Guide
It tells the story of the family relationship between Yizen Yinuo and his niece, the changes in her niece's expectations and requirements after the college entrance examination, and the love, understanding and challenges between family members. The niece is responsive in the family, but it also brings cliff-like consumption and family conflict. Yizen Yinuo persuades his family not to spoil his niece, but faces challenges between family harmony and understanding among members.
Diversity and Challenges in Family Relationships
The relationship between family members is not only related by blood, but also requires respect, understanding and sincere care. The life of these young people with their nieces is a good example.
My niece's college entrance examination and expectations
On June 7, when her niece came home after the college entrance examination, Yizen Yinuo asked her how she did in the exam, and her niece said that there was no problem. The next day, my niece checked her score and asked Yizen Yinuo, saying that if I was admitted, would you give me 50,000 red envelopes or 100,000 red envelopes? Yizen Yinuo was stunned, and his niece said, do you know what school I want to go to, what kind of life I want to live in the future, do you think 100,000 is enough? Yizen Yinuo thought that it should be no problem to win the key university, so he promised to give 100,000.
Expectations are disappointed and new requirements emerge
But when the results were announced, my niece was stunned, she thought she could get into 211, but it was only 211. I am very calm, but I am very concerned about the promise of the last Zen and a promise. That night, I found Yizen Yinuo and said the "calculation" in my heart: the tuition fee is calculated at 100,000 yuan, and you have promised me 100,000 yuan; The living expenses are calculated at 50,000 yuan/year, you give me a red envelope of 50,000 yuan, and buy me a car that is enough to congratulate me in the summer vacation of the year I graduated from college as a reward; I also have to buy me a house, wear diamonds, and drive a BMW. The niece said earnestly: "This is part of your growth with me, and it is also the dowry you gave me." ”
Love and understanding in the family
The niece responds to all her needs, and not only that, but she also makes repeated orders in life. For example, if she likes to eat a certain fruit, she has to fill the house with several large empty fruit baskets; If you like to drink a certain drink, you must have several cases on hand. If she doesn't meet her requirements, she will be coquettish and lose her temper. My niece's mother couldn't get used to it, so she had to buy it quickly.
Cliff consumption and family conflict
A few days ago, my niece and my niece's mother traveled to other places. On the night I came back from the trip, my niece's mother saw that it was already late and reminded her to rest early. But the niece said with a look of course: "You have to buy me whatever I want." Because she bought all the goods she had collected on her mobile phone, and the list said luxury bags, jewelry, famous watches, etc.
Compassion and Practical Challenges
Yizen Yinuo was a little displeased, she persuaded her niece's mother not to get used to children, "This is our family, not your family." Unexpectedly, my niece became even more energetic after hearing the answer of "I can't afford it": "You don't buy what I want, I have to buy something for my boyfriend later." After saying that, he turned around and left. She shouted as she walked, "Remember to give me the money." ”
Communication and understanding in family relationships
Now the niece's style of responding to requests and spending money lavishly makes the family worried. Especially Yizen Yinuo, who was embarrassed to refuse and worried that she would spoil her. On the evening of June 22, Yizen Yinuo issued an ultimatum to his family: "Tomorrow is the Dragon Boat Festival, we will make zongzi and eat zongzi." I'll tell you again tonight: our family can't spoil children! From tomorrow onwards, everything in our house will not be emptied for her! You must not give her the 'big and young' habit! ”
Family harmony and understanding among members
The family agreed, but they didn't seem to take the words of Zen and promise to heart. They may just feel that their niece is tough and willful, and they don't get to the root of the problem. Or maybe they don't know what kind of pressure a 39-year-old single woman - Yizen Yinuo is under when they compromise and accommodate their niece.
epilogue
Communication and understanding in family relationships are very important, especially when dealing with expectations and challenges between family members. In this story, Yizen Yinuo strives to balance love and responsibility for his niece in order to maintain family harmony. When we face family relationship problems, we should also learn to understand, tolerate and communicate in order to achieve harmonious coexistence among family members.