Put yourself in your position, manage your temper, the water is too deep, the wind is too strong, and you don't have the strength

Life is like the sea, sometimes it is turbulent, sometimes it is calm like a mirror. In the face of this unpredictable world, each of us needs to find our place and learn to control our temper. Because in unfathomable waters, wind and waves can overturn a fragile boat at any time.

Putting yourself in the position is a deep understanding of self-knowledge. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and only by clearly recognizing their strengths and weaknesses can they find their own position in the complex society. Each location is not easy, but each has its own unique value. Find your place and you will be able to shine in your own field, rather than getting lost in the field that is not suitable for you.

Managing your temper is self-control over your emotions. The temper is like a blazing fire, and the slightest mistake can burn oneself and others. People in the rivers and lakes will inevitably encounter unsatisfactory things, if you can't control your emotions every time, it will only increase conflicts and troubles. Only by learning to face problems calmly and deal with conflicts rationally can we stabilize our minds in the wind and waves and not be swayed by the disturbances of the outside world.

The water is too deep, the wind is too strong, and I don't have the strength to talk less. This sentence is full of wisdom for life. In real life, many times it is not something we can control. In the face of unfathomable circumstances, in the face of powerful storms, the wisest thing to do is to remain silent and gather strength. When strength is insufficient, too many words will only expose one's weaknesses and invite unnecessary trouble. And when we have enough strength, we can naturally win respect and recognition with one word.

All in all, life is a long practice. Putting oneself in one's own position and managing one's temper is a skill that everyone must master on the path of cultivation. In this deep water and strong wind, only by constantly improving ourselves can we stand firm in the wind and rain and move forward firmly in the waves.