Live well, stay away from people and things that make you unhappy, and slowly you will find that the smaller circle, the time you spend alone, and the most comfortable work.
In life, we will always encounter all kinds of people and things, some of them bring us joy and warmth, and some of them make us feel uneasy and troubled. To learn to live well is to learn to choose and give up. Those people and things that make you unhappy, you don't have to force it, you don't have to entangle, you can get peace of mind by letting go bravely.
Getting smaller may make people feel lonely, but this loneliness is the real peace of mind. True friends are not many, but in the same heart. Instead of spending a lot of time and energy trying to maintain those superficial relationships, it is better to calm down and share your inner feelings with the few people who really understand you. Smaller circles bring more understanding and support, and are a haven for the soul.
Alone time is the best time for self-growth. When you are alone, you can let go of all your defenses and listen to your heart. Reading a book, writing a paragraph, or just being in a daze is a way to talk to yourself. Being alone is not loneliness, but a kind of freedom, a kind of wisdom to get along with yourself. In solitude, we can know ourselves more clearly and understand life more deeply.
Positive work is an important way to realize self-worth. No matter how mundane the work is, as long as you put your heart into it, you can find fun and a sense of accomplishment in it. Work is not only a means of survival, but also a stage for self-expression and self-improvement. In active work, we continue to learn, keep improving, and enjoy the results and joy of hard work.
Live well, stay away from people and things that make you unhappy, and you will find that smaller circles bring sincere friendship, alone time brings inner peace, and active work brings the value of life. These are the most comfortable ways to live. In this complex world, maintaining a simple state of mind and pursuing a true happiness is the real good life.