In fact, when many girls fall in love, the biggest problem is that they are too real. If you like your boyfriend, you want to pay for him, and if you love your boyfriend, you want to work for him, try to make the other person comfortable, don't be so tired, and want the other person to live happily.
I can understand your heart, it's so precious. But if you fall in love with such an attitude, it is easy to push too hard, and the more you talk about this relationship, the narrower it becomes. The longer you talk, the less you know where to go.
When a girl who really talks about love falls in love, she herself is very relaxed. Because men and love are nourishing her, making her more and more attractive, and making her inner world richer and richer, so girls who are in love will have a wider path to fall in love.
If you can't tell if you're going to fall in love, look at your current state. Your state is getting better and better, you just talk about love, you suffer from gains and losses all day long, and you are not comfortable when you are single, then you just don't talk about love, and at any time, your feelings will not lie.
If you are also the type of girl with a more realistic heart, then you must pay attention to the following things when you fall in love.
The first thing is to improve your "quotient". What is Trader? It's just that when you're making trouble, how can you make a man not disgusted at all? On the contrary, the more you do it, the more men like you. If you're doing business enough. Then your level of falling in love is already at an intermediate level.
In "The Legend of Zhen Huan", although the emperor doesn't like Guerjia's family. But every time she pretended to be a nightmare to compete for favor, she would ask the emperor: "Your Majesty, do you see that people are still panicking now?" "It's contrived and charming, but the emperor just loves it very much.
The nature of men is like this, you can't get anything if you don't do anything honestly.
There are two ways to improve your trade.
1. Learn to make demands on men, learn to pretend to be angry and let men coax, and when men coax you, you will immediately be spoiled. If you only dare to wash a man's clothes and don't dare to ask him for it, then you are afraid that there is a big problem, and your sense of worthiness is too low.
In fact, it is normal to make requests to your boyfriend, and you should not be afraid of him refusing. Every rejection he recreates the sense of boundaries between you so that you know how much he is giving you. You can adjust or increase his commitment to you. If you don't dare to make demands, if you don't dare to adjust your boundaries, then it will be very difficult for you to guide him to give.
The second way to improve the quotient. will show weakness, pretend to be pitiful, pretend to be jealous, and dare to play a small temper. Don't think that you offend people if you play a little temper, if you don't play a little temper, boys still think you are boring. It's just that you have to remember that when you play a tantrum, it depends on the occasion. If you don't know how to play a little tantrum, you can add me on WeChat.
If you are the kind of girl with a more honest heart, you should also pay attention to the second thing when you fall in love: control the proportion of your pay.
That is, when you want to give to a man, you first restrain your desires. Then take your dedication to him as a reward for him.
Like the case I mentioned at the beginning, the girl will do her boyfriend's laundry every week, which is her dedication to her boyfriend. But now the girls have to remember that you can only give if the guy is good to you. Don't want him to do nothing, you do everything for him.
Can you grasp this degree? For example, the boy has done you a great favor or is particularly pampered. Then you can do something for him in return, and give a little more. But if there is a period of time when the boy stops giving to you and starts to lie flat, then you have to take back your reward for him.
Also, you have to remember that you don't want a man to move you. Honest girls are the easiest to be called, and when they are in love, they are the same. Sometimes her boyfriend is coquettish, and she can do anything for him. This is a typical old mother's attribute.
If a guy likes you, you can also be coquettish to him in reverse, and let him do things for you in reverse, at least you have to call each other. If it's just him unilaterally telling you to do this and that, you can completely refuse, and you have to remember this.
In fact, it is quite difficult to teach honest girls to fall in love, because they especially love to drill the horns of the bull and admit death. Only after suffering a big loss will they change their love status.