The distance between children and the comfort of parents is like Lung Yingtai wrote in "Seeing Away": "The so-called parent-child relationship just means that your fate with him is to constantly watch his back drift away in this life and this life." ”
Recently, I have discovered an interesting and thought-provoking phenomenon: the children's coming of age seems to have a delicate relationship with their distance from their parents. Those children who have gone abroad are as if they have never given birth; And the child who went to the big city was like giving birth to half of it. In contrast, the children who stay with them, although they may be slightly less financially inferior, can at least give their parents a support.
For parents, filial piety can be divided into two types:
1. One is that children have achieved something that makes them proud. Most people are very vain and would rather be nominally beautiful, even if they can't take care of their parents outside the province abroad.
2. The other is to take care of their food, clothing, housing and transportation by your side.
Excellent children are rare, but the children who stay by their side are not the greatest comfort for parents in their later years. Parents should accept their children, no matter what their achievements, can still enjoy the joy of life in their old age.
Young people, aim high?
The educational outlook of the parents of the younger generation is far from that of the older generation! They believe that the child is not your private property, he (she) has the right to choose life, and it is precisely because he (she) is excellent that there are more possibilities, rather than staying with his parents to gnaw at the old. Of course, it is also very good for children to be filial by their parents' side.
And as children, no matter how far we go, we should always look back at the place that will always wait for us, and those who will always wait for us. This is not only the love of parents, but also the responsibility of the family.
She had both children and daughters, but she did not enjoy the joy of family in her lifetime, and a week after her death, the corpse was found only when maggots stinked.
30 years ago, she married in the same village and gave birth to two children, a son and a daughter, and worked hard all her life to raise the two children. Children are also angry, a 985 and a 211, such achievements were enviable 20 years ago!
After graduating with two children, one works in Beijing and the other in Taiyuan, both thousands of miles away from home! Soon both children got married and had children of their own. Before starting a family, the two children would go home to visit the elderly during the New Year's holidays, and after they got married, they rarely came back because they were busy with work, and their sons did not even come back for the New Year.
Her husband also died of illness due to overwork when his children graduated. She was left alone in the village. Although her son also asked her to live in Beijing together, she went to live for a week and then came back.
A month after she died, she was not feeling well, went to the hospital for examination, and found that she had a terminal illness, she didn't want to tell her children, so she bought some medicine and recuperated at home. She continued to exercise every morning, and was seen exercising until a week before her death.
A week later, when a villager passed by her house and heard a foul smell, the villager felt that something was wrong, so he called the police, and the police came and opened the door to find that she had long since died, covered with maggots, and finally informed her that her children had come back to do the funeral.
Parents are always worried about their children!
The father was hospitalized, the patients in the same room, not very old in their 60s, the old two daughters were very good, all the way to study for a doctorate to settle abroad, the old lady said that she had just found some cancer, and she needed surgery, but the old man had a fracture + heart disease, so the old lady took care of the old man first, and then the old lady had surgery when the old man was well, and the old man took care of the old lady again, during which the daughter came back for a week and left.
The old couple called to report the good news and not the bad news, saying that it was useless to make her worried. Asked why not to invite a nurse, said that the two of them are long-term sick number, the cost of too much, the daughter went to school, the money to go abroad has been spent, she is not easy abroad, the old couple rented a house of more than ten square meters near the hospital, who wants to be uncomfortable on the hospital, if both of them are uncomfortable, the serious one will look first, and the other will take care. Watching my dad being taken care of by several girls in and out, his eyes were very lonely.
Write at the end:
No matter how far a child goes, the love and concern of parents will always be there. So, no matter where we are, we should remember to come home often, give our parents a warm hug, and tell them, "Your children are always there." ”
At the same time, we need to learn to understand our parents' expectations and needs. They want us to be productive because they love us and want us to be better. But we also want them to know that our companionship and care are just as important.
I hope that we can all find a balance with our parents on the road of pursuing our dreams, so that there is no longer a distance between love. After all, family is our eternal safe haven, and the love of parents is the driving force for us to move forward.
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