I'm 25 years old, I've never been in love, my parents are in business, the family conditions are okay, this girl is the second time I met on a blind date.
At the end of October last year, I added her WeChat, because the matchmaker is her uncle, and I probably know her situation: I lost my father when I was young, I was raised by my grandmother since I was a child, and my mother started a family with another person. When she went to college, she used to earn her own money to pay tuition and living expenses, and I feel that she can do this very well.
I'm a straight man, I didn't have much confidence, but WeChat chatted with her very speculatively, she chatted straight to the point, not only seconds back but also took the initiative to find a topic to talk to you, humorous, and take photos to show you in real time, the point is that after chatting for a while, I found that her three views are basically the same as mine, and even talked about her love experience, she told the two rebellious exes of what they did.
The WeChat chat history is gone, QQ's can still be turned over, first put some screenshots of chatting with her.
One night I talked to her about food, and after chatting about it, she actually took the initiative to invite me to her place and invite me to eat, and since the place where she worked was twenty kilometers away from me, the time for the first meeting was determined.
There was a small episode in the middle, I sent a message at night and never replied, she usually replied in seconds, and those hours were very tormenting, so that I couldn't sleep, although I hadn't met in those days, but I had already fallen in love with her just by chatting, because I had never been so happy chatting with people.
She likes cats very much, so the first time we met was in a cat café, and then I walked with her in the park, and after eating in the snack street in the evening, she took a walk on Wanda Street, and the snacks were all paid for by her. I talked more in those half days than I talked to people in a month, and I didn't stop.
She likes to travel, and when I asked her where she wanted to go next, she said Xiamen. Because the landlord happened to go there a few times, he decided to take her to Xiamen to play in the future. Then we talked about crabs, because she invited me once, and I thought about buying a butter crab for her to taste, and I got into an argument with her because of that.
Because of the first meeting, she was very active, crossing the street with her hand to hold my arm, and then looking at me from time to time, combined with chatting with her is very speculative and ambiguous, I think the second time I met to confess to her, I chose one night, ordered KTV and roses, asked her out to play, and wanted to take out roses to confess to her when singing Jay Chou's "Simple Love". As a result, she accepted the flowers and held her hands, but I was too nervous to say those words, but I thought it was a definite relationship, and I couldn't be happy.
How nice is this girl, she participated in various volunteer activities in college and has a kind heart. The next time we met, they invited me to eat hundreds of hot pots, and gave me gifts of perfumes, puffs, and small toys before I went back. I also invited her to my house to eat butter crab and egg custard, and gave her perfume.
The turning point was when I told her to go to Xiamen to play together, she meant that she didn't want to go with me, I confessed at that time, and then she politely rejected me.
I tried to redeem it many times, but I couldn't even make an appointment to meet, she was only willing to be an ordinary friend who could chat with me, I couldn't accept it, thinking that the long pain was better than the short pain, so I deleted her. After deleting it for a while, she added it back and asked me if I deleted her? I said yes, and then she asked me for the WeChat collection code, and also transferred 300 to me.
I was tormented every day during that time, and I wanted to keep my distance when I liked it, so I simply deleted it and wanted to forget about her, so that I could be happier every day.
Because it's the first time, I don't have much experience, so in the end, I didn't survive and chose to return to the comfort zone of singleness, and I feel that it will be difficult to meet a girl with such consistent views and opportunistic speech in the future.
She went to Guangdong by herself, and then she never contacted her. In the middle, I thought about being an ordinary friend like this, and there might still be a chance, but after being rejected a few times, my mentality really collapsed. She is a talker herself, she can talk to anyone, and she definitely doesn't lack a friend of the opposite sex for me.