In the busy world, we can always see all kinds of people, etc., and see completely different philosophies of life, the most prominent ones are: rich people, poor and generous, slapping their faces and filling fat people; The rich show a generous "stinginess", not swayed by the world, never spend money indiscriminately, and spend money on the blade,—— which may be the biggest difference between the poor and the rich, or the rich and the rich.
You don't see, some poor people don't have a little money in their hands, they can obviously buy bouquets of flowers for their wives, buy a piece of candy for their children, and buy clothes for the elderly, but in the sound of "buddy" and "pretty boy", they waved their hands, buried the bill very boldly, and quietly gave the money to others, except for a "bold" and "generous", there was no splash.
But in fact, the number in their bank card is estimated to be less than 5 digits, just such a generous, these months the family does not talk about eating soil, they have to live tightly, the days are dry and bitter, just for the poor man's generosity.
This kind of moneyless people, they are not really rich, more often than not, they are just paying for their vanity and paying for their impulses. Not only that, but this kind of person is also worried about exposure, for fear of revealing his stuffing, and pretending to be indifferent. This kind of person, the more he has no money, the more he wants to show his generosity in some things, in his own opinion, this is boldness, this is righteousness, in fact, in the eyes of others, it is just a stupid B.
On the other hand, the rich people, the so-called rich people, live a much more transparent life, and although they are not short of money, they actually see more thoroughly and live more realistically than the rich people.
For rich people, there is money, but they can't spend it indiscriminately, and they have to spend it worthwhile, and they have to spend it on the blade, that is, the so-called "stinginess" of being generous.
Don't be led astray by some people in film and television dramas, those who are glamorous and spend money for fun are not really rich people, at best they are local tyrants, or the second generation of rich, they are just parasites on those really rich people, because their money is either a windfall, or there is a "mine" at home, or someone endorses them, these people do not know the hardships of making money.
Those rich people who really make money through their own skills, their money will never be spent indiscriminately. Money out, pay attention to a reasonable, pay attention to a value for money, pay attention to a return on investment. When you should be generous, you will not be stingy; When it is time to be stingy, it is never generous. - This is the real rich man.
As the saying goes, there are unforeseen circumstances in the sky, and people have good and bad luck. People may be poor all their lives, but they may not always be lucky. Keeping money is a kind of wisdom and a kind of confidence. Ordinary people, it is not easy to make money, it is even more difficult to save money, save money steadily, live simply, peace is a blessing, and a small wealth is peace. And all the "little rich" are inseparable from the word "saving", think about the mortgages that have dragged down countless families over the years, if you don't pay attention to the daily "saving", if those who have no money deal with the storm that will come at any time?
Look at those really rich people, because they are full of confidence, so they can be generously "stingy", the reason is that, on the one hand, they have hole cards in their hands, they have kings, and they have precautions; On the other hand, and most importantly, they understand what they really need, what they like, and what they are suitable for, rather than blindly following the trend and being swayed by others.
In their opinion, six yuan of cold skin, seven yuan of fried noodles, what you eat is like, what you eat is taste, and it has nothing to do with vanity and face. But in the eyes of some people who have no money, it is quite face-saving to be able to eat a Pizza Hut for dozens of dollars and drink American-style coffee, so there is a farce that they can't share a table with the courier. - This is the difference between a rich person and a rich person.
In fact, people live a lifetime, no matter whether they are poor or rich, and doing things that are in line with their actual situation are often more respected than being poor and generous. After all, you can't live in the eyes of others, but in your own reality.
If you don't have money, then you have to be careful and generous. You have to know your financial situation, don't let yourself get into trouble because of your momentary generosity, and certainly not be so stingy as to be indifferent to others. This kind of cautious generosity is actually a deep understanding of life and an accurate assessment of one's own abilities. It should be understood that true kindness is not unbridled boldness, but reasonable spending within one's own ability, and this kind of careful generosity can not only win the respect of others, but also maintain one's dignity in difficult situations.
On the contrary, the "stinginess" of the rich is not stingy, but refers to their prudence and rationality in the face of wealth. They know that wealth is hard to come by, and they will not squander it at will, but will be careful to make the most of every penny. Their generosity is reflected in the timely satisfaction of the needs of others and the active commitment to social responsibility. Instead of being arrogant about their wealth, they will be more humble and low-key. This kind of generous "stinginess" not only allowed them to maintain a steady growth of wealth, but also won them the recognition and respect of the society.
In fact, these are two completely different philosophies of life, both of which embody the wisdom and choices of human nature. Whether it is the cautious generosity of the rich and the "stinginess" of the rich and generous, they are both precious qualities in human nature and deserve our respect.