After the divorce of the husband and wife, it stands to reason that they should get together and disperse, even if they have children, they should get along in a measured manner.
When Fang Xiewen and Rose divorced, they had obviously negotiated the custody of the child, but they suddenly turned around and wanted to fight a lawsuit to get their daughter back.
Huang Zhenhua blocked the company to find Fang Xiewen, and was even beaten by him until he vomited blood, and both of them entered the police station.
It was precisely because of Fang Xiewen's move that Rose left the seriously ill Fu Jiaming and went to Shanghai to negotiate.
When Rose and Fang Xiewen sat down to negotiate, they communicated with Fang Xianwen in an inclusive and rational manner, rather than hysterical-for-tat.
Fang Xiewen vigorously competed for his daughter, but he handled it lightly, seemingly compromising for his daughter's mental health, but in fact, the real reason was elsewhere.
1, behind Fang Xiewen, there is no support
Before Fang Xiewen negotiated with Rose, he made a special phone call with his mother in his hometown, and it was this phone call that made him desperate to fight for custody.
On the phone, Fang Xiewen hoped that his mother could come to Shanghai and take care of her daughter's food, clothing and daily life.
But the mother said nonchalantly:
Fang Xiewen knew that his mother was patriarchal, but he still called to test it, and he didn't consider his daughter's situation at all.
Although Fang Xiewen lives in a mansion of 2 million yuan and has tens of millions of assets, he can't give up his career and devote himself to accompanying his daughter to grow up.
Could it be that after taking my daughter over, she handed it over to a strange nanny, or a subordinate Xiao Xiaoyu to take care of?
Fang Xiewen was obviously unwilling.
There was no one behind him, and when he negotiated with Rose, he had no confidence, so he compromised.
2, Su Gengsheng woke up Fang Xiewen
Although Fang Xiewen is extreme in his marriage and has a desire to control Rose and his daughter, as a father, he does love his daughter very much.
When Su Gengsheng rushed to Shanghai to deal with the fight between Huang Zhenhua and Fang Xiewen, he woke up Fang Xiewen with some words.
"Do you love Fang Taichu?"
"Materially, you can give her more, but how much time do you have to spend with her?"
"Fang Xiewen, you don't love her, you are controlling her, just like you controlled Huang Yimei back then."
Fang Xiewen's brows furrowed, and he couldn't say anything to refute at all.
As Su Gengsheng said: "You hope that your position in their minds is very important, supreme, and even unique." But is it possible? Is it realistic? ”
Children are not puppets of their parents, and their own thoughts cannot be left to their parents' hands.
Although Fang Xiewen ate Fu Jiaming's vinegar, he felt that he had taken away the roses and even replaced his position in his daughter's heart.
However, what Su Gengsheng said made him wake up that if he blindly controlled his daughter, it would only achieve the opposite effect.
Therefore, instead of having a falling out with Rose, Fang Xiewen should simply take a step back, leave a good impression on each other, and let his daughter grow up in a happy environment.
This is also the reason why Fang Xiewen and Rose can coexist peacefully after the divorce, and the family of three can get along harmoniously.