introduction
What kind of relationship is a classmate relationship?
A sociologist points out that a classmate relationship is a special kind of interpersonal relationship. This relationship arises from classmates, from similar ages and interests, or from a relationship of mutual understanding and respect that has been built up in everyday contacts.
The sociologist went on to point out that during their classmates' studies, they may develop deep friendships, and each other feels that the other person is someone they can trust, so they will keep in touch with each other even when they are away from school.
The sociologist went on to point out that for students of the same sex, it is okay to stay in touch with each other all the time, but for students of the opposite sex, if they keep in touch with each other constantly, it may affect each other's families!
In fact, the sociologist's statement is still very reasonable. No, somewhere in Sichuan, such a thing once happened!
affair
In a quiet town somewhere in Sichuan, there lives a loving couple, the wife is called Sun, the husband is called Wu, Sun is gentle and virtuous, and Wu is a steady and somewhat introverted man. Their married life, although very uneventful, is full of warmth and trust.
One day, Sun received a phone call from her high school classmate Xiao Xie. Since Xiao Xie is about to go to other places to develop, he wants to get together with his old classmates before leaving to catch up with the old days. Therefore, he made a phone call to Sun and invited Sun to attend the party.
Before Sun decided to attend the party, she told her husband Wu the news, and when Wu heard the news, he seemed a little uneasy. Because he heard his wife Sun say that when Sun was in high school, he once had a first love named Xie. Although Wu knew that Sun was a loyal and dedicated person, he couldn't help but feel suspicious.
Before Sun went out, Wu secretly put a locator in her bag, intending to know Sun's location at any time. Wu didn't want to know the privacy of his wife Sun, but he was still a little worried.
After the party between Sun and Xie and others, Sun wanted to say goodbye to Xie, so the two of them moved from a hotel in the township to a mountain forest. At this time, Wu knew the whereabouts of his wife Sun through the locator, so a trace of doubt passed through his heart. Wu decided: quietly follow his wife Sun.
When Wu followed his wife Sun to a mountain forest, he found that his wife Sun and her old classmate Xie hugged each other tightly, tears rippling, and there seemed to be a feeling of inseparability. So, he suddenly felt a little chilly. In the cold, he fled the scene in a hurry.
That night, when Wu asked about the scene of his wife Sun's reunion with his old classmates, Sun did not report to his husband Wu the scene when he saw off Xie except for reporting the scene of the party to his husband Wu. So, Wu had no choice but to take out a scene he had photographed, and when Sun saw the scene that Wu had photographed, he was instantly silent.
Wu said: "Since Sun married me, I have dedicated my whole body and mind to Sun, but Sun is still disconnected from her first love Xie Mou, which really chills me!" ”
The above is a general process of this event.
When many netizens learned about this incident, netizens started a heated discussion.
Netizen voices
Netizen Spring Flowers and Autumn Moon: People's hearts are separated from the belly. No one knows what anyone thinks. If you want me to say, Wu doesn't need to be cold, it's better to decisively end his husband and wife relationship with Sun!
Netizens chattered: This kind of thing is not uncommon in real society. Husband and wife seem to be in love, but no one knows what one or both of them are doing behind their backs!
In short, netizens have a lot to talk about.
Lao Hu's point of view
In order to make love long-lasting and firm, husband and wife should respect each other and not have intimate contact with the opposite sex, otherwise, it will be difficult to make love long-lasting and firm.
In this incident, Sun had an intimate demeanor with his old classmate Xie, which should be said to be extremely undeserved. I hope that Sun can realize his mistakes and make a profound review of his husband Wu, so as not to make her husband Wu feel cold again.