The bride price has always been the focus of debate in the whole society.
One point of view says: In the past, marrying a daughter-in-law was the man's family; At present, the legal daughter-in-law has no obligation to support her in-laws, but the daughter (daughter-in-law) has the obligation to support her parents; Now marriage: men and women love, have children, you and I are willing, the adult's own business, and both parents have nothing to do with it, and it is a hooligan to ask for a bride price!
Another point of view is that the bride price should be high, and if the divorce is divorced and the woman is obviously at fault, then the bride price should be returned and the moral damage fee should be paid.
There is also a point of view that only talking about the bride price, not about the dowry, this is a hooligan!
Daddy believes that men and women love each other mutually, not for sale. The house, the car, the bride price, let the man pay for it all, this is unfair. Those sons-in-law who came to the door, did the woman give the bride price? Both men and women are born to their mothers, they are all equal, and the life of the family is created together, not to be happy when they get married!
After all, no matter how good the girl is, no matter how beautiful, how filial, no matter how talented, she also calls her father and mother to others, and she is also filial to others, calling others a hundred times a day, her biological parents may not be called for a few months, and her married daughter can't eat a meal she cooks for a year, and the gifts brought during the New Year's holidays are enough for her parents to eat for a few days? The more talented you are, the more likely you are to marry far away, especially in her later years, the number of times her daughter has grandchildren coming home will only become less and less, how many grandchildren will support her grandparents and grandparents?
Judging from the reality of the situation, the more backward the place where the preference for sons is more bride price. Marriage in developed regions is about two families making a couple, rather than one family subsidizing another family. In fact, in most normal families, the bride price is just a formality! I'm afraid of the kind of emotionally arranged business marriage, the marriage is unstable, and the man will face a situation of emptiness of people and money as soon as he divorces.
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