Once a man is divorced, he will find a lover, after all, men also need spiritual sustenance.
But once a man divorces, he will not be able to break off his lover, because he feels that his lover is like his spiritual pillar.
In this case, a man may have this kind of mentality, and if you can use the following four tricks well, you can make him break off.
For this psychology of men, you can start from the following aspects.
- Don't be ambiguous with other men in front of him
No matter how old a man is, he has self-esteem and loves face.
When you find that your husband is having an affair with another woman, you must control your emotions, don't be ambiguous with other men in front of him, or even deliberately let him see it.
You have to know that if you do this, you will only make him feel very shameful.
Of course, don't speak ill of your husband in front of him, as long as it's not a big issue, don't care.
Since the man is divorced, it means that there are some problems between you, so if you want him to break off, give him enough space and time to think.
- Create a sense of crisis for him
Some men will think, since you are divorced, then I am not worried that you will run away with someone else.
You have to understand that men are all Mu Qiang, and if he finds a lover who is better than you, or prettier than you, then he is likely to dump you.
So, when a man is with his lover, don't always say how much you love the man, but make him feel that he is not so easy to get.
For example, behaving humbly at home and being strong outside makes the man feel that the relationship is unfair.
It is possible that a man will take the initiative to pursue you, and if he really loves you, he will naturally not be so interested in his lover.
If you can often create a sense of crisis for him, let him know that if he doesn't cherish the person in front of him, then the lover will leave him.
In this way, the man will cherish you more and more, and he will cut off his thoughts.
- Keep your distance from his family
For a man, his family is his best friend and the closest to him.
If you can keep your distance from his family, it means that you can understand him, and he knows that you understand him.
So you have to keep your distance from his family, for example, don't see him at home with his family, try not to go to their house.
In this way, it will make the man feel that you have nothing to do with his family, so that he will not come to your house to look for you.
Men tend to be very family-oriented, and if you have a good relationship with their family, then they won't think much of you.
If you can do this, then you can make a man break off his feelings for his lover.
In this way, the man will not have conflicts with his family because of his lover. So if you want a man to break off his feelings for his lover, you have to do this.
- Let him feel that you are the one to be cherished
For a man, if he truly loves a woman, he will not let her be hurt in any way, let alone make her sad. But if he loves a woman but has a deep misunderstanding of her, then he will not cherish that woman.
Therefore, after a man divorces, if he wants a woman to break off, he must make the woman feel that she is a person worth cherishing, so that the man can understand his love for his lover.
If a man wants to cut off his lover, he must make his lover understand this, otherwise he will keep pestering you. Of course, if you can do these four things, then he will be broken.
Therefore, when a man has this kind of psychology towards his lover, you must learn to use the above four tricks to make him break off. As long as you use the above four tricks well, you can make a man break clean.