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When it comes to love, although boys are usually more active, they are actually very eager to be pursued by girls.
Especially boys who are more introverted and insecure will feel inferior in their hearts.
Even if you meet a girl who admires it very much, you don't dare to take the initiative to approach, so you can only pay silently. If you can take the first step first, then your fate will have a different outcome.
But pursuing a boy requires mastering some skills, and you can't just confess it immediately.
A smart woman will flirt with a boy like this, which is more likely to make people feel excited, don't believe it.
01: It means that you have a good impression of him, but you won't be overly upset
Yang Ruqing, the female guest in "Heartbeat Signal 6", had a good impression of Hou Zhuocheng from the beginning, thinking that he was very handsome and very good.
She has the confidence to take the initiative to express her heart, and she will praise boys calmly.
However, when they get along with each other, Yang Ruqing has a very firm attitude when answering the questions raised by the other party, giving people the feeling that although I have feelings for you, I will not be overly overly concerned, and I will love myself first.
Chasing a boy in this way will make people have more desire to challenge, he will not only feel that he is attractive, but also care about your love, and will feel that you are a very special existence.
Therefore, after Yang Ruqing's several expressions of love, Hou Zhuocheng finally woke up.
He clearly knows that if he doesn't grasp the fate and opportunity, the other party's love will be withdrawn.
The more powerful and confident the girl, the more she will pursue it in the face of a boy who has a good impression, and the probability of success is generally high.
If your posture is very humble, as if your likes are not qualified to be seen and cherished at all, then no matter how much you give and how sincere your love is, in the end you will only gain harm.
02: Let him become dependent on and liking you, and become him taking the initiative to chase you
Even if you appreciate and like each other, if a guy has no feelings and curiosity for you, then your fate cannot begin.
The really smart way to pursue is to make him have a good impression and dependence on you, he has already begun to have a feeling of affection for you, and if he wants to fall in love with you, he will take action.
A two-way love will have a beginning and a beautiful result.
Peng Xue (pseudonym) and her boyfriend met at work, he has a very mature personality, he is very organized, and every time he has ideas, he is full of creativity.
Peng Xue was attracted by the sparkle on her boyfriend and began to fall in love with each other. However, at that time, my boyfriend didn't have any special feelings for him, and they were just colleagues.
Although Peng Xue felt very nervous every time she was alone with him, she still tried her best to restrain her feelings.
She knows her strengths well and will radiate charm when the time is right.
For example, he will deliberately dress up, show weakness in front of the boy he likes, ask him to help you more, and so on.
Later, her boyfriend really noticed her, became more curious about Peng Xue, and deliberately created opportunities to be alone.
On Peng Xue's birthday, her boyfriend also specially prepared a surprise and confessed to her on the same day.
Many people say that it is easier for girls to chase boys, but this is not necessarily the case. If a guy never has the idea of wanting to fall in love with you, then no matter what you do, you can't touch his heart.
A guy is very rational and will not fall in love with you just because you are gentle enough with him or take good care of him.
If you want to have a result between you, the best way is to make him feel like you.
Smart women will chase the boys they like like this, and the probability of success is often higher. When you learn to fall in love with a boy's mindset, you can get twice the result with half the effort.