A man's temper affects his career, and a woman's temper affects her marriage.
A lot of people come here and ask me: Is my career good? Is the family good? Is the child good? Is marriage good?
I'll just reply: Is your temper good?
As long as people have a good temper, everything will be good.
People are learning to be a man all their lives, and learning to be a man is a lifelong thing, and there is no way to graduate. In life, whether it is a farmer, a businessman, a variety of people, etc., as long as you learn, you will make progress.
Make yourself a must-see every day until everything slowly changes......
01
Learn to admit mistakes
People often refuse to admit their mistakes, saying that everything is the fault of others, thinking that they are right, but in fact, not admitting mistakes is a mistake.
The object of admitting mistakes can be parents, friends, the general public, or even to children or people who treat me badly.
Learning to admit mistakes is beautiful, and it is a great practice.
02
Learn to be gentle
Human teeth are hard, tongue is soft, at the end of life, teeth are gone, but the tongue will not fall, so to be soft, life can be long, hard but suffer.
A softening of the heart is the greatest progress in cultivation.
Generally speaking, people who are persistent say that your heart, your character, is cold, hard, and like steel. If we do what the Taoists say about pranayama, body, and mind, and slowly subdue the heart like a wild horse and a monkey, and make it soft, then we can live a happier and longer life.
03
Learn forbearance
In this world, it is to endure a breath, calm the waves, take a step back and open the sky; Forbearance, everything can be eliminated. To endure is to be able to deal with and resolve it, and to use wisdom and ability to make big things small and small things into nothing.
To live, to survive, to live, with forbearance, you can recognize the good and bad, good and evil, right and wrong in the world. Or even accept it.
04
Learn to communicate
Lack of communication can lead to right and wrong, disputes and misunderstandings.
The most important thing is communication, mutual understanding, mutual understanding, mutual help, everyone is a brother and sister, how can we be peaceful if we quarrel with each other and do not communicate?
05
Learn to let go
Life is like a suitcase, lift it when you need to use it, put it down when you don't use it, and put it down when you should put it down, but don't put it down, just like dragging heavy luggage, unable to feel comfortable. The years of life are limited, admitting mistakes, respect, and tolerance can be accepted, and letting go is comfortable!
06
Learning moved
Rejoice when you see others reaping the benefits; When you see good people and good deeds, you must be moved.
Touching is a kind of love and compassion, and in the past few decades, there have been many things and words that have touched us, so we have also worked hard to find ways to move others.
07
Learn to survive
In order to survive, it is necessary to maintain good health, which is not only beneficial to oneself, but also to friends and family, so it is also an act of filial piety.