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某乎有这样一个热点话题：娶妻娶贤是娶不到色的男人的心理安慰吗？
When discussing the diversity and complexity of marriage choices, we often come across traditional ideas such as "marrying a virtuous wife." This phrase embodies a value of partner choice, that is, in marriage, a person's moral character and inner qualities are considered to be the most important.
The real experience of netizens is too worrying!
I remembered that I met an older leftover girl on a blind date before, and her appearance was good, and I politely praised it when I first met, but I also noticed her arrogance and frivolity at the beginning. Later, I chatted on WeChat, and it took a long time to reply with a word of uh-huh. I said that I have long passed the psychological age of judging people by their appearance, and I value the inner qualities of a person more. As a result, she replied very quickly and directly said that we were not suitable.
The depreciation of beauty is not so fast, there are still a lot of books with good temperament, and there are many beautiful women who read a lot at the age of 50. For good-looking girls, they may not have academic qualifications, but it is still best to have virtuous and moral character, character and the like, and the possibility of retaining their temperament.
Personally, I feel that the boy you said failed not to pretend to be poor, but to show stupidity and sweetness, and this society fights for the brain.
I feel that virtuous should not be translated as virtuous, but more like the feeling of having wisdom in dealing with others.
Virtuous and sexual, not contradictory. And there are many people who are both virtuous and beautiful. Born from the heart, virtuous women are beautiful in themselves.
Hahaha. Because these words are the story of the ancients, the rich man. Maids are generally very beautiful. At that time, the poor could not afford to read...
I have a colleague who is definitely a good wife, and she was a college classmate with her husband, but later gave up the opportunity to stay in the big city for her husband's sake. But unexpectedly, after her husband was promoted, he immediately found other young and beautiful women. On the contrary, another friend of mine spends all her money and energy on beauty and grooming and improving herself, and many men pursue her.
I can't see that your experience is too shallow, and if you get along with a person (regardless of male or female) for a month, your character will come out.
This is the same as women saying that it is better to marry love or marry a rich man, most of them are neither.
Let a man be in a hurry to go home after work at the age of 40 is not because his wife is virtuous or beautiful, but because he is okay and relatively homely.
Beautiful and virtuous girls, most people can't marry, and they don't have universality. But it's easier to choose one or the other.
There is also family and social responsibility, and it is also easier for her to be an excellent mother and raise excellent babies.
最后我想说的是，婚姻是人生大事，选择伴侣时应综合考虑多方面因素。 "Marrying a wife and marrying a virtuous person" is a traditional concept that emphasizes the choice of a partner with good moral character and integrity. However, everyone's values and needs are different, and when choosing a partner, you need to consider many factors such as personal emotions, personality, and life goals. It is important to find a partner who respects, understands and supports each other to create a happy married life together. "Marrying a wife and marrying a virtuous person" should not simply be understood as psychological comfort, but should be viewed rationally.
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