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Love is an indispensable and precious experience in life, and we are willing to give, but we are not willing to let it fall through and leave us with regrets.
People are growing in life, but they are also facing each other's defenses. We often say that society has become complex, which makes it difficult for us to be honest about it. When we look for love, we often don't believe it easily.
There are too few people in the world who can really love each other and walk hand in hand to the gray hair, but there are many people who are chasing hard in love, but they can't reach the end.
Emotions are unpredictable, and everyone's feelings are constantly changing at every moment, and the affectionate love of one moment may become stranger's alienation in the next moment.
Therefore, many boys don't understand why their girlfriends suddenly propose to break up. Obviously, the relationship has always been very good, and the sweet atmosphere was easily abandoned.
How do you know if a girl really loves herself? Boys, beware, if a girl exhibits the following three behaviors, it means that she may not love you.
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She won't be the first to find you.
There was a popular saying a long time ago: If you don't contact me, I don't contact you, our story is over. The interaction between people is relative and interactive.
If someone contacts you on their own, it must be that she is interested in you, maybe she wants to develop a relationship with you, or she may have other requests. After all, reaching out to someone is a positive signal in itself.
Feelings need to be connected, and without communication and interaction, they will become dead. The same is true for the establishment of a relationship, blindly giving will only exhaust you, and if the other person never reciprocates your affection, then he may not have you in his heart.
A woman who doesn't take the initiative to contact you probably doesn't love you very much. Maybe it's because you're too confident or too independent, and if you don't have a positive connection, you won't show emotional giving, and that kind of relationship won't be true love, and it's not true love.
No one has ever cared about you in life.
If someone loves you deeply, he/she will notice every change in you, even small changes, because only if you like it, you will care, and only if you value you will you pay attention to your little bits.
A person who likes you can't help but care about you and can't suppress their emotions. She is afraid that you will be hurt, pays attention to your various losses, and is always eager to participate in your life and cheer for your happiness.
If a woman never gives you care in her daily life, it is likely that she does not love you. Love can't be hidden, if you love someone, you want him to be happy and happy, I hope he goes well, and you will care about him. And a woman who never cares about you, presumably in her heart you are not so important, and she will not love you.
Be reserved in your dealings.
Really liking someone will have a desire to follow and share, you will feel excited to introduce her into your life, and in order to show your affection, you even want to declare it to the world.
Therefore, many people will tell their friends at the beginning of their relationship, hoping to introduce each other to their circle. Of course, everyone has their own private space, and this space needs to be respected.
When you genuinely like someone, you will associate with them without reservation. You want to be honest with each other and assert your dominance because you want to share all the moments of your life with them.
Women who have reservations in their interpersonal interactions may be because they are facing unspeakable problems or simply don't want you to get involved in her social circle.
Any reason can hurt each other's feelings, and if a woman chooses to hide it, she may not really love you and not take your feelings into account.
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In love, all the giving should be cared for and understood. We are not saying that whoever we choose to love will necessarily get a happy ending and win the other person's heart, but every love is precious and cannot be desecrated, and they should be given the respect they deserve.
Feelings do not need to be noble or lowly, love does not have to be reciprocated, only respect for feelings. Unilateral love is not available, and the love between the two parties is the perfect ending.
But the good times in the world are always rare, and I hope that we can all accept all emotions without reservation, because love is not a plaything, and even more so for those who give affection.
Love should be sincere, honest, free and unrestrained, and if you don't love, you should simply let go and be free. Feelings should not be a game, there is no winning or losing, sincere giving, no regrets is the best feeling.