Actually, life is just that, it's not like that, that's it.
In short, as some people joke about, life is not what you think, no matter how it is.
When people reach a certain age, they will understand that one person, or all of them, cannot fight for their lives.
However, a smart person, a person who lives transparently, must know that to continue to love life.
As Romain Rolland said: "There is only one kind of heroism in the world, and that is to see the truth of life and still love life." ”
Because, life is only once, life is just an experience, whether it is good or bad, whether it is gain or loss, whether it is success or failure, it is nothing more than that.
Really powerful people will always live in the present, always feel the present, and live the present.
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Do your best to do your best, try your best to be a person
Life is just an experience one by one, and what can be retained does not need to be forced, and there is no need to force it.
Do your best to do things, try your best to be a person, if there are really some people, some things, make yourself feel powerless, then choose to go with the flow.
is like what is said in "Mirror Flowers":
"Do your best, obey the destiny of heaven."
When a person has such a mentality, he will not be unable to get along with himself.
and even slowly reconcile with themselves, with others, and with the world.
When a person has done this, he will be able to face it with a state of mind that is calm and indifferent.
I believe that the best of all is just right in my heart.
Let yourself do your best, dedication, and responsibility.
Go with the flow and live the present day to make your spiritual world peaceful and your soul quiet.
No matter what you see in the world, always believe that only when our hearts are clear enough, everything in the world is the scenery of dawn.
Otherwise, your life will only be dark and your life will only be confused.
Do your best to be yourself, open your eyes, hold up your own pattern, let go, and let go again.
Then, look bearish, look bearish, and your life will have more possibilities.
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People can't fight for their lives
The wisest choice for a person at the moment is to tell himself that from now on, he will only live the life he wants.
Choose the life you want to live, do what you like, don't get entangled, don't hesitate, don't get along with God.
You will find that in the end, people will all go to the same destination.
This destination is extinction.
Lao Tzu said:
"The movement of the opposite is the use of the weak."
Everything has its own laws and logic.
Just as the four seasons of the year change, the cycle of spring, summer, autumn and winter, and for example, people's birth, old age, sickness and death.
This seems to be just a process, and it is a strange existence.
However, as long as a person really has a sense of awe and knows the essence behind this cyclical law of movement, he will find that people cannot fight for their lives.
If you want to destroy yourself, then keep fighting, keep grabbing, keep consuming.
If you want to elevate yourself, be softer and gentler.
Knowing the ultimate destination of destiny, I also know where my strength lies.
As Hemingway said in The Old Man and the Sea:
"You can knock me down, but you'll never beat me."
This seems to be a contradiction, but it is actually a process of mutual transformation.
As long as we don't always weigh everything with a heart of gain and loss, but can learn to look down and let go.
In the end, you will be able to live more transparently, with a more fulfilled and happy life.
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Don't fight, rely on yourself
A person can only rely on himself, not fight with others, society, and fate.
In this way, the odds can be greater.
There is a sentence in "Shangshu": "Heaven is difficult, life is constant." ”
Listen to the arrangement of fate, and know where your strength lies.
To put it bluntly, on the one hand, we must be in awe of heaven and fate, and on the other hand, we must find our position.
Then, know that there are two sides to everything, so don't think about the bad, but rely on yourself more often, think deeply, and change positively.
Finally, find your own rhythm of life, stabilize your state and emotions, and build the mentality of a strong person.
In this way, little by little, rely on your own hands to achieve your own beautiful future.