"Contradictory harmony \ transcendence" sounds like a particularly good psychological experience. and the sharp opposition of the sense of contradiction, which is bipolar.
The type of person who understands (can will) the sense of contradiction and harmony \ transcendence belongs to the subject with super subjectivity, and many elements of subjectivity have grown in their bodies, such as transcendent pursuit, decision-making, self-confidence, self-sufficiency, etc.
However, if it is followed by only "vice versa", its understanding is too simplistic. Because there are two types of this type.
Illustrate:
One is the subjects whose personality realm is otherworldly, such as Lao Tzu and Zhuangzi, as well as people who have fully satisfied self-realization in all fields of this world, who are hardly swayed by any contradictions, and truly achieve and enjoy the freedom of being pampered and not shocked.
The other type is people who regard themselves as lofty or humble and arrogant, and live in their own world, such as Wang Shuo and Li Ao, including the domineering president Chenggong in the TV series "Imperfect Victim" (who especially likes cowardly and tangled objects of contradictions, and especially enjoys the model of contradictions and conflicts), as well as those who are indulging in hobbies and misfits in reality, and are often labeled as eccentric alternatives. It would not be an exaggeration to say that they are too egotistical, too narcissistic.
But I think they are quite narcissistic, mavericks, determined in their hearts, and still a type of people with strong subjectivity. It's just that for intimacy, this type of "too self" may be an invisible killer.
Jung said: The core of human suffering is not to accept the original shadow self. That shadow me is the so-called bad me. People with strong subjectivity have always accepted or said that they have already surpassed their bad selves.
For those who are "sharply opposed to contradictions", it is precisely the most intolerant of self-defects, and the transformation of the bad self is like his unconscious mission.
The inductive analysis of the above contradictions is intended to emphasize that people's happiness depends on the strengths and weaknesses of subjectivity. It is intended to remind us, especially parents, to be able to know ourselves, so as to pay attention to the early cultivation of ~ subjectivity in the process of children's growth.