A chance encounter 26 years ago rewrote the life trajectory of Yongmei and Luan Shu.
They went from film and television cooperation to knowing and falling in love, and then to walking into marriage hand in hand at the age of 52.
In the eyes of outsiders, this marriage came a little late, but for the couple, everything was just right.
"With him, I'm free." Yongmei once talked about her concept of love.
So, what kind of chance made the two reunite in the play, and what kind of feelings made them decide to stay together until they were old? Let's take a closer look at Yongmei's love story and explore the secret of a happy marriage.
In Hohhot in 1970, a small flower named "Senji Dema" quietly bloomed, this is our heroine Yongmei!
Although the name means "happy and beautiful", the real-life version of childhood has a different flavor - Dad's wine bottle jingles, Mom is busy like a spinning top, and home is as small as a matchbox.
However, every weekend or two, Yongmei is like taking a time machine, flying to the cozy nest of her grandparents, and having a kite trip with the blue sky and white clouds, which is her little source of happiness!
During her time on campus, Yongmei was directly promoted to the "Goddess of Yongmei" in the hearts of her classmates by virtue of her scholarly physique and honey-flavored voice.
In class, her sketch show is even more exciting than the Spring Festival Gala, and it makes people laugh at their eight-pack abs every minute.
As a result, the door of the Central Academy of Drama opened its arms for this future star.
On the other hand, in Beijing's rock circle, it was very lively, a band called "Black Panther" was born, and the lead singer Luan Shu is simply a walking hormone, and singing can ignite people's hearts.
Who would have thought that this rock prodigal son and our sister Yongmei would have an indissoluble bond in the future?
Fast forward to the autumn of 1992, Yongmei and Luan Shu sparked because of the MV, it was called a flash of light, love at first sight!
One is a free and uninhibited rock singer, and the other is a fresh and refined acting star, when these two meet, it is like Mars hitting the earth, and sparks are flying! On the art road, they stood shoulder to shoulder and became the "model CP" in the circle.
But ah, fairy tales are all lies, and there are always some episodes in real life.
In 2005, Yongmei's acting skills exploded in "Qinghong", and she directly took the trophy of the Tokyo Film Festival actress home, and overnight, she became a star-studded star.
On the other hand, Luan Shu's path became narrower and narrower, and the career lines of the two began to be very different, and finally had to face the old saying "There is no banquet in the world" and broke up peacefully.
After breaking up, Yongmei and Luan Shu were light on the surface, but in fact, the entanglement in their hearts was like eating an unripe lemon, so sour that they didn't want it.
Thinking of a disease, as if a thorny forest has been planted in my heart, and I will have a "heartache realization" at every turn.
In eight years, fate has come to do things again!
In 2013, the movie "Silent Years" made Yongmei and Luan Shu in the same frame again, playing a loving couple, isn't this a "fake show"? This performance, oh my mother, all the feelings of those years have been resurrected.
It's like eating a memory candy, sweet with a slight bitterness, and the two suddenly found that the other party was the Mr. in their lives. Right。
At the age of fifty-two, when Luan Shu knelt on one knee and took out a simple but not simple ring, Yongmei's eyes instantly became a "flood warning area", and in the flash of tears, she said in a voice that was softer than the spring breeze: "yes, I do!" This wave of operations directly promoted the pair of "old children" to VIP members of the Happy Marriage Club.
In the days after marriage, Yongmei and Luan Shu seem to be the spokespersons of "low-key luxury and connotation".
No matter how busy you are at work, you don't forget to stage the sweet daily life of "you plough the field and come to me to weave".
The early morning walk is the romance of their "morning exercise version"; The symphony of pots and pans in the kitchen plays the "taste of home"; Nesting together on the sofa at night, reading books and listening to songs, that is the daily life of "literary and artistic youth".
This little day is sweeter than idol dramas!
Don't look at people as big stars, Yongmei and Luanshu's philosophy of life is "simple but not simple".
They live in a small community on the outskirts of Beijing, the house is not big, and the decoration does not pursue "tall", but every inch exudes a warm atmosphere.
How to get around? A second-hand Alto, although "over five years old", is maintained like a new car, and every time I go out, it is like driving a "time machine", carrying a full sense of happiness.
When night fell, Yongmei's favorite "pillow talk" link was launched on time, and the two recalled the "embarrassment" and "highlights" of those years, Yongmei always liked to joke: "We are 'low-key showing off wealth', in the eyes of others, this is the lifestyle of the 'invisible rich'!" In her view, the real wealth is the abundance of the heart, not the number on the bank card.
As a "national actress", Yongmei has her own set of "soul massage methods" for the doubts of the outside world.
In the face of the keyboard man's "serial call", Yongmei always smiled lightly: "Let's just treat them as praising my acting skills, after all, 'black fans are also fans'!" She firmly believes that acting is not said by words, but by works.
This open-mindedness is more precious than anything else.
In the university of marriage, Yongmei and Luan Shu are each other's best mentors.
The mode of getting along between them can be said to be a model of "open marriage".
"There are no walls in our house, only bridges of love." Yongmei often describes their relationship in this way.
In their view, marriage is not a shackle that restricts freedom, but a paradise for growing together.
In her career, Yongmei is not willing to be a nail in the "comfort zone".
In addition to continuing to shine on the screen, she is also ready to play a "behind-the-scenes boss" across the border, planning to use her experience and connections to "open up" for newcomers, and at the same time, she also wants to shoot more "soul torture" level works while she is still young (mentally), so that the audience can call it "intracranial orgasm".
As she grows older, Yongmei also unlocks a new skill - writer.
She plans to record her "copy of life" in words, from youth to maturity, from ignorance to sudden enlightenment, every step is full of stories.
In this autobiography, she wants to tell everyone: "Life is like a large-scale RPG game, everyone is their own protagonist, no matter how bloody the plot is, you must insist on finishing it, because the final easter egg may be unexpectedly beautiful." ”
Looking forward to the future, Yongmei is full of confidence and hope.
In her eyes, life is like a role-play, and she needs to manage each journey carefully.
The scenery ahead, whether it is sunny or rainy, must move forward with a smile.
With a simple, down-to-earth, contented lifestyle, living the life you want is true happiness.
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