In this era of fierce competition and information explosion, many parents are feeling the pressure to excel and achieve excellent results in their children. However, in the process of pursuing excellence, some parents are too impatient and anxious, which not only brings psychological burden to their children, but also may cause them physical and mental health troubles.
First of all, parents who are too anxious often put too much pressure on their children. They aspire to see their children succeed academically, talentedly, and more, and devote a lot of time and energy to pushing them to achieve these goals. However, children may feel frustrated and frustrated when they are pressured to complete tasks or meet certain standards. Emotions that have been suppressed for a long time can lead to psychological problems, such as anxiety and depression.
Second, parents who are too anxious often ignore their children's right to relax and have fun. In order to be more competitive and efficient, some parents fill up their extracurricular tutoring schedules and create intense and onerous study schedules for their children. However, without adequate recreational activities and rest time, children are unable to effectively release stress and relax. This not only affects their physical health and development, but also may lead to problems such as loss of interest and deterioration of social skills.
In addition, being too anxious to blame with blame is another common problem. When their children fail to meet expectations, some parents choose to express their disappointment by punishing or reprimanding. This kind of behavior can easily lead to the accumulation of negative emotions and the deterioration of the relationship between each other. When children experience persistent negative feedback, they may fall into self-denial and inferiority complex. For a long time , such psychological stress may even affect academic results and self-esteem .
In response to this problem, we suggest that parents should be patient and communicative. By having an open and equal dialogue with their children, parents can better understand their children's needs and interests. At the same time, love and support are the strongest foundation for cultivating a positive attitude and providing volunteer initiative. In addition, it is very important to give children full autonomy to set goals and achieve their tasks. Remember that everyone has asynchronous success, so don't inflict yourself or someone else on your children.
To sum up , parents who are too anxious often neglect to care about education in the process to awaken the soul and cultivate the complete abandonment of inner will development obstacles . Under the conditions of supporting thinking change and increasing emphasis on starting to use new educational methods, we should guide balanced development more : enhance the clarity of goals; Promote special skills; improving methods for evaluating results; Focus on balanced education Eliminate respiratory institutions to the maximum extent of the occasion Strengthen community cooperation Sex education: seize the daily offer