After reading "The Story of Roses", some people can't help but ask: Is it a success for a woman to live like Huang Yimei?
is so good that it is enviable in the family environment, so good that no one can match the talent, and the beauty that people can't forget at a glance, she has been a pair of kings since she was born, but she has experienced several relationships, and none of them have a good ending.
She was hurt to the point of madness, and cried in the rain; She was so angry that she was suffocated, but she had to endure it for the sake of her daughter; In the end, she finally bravely divorced and lived out herself, and when she fell in love again, she was deceived again, and Fu Jiaming exchanged a month of happiness for Huang Yimei's heartache for a lifetime.
Is such a life experience good or bad for a woman?!
We are not Huang Yimei, and we can't evaluate whether her choice is right or wrong, but I think that if most women encounter a situation like her, they will definitely fall into a certain relationship for a lifetime, and will not go through all the roads like her.
As soon as Huang Yimei divorced Fang Xiewen, her ex-boyfriend Zhuang Guodong caught up with her, and she was willing to go back to China for her and learn to get along with children; Knowing that Huang Yimei had a new boyfriend, Fang Xiewen immediately panicked, and used his daughter's relationship to get closer to Rose everywhere.
After the death of Huang Yimei's current boyfriend Fu Jiaming, Zhuang Guodong sat as the company's Asia-Pacific president, returned to Beijing to work, and flew over to celebrate her birthday. Fang Xiewen bought a big house in Beijing, invited his daughter to come over to live together, and asked her daughter to help, tricking Huang Yimei to celebrate his birthday, wanting to use a bowl of longevity noodles to evoke the beautiful moment of love between the two, hoping to get back together with Huang Yimei.
In the face of their pursuit, Huang Yimei decisively refused, she still lived a part-time life of wanting to break her head for the effect of the exhibition, and rode a motorcycle every day to become the female version of Fu Jiaming.
Rose says that the best way to remember a person is to be him.
Judging from this sentence, she loves Fu Jiaming deeply, but she also knows that Fu Jiaming is dead, so she does not refuse the aircraft instructor who is 16 years younger than her.
But why did she reject the pursuit of the two bigwigs so directly?
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As soon as he got the news that Rose divorced and brought his daughter back to Beijing, Zhuang Guodong flew back from France in a hurry.
At this time, he said that he was willing to give up his job in France and return to Beijing for the sake of roses, and he was willing to learn how to get along with children in order to get roses again.
He originally liked to eat high-end Western food, and went to a burger restaurant with a playground with his children with Rose, and he had always been a good face and identity, but he was called "pretending to be jelly" by Xiaochu, although it was very embarrassing and uncomfortable, she endured it.
But when he said that as long as Rose was willing to give him another chance, he would do it, but Rose directly refused with one sentence: "You still don't understand why I broke up in the first place."
After that "Mei Chao crazy" possession and smashed Zhuang Guodong's house to pieces, Huang Yimei thought about it, she couldn't stop others from pursuing their careers because she was unwilling to separate. "Since you can't stop others from leaving, try to be the person who makes others can't live without."
She works hard every day to grow herself, and at the same time, she has to pinch a little bit to send a video call to Zhuang Guodong, for Zhuang Guodong's sentence "I miss you", learn French, sign up for a tour group, and give up the job opportunity to go to France to find him.
But when Zhuang Guodong saw Rose for the first time, he was very happy and excited, but after the passion, he still focused on his work, even if it was a break, he gave up having a good meal with Huang Yimei in order to celebrate the leader.
Zhuang Guodong always thought that Huang Yimei chose to leave because he didn't put her first, so he is now willing to correct it in order to catch up with Huang Yimei again.
But he didn't understand that Huang Yimei was so painful and chose to break up, not because he was snubbed, but because Zhuang Guodong did not put her in the same position as himself, and always wanted Huang Yimei to accommodate him.
Now he suddenly said that he wanted to change it, and he said that "the country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to change", how long can his change last?
People are selfish, and they must love themselves before they can love others. From this point of view, Zhuang Guodong is not wrong, if he is asked to change himself in order to please Huang Yimei, then if there is a disagreement between the feelings of the two people in the future, "I gave up everything for you" has become the best rhetoric.
Huang Yimei didn't want this.
After Fu Jiaming's death, Zhuang Guodong took the initiative to return to Beijing to work and pursued Huang Yimei again, but Huang Yimei only treated him as an old friend.
Zhuang Guodong said that Huang Yimei was his favorite toy.
But it wasn't until he lost it that he realized that it was his most beloved, and the toy had long had feelings for other people, and it was no longer his only one.
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When Fang Xiewen divorced Rose, he chose a house and car company and gave his daughter to Rose.
There must have been his mother's instigation, but there was also his calculations.
He wants Rose to come back to him after she has tasted the pain of a divorced mother taking care of the baby alone, so that he can firmly control her. He even asked his female subordinates to receive Huang Yimei's mother and daughter, so that the Huang family felt that the big tree that roses had worked so hard to plant was taken advantage of by others.
But what he didn't expect was that Rose was doing well in Beijing, and even her daughter was integrated into her grandmother's big family, and even accepted Rose's new boyfriend.
I was like a jade waiting for my ex-wife to get back together, but I didn't expect that people had already blossomed elsewhere.
Fang Xiewen was so angry that he went crazy and began to attack Huang Yimei, and also sarcastically asked her if she could find a healthy boyfriend, don't scare the child.
After Fu Jiaming's death, Fang Xiewen felt that he had another chance, so he wanted to use his daughter as a lubricant to ease the relationship between him and Rose.
But here is not yet a hit, over there Rose has a new suitor, a captain who is 16 years younger than her.
Fang Xiewen asked Xiao Chu to help him ask roses to celebrate his birthday, and he also wanted to use the longevity noodles of the two of them as a guide, hoping to try the good memories again.
On the grounds that the two know each other and have a daughter in common, he hopes to get back together with Rose.
But Rose refused, "Love is a single thread, if you fall in love with someone else, then these two people will no longer be able to love each other." ”
Huang Yimei wanted to say that he loved Fang Xiewen, but only loved him.
Judging from some of the things Fang Xiewen did after the two divorced, he has grown up, but that full desire for control can still overflow the screen.
Whether it is dealing with the short-lived Fu Jiaming or the young and handsome He Xi, his means are to prevent Huang Yimei from falling in love on the grounds of being in love with his daughter.
His desire for control has diminished, but it will not disappear.
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Compared with Zhuang Guodong and Fang Xiewen's successful careers, Huang Yimei is still a hard-working worker, neither as high as Zhuang Guodong's position, nor as much financial resources as Fang Xiewen.
But at this time, she doesn't care about how much money she has, but whether she is happy or not.
Love is random, she still longs for love, longs for a new way of life, but she will not look back to live the life that she managed to escape from before, she wants to grow up freely, not for anyone.
This is Huang Yimei, every setback and suffering can make her grow and transform into a new self.