chopsticks and was reprimanded for theft, to the girl who bought 10,000 pairs of chopsticks for free distribution, and then to the police intervention and heated discussions on the Internet, the whole process is called a twist and turn.
The main points of contention are whether the girl's behavior of holding chopsticks constitutes theft, whether the cafeteria is handled in a reasonable way, and what role the school should play in this.
In order to avoid the recurrence of similar incidents, schools and canteens must first formulate clear and reasonable rules, and do a good job of publicizing and explaining to students in advance.
Once something goes wrong, all parties should stay calm and resolve it through negotiation as soon as possible, so as not to make a big deal out of it.
In short, building a harmonious campus is not an empty word, it requires the joint efforts of schools, canteens, students and other parties.
Everyone has to respect the rules and don't do what they want; Communicate rationally when encountering problems, don't quarrel impulsively; Tolerate and understand each other, don't be unforgiving.
Only in this way can our campus be truly full of sunshine and warmth.
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