#头条创作挑战赛#
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Text: Cowbowton
Edited by Cowbowton
Dear melon-eating people, have you ever dreamed of becoming the son of gambling king Stanley Ho? With untold wealth and endless luxury?
Wait, though! Today I want to tell you an amazing fact: He Youjun, the son of the gambling king, doesn't even know most of his relatives! That's right, you heard it right. This wealthy son who was born with a golden spoon in his mouth is actually as confused about his relatives as we ordinary people.
What an irony! Let's take a look, what the hell is going on? Is He Youjun too cold to know his relatives, or is the relationship network of the gambling king family too complicated? Dear audience and friends, prepare your melon seeds and benches, we are about to start a wonderful journey of the secrets of the wealthy!
How low is He Youjun's relatives?
You may ask, how much does He Youjun not know his relatives? The answer is: except for an eighth aunt, he basically doesn't know any other relatives.
The son of the gambling king once confided in his then-girlfriend Xi Mengyao in a mainland variety show. He said:
"Among all my relatives, my beloved and most familiar is only my eighth aunt He Wanhong, who loves me, and only she treats my nephew as her own kind of love. However, I don't know any of the other uncles and cousins, and of course they don't know me, because the family is too big to recognize. "
I couldn't help but gasp when I heard that. This is even more miserable than us ordinary people!
We ordinary people go back to our hometown for the New Year, although we often don't know which is the third aunt and which is the fourth aunt, but at least we can recognize a few common relatives.
He Youjun is good, except for an eighth aunt, all the other relatives are "passers-by A, B, C, D". Why does this wealthy life sound even bleaker than ours?
How big and complex is the Ho family?
To understand why He Youjun is so unaware of his relatives, we must first figure out how big the He family really is.
Ladies and gentlemen, please fasten your seatbelts, we are about to enter a dizzying network of kinship!
First of all, He Youjun's grandfather He Shiguang, this old man is really "capable", and has a total of 13 children. That's right, you read that right, it's 13! That's almost the number of people in a kindergarten.
And these 13 uncles and aunts have their own families and children. Each branch is a small Ho family. After such a calculation, how many cousins does He Youjun have? I don't think it's an exaggeration to describe it as "a lot of hair".
Imagine, if you are He Youjun, in the face of such a huge family, can you recognize it clearly? I reckon that even if I were given a family tree, I would have to read it for three days and three nights to make sense of the intricate web of relationships.
Not to mention that He Youjun is still a "post-90s", and he has to face such a huge family at a young age, so it's no wonder if he doesn't get lost!
Why does He Youjun only know Aunt Eight?
Among so many relatives, He Youjun only has a soft spot for his eighth aunt He Wanhong. Why is that?
It turned out that the eighth aunt's life experience was quite bumpy. She lost her husband at an early age, and lost her only daughter Feng Shaolian in middle age. This series of blows made He Wanhong a lonely old man.
In this case, He Wanhong chose to "take refuge" with He Youjun's mother, that is, Liang Anqi, the fourth wife of the gambling king. She hopes to be cared for and loved in her old age.
This choice made the family relationship between He Wanhong and He Youjun extremely close. Her love for He Youjun can be said to be her own.
Imagine that in a large and complex family, there is suddenly an elder who is extraordinarily close and caring to you, will you also be particularly impressed by this person?
Therefore, He Youjun's special memory of Aunt Eight is not only because of family affection, but also because of emotional attachment and gratitude.
In this wealthy family where money is paramount, He Youjun is lucky to find a sincere family affection.
Why didn't the other relatives of the gambling king wait to see He Youjun?
Since He Youjun doesn't know other relatives, do other relatives also know He Youjun? The answer is yes. But the deeper reason is probably not as simple as "not knowing".
First of all, He Youjun's identity is a sensitive topic. As the son of a gambling king, his background is "concubine". Traditionally, this status is often disliked by other family members.
Secondly, the He family is not a harmonious mess within it. For example, He Wanqi, the tenth girl of gambling king Stanley Ho, has a deep "grudge" with He Youjun's mother Liang Anqi.
He Wanqi once commented on Stanley Ho and Liang Anqi: "These two in-laws are a natural pair, the man is ruthless, and the woman is cunning......"
This kind of evaluation shows He Wanqi's dissatisfaction and hostility towards Liang Anqi. In this case, how could He Wanqi take the initiative to know Liang Anqi's son He Youjun?
In addition to this, the age gap is also a factor that cannot be ignored. He Youjun is a post-90s generation, and the children of the other brothers and sisters of the gambling king may be about the same age as He Youjun's mother. With such a large age difference, there will naturally be obstacles to communication.
What's even more interesting is that He Youjun often encounters some embarrassing situations in family social situations. He smiled wryly and said:
"In addition to my age, I am amazingly old. Sometimes when he participates in family socialization, he just stands there and only calls him uncle, uncle, and even grandchildren's eldest brother to bow to him. "
Imagine this scene, it's a modern version of the "comedy of generational confusion"!
Netizens are hotly discussed: The truth of the He family's family affection
This incident quickly aroused heated discussions among netizens on the Internet. Some netizens expressed sympathy for He Youjun's situation:
"It turns out that wealthy families also have the troubles of wealthy families, just sorting out so many relatives is enough of a headache."
Some netizens believe that this reflects the complexity of wealthy families:
"Where is this family, it's a small society. No wonder the lives of rich people are always so dramatic. "
Some netizens interpreted this matter from another angle:
"In fact, this also shows that He Youjun's mother Liang Anqi is very powerful, and she protects her son very well and prevents him from getting involved in complicated family relationships."
Of course, some netizens questioned He Youjun's remarks:
"I feel that He Youjun is pretending to be pitiful, he is obviously a wealthy son, but he says as if he is very lonely."
However, more netizens still expressed their understanding:
"The family relationship is already very complicated, let alone such a big and wealthy family. It is not easy for He Youjun to maintain such a mentality. "
These comments reflect people's curious and complex views on the lives of wealthy families. There is sympathy, there is envy, and there is doubt. But in any case, He Youjun's confession does let us see a little-known side of the life of a wealthy family.
Conclusion: The true meaning of family affection
Through He Youjun's story, we see an unexpected reality of a wealthy family. In the eyes of outsiders, the glamorous gambling king family has such a complex family relationship inside.
This makes us think: what is the true meaning of family affection? Is it the distance of blood relationship, or the depth of emotional connection? The intimate relationship between He Youjun and his eighth aunt He Wanhong may have given us some inspiration.
True family affection does not lie in the size of the family and how much wealth there is, but in the sincere feelings and care for each other.
At the same time, this story also shows us that whether it is a wealthy family or an ordinary family, it takes effort to maintain family relationships. The complexity of family relationships does not vary depending on the amount of wealth.
Finally, I would like to ask you: If you were He Youjun, how would you deal with such a large and complex family relationship? Do you choose to distance yourself, or do you try to understand and maintain these relationships? Feel free to share your thoughts in the comment section!