It is said that the best love is always before it begins.
Because the relationship is not broken, there is a hazy veil between the two, and each other wants to leave a good impression in each other's hearts, and seeing each other's advantages is also an advantage.
However, once you get along, you will fall into all kinds of pain and sorrow because of various problems, and even after a long time, you will have a thought: "Are we suitable to be together?" ”
Writer Zhang Ailing once said: "The right people will meet when they are separated, and the wrong people will be separated when they meet." ”
In a relationship, when you meet the right person, even after several twists and turns, you will often be together in the end.
On the contrary, if you meet the wrong person, even if you go around and around, you are likely to be separated in the end.
So, how can you tell if the other person is the right person? Are you and Ta suitable together? Two people in love, whether it is suitable to be together, just look at these 4 aspects!
01
Whether the personalities of the two parties complement each other
A pair of strong lovers often find it difficult to go to the palace of marriage and persevere to the end.
Think about it carefully, a pair of strong lovers, most of the two people have strong personalities, rarely bow their heads to each other and admit their mistakes, have a hard mouth and a soft heart, and do not express their psychological thoughts, thus missing.
But a pair of love objects with complementary personalities are the opposite, even if they do not overcome rigidity with softness, they will be more harmonious in the process of love, there will not be too many quarrels, and they can enjoy the little sweetness in love, rather than being in a state of calculation.
In real life, whether it is a lover or a friend, people with complementary personalities are often more likely to make progress together, face the ups and downs of life together, and mediate with each other to solve things in life, rather than being in a more serious or compromised environment.
Therefore, whether two people can love each other for a lifetime and whether their personalities complement each other is also particularly important.
02
Whether the values match
Values are the foundation of a person's growth and life, and they are related to a person's outlook on life, values, morality, and so on.
If two people have different values, it will be difficult for them to reach a consensus in many aspects, which also means that conflicts and quarrels between them will be inevitable.
If two people share the same values, they are able to agree on many aspects and it is easier to reach a consensus. They are also able to support and understand each other in critical moments.
In fact, the best relationship between lovers is that I can dislike what you like, but I will definitely respect and support your preferences.
Therefore, if you find someone who shares your values, then there is a good chance that he is a real fit for you.
03
Whether there is a common topic
Two people who really love each other will definitely have endless words, they can talk about their own lives, about their fantasy futures, and even about their own children, instead of two people facing each other and can only play with their mobile phones.
If one day, when you find that you have nothing to say to each other, it is time to let go.
Because you don't care about each other and don't go to each other's hearts, naturally, there will be no common topics.
When two people have to think about the topic even when they have to speak, there is no need to continue, they can only make each other embarrassed and sad.
04
Whether the two people are the right match
Why is the current marriage, the current relationship so fragile? If you say you leave, you will leave, and if you say you will leave, you will disperse. is also emotional, in love, it is the wind and snow to talk about the mood, to get married, and to live a life with firewood, rice, oil and salt.
It's easy to talk about love, life is not easy, there are too many couples, because the door is not right, the household is wrong, resulting in the marriage lighting up the red light and going downhill.
Choosing the right marriage may be a realistic manifestation in the eyes of others, and it may not be the most perfect, but it must be the most stable.
Because of the marriage of the right family, there is not so much disparity in status, and there is not so much gap between the rich and the poor. I won't be anxious because of Gao Pan, look at your face, and I won't be condescending and pointing fingers because of your marriage.
Two people are equal, understand each other, accommodate each other, support each other in life, share the wind and rain, rely on each other spiritually, and make progress together, so that the marriage will be more stable.
05
Emotional message
Writer Sanmao once said: "Love, if it is not implemented into the real life of dressing, eating, counting money, and sleeping, it is not easy to last forever." ”
So, choose to be with people you can talk to, eat well, sleep comfortably, and play together, and you are likely to be with you for a lifetime and grow old together.
With Ta, you don't have to search for dry intestines in order to resolve the embarrassment of having nothing to say; You don't have to force yourself to change in order to cater to each other's tastes; Even if you sleep together, you can be free, stable and comfortable; Being able to play together is full of surprises every day. This is the most beautiful appearance of love, and this is the most comfortable state for the two to be together.
I hope you can meet the right Ta, from now on, one house, two people, three meals, four seasons, four seas, three mountains, two hearts and one life.
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