In this fast-paced era, singles are eager to find their perfect partner quickly, but sometimes, being direct isn't the best option. As someone who has been through many blind dates and dates, I have found that the real top girls are good at indirect initiative.
I remember one time, I met a special girl at a party, she didn't come up directly to pick up like other girls, but subtly caught my attention through some topics and jokes. Her smile is like the spring sun, warm and not dazzling. We chatted naturally, and every topic from hobbies to life ideals made us understand each other better.
That night, I felt more relaxed and enjoyable than I had ever felt before. She didn't express her affection for me directly, but she used her intelligence and charm to make me irresistible. I realized that this is the beauty of indirect initiative – it feels comfortable, natural, and stress-free.
In today's society, people pay more and more attention to self-expression, but sometimes too direct expression can make the other person feel uncomfortable. The truly top-notch girls know how to express their hearts in an indirect way, and they know how to keep their charm while leaving enough space for each other.
So, dear friends, if you also want to go further on the road of finding love, you might as well try the indirect initiative. Use your wits and charm to attract the other person, not to force the other person with direct words. You will find that this kind of love is more beautiful and more durable.
So, what do you think about this? Welcome to leave your views in the comment area, and let's explore the mystery of love together!