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某乎有这样一个热点话题：有不爱自己孩子的母亲吗？
A mother's love for her child is often considered natural, but in the present
In real life, not all mothers are naturally right
The child has a deep affection. Some mothers may be because of each
such as personal experience, psychological state, life stress
etc., and feel reserved about the love for the child, and even produce
Boredom.
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I saw a woman in the hospital, who loved to play, holding a child, but there was no love, and threw it to her husband, her husband said to let her play with her, she said, she couldn't play with him.
No one is obliged to love someone they have never met, and no one has ever described this sentence on mother and son, but if you think about it, it is really like this.
Don't be too nice to her, let her go back for the first half of the year by herself. If it's not good, take it back, and if it's good, just whatever. She also has a long way to go, and if you live together, it will not be good for you or your children.
Totally speaking my mind. Many people say don't give birth if you don't love it, but you didn't know that it was so tiring to have children before you were born. I think the second child can be said not to love other births, because I already know that I have to face everything with a baby. But I really don't know about the first child.
That's right, why did you give birth to a child if you don't love him, bring him to this complex and indifferent world, you have the obligation to love him and protect him. My son is four years old, and from the time he came to this world, I swore that I would love him well in this life, accompany him, and let him grow up happily, otherwise I would not deserve him to call me mother softly every day.
I like children, and I used to think about how I would dress her when I had a child. But now that I have one in my stomach, I don't feel it at all, and I don't have any expectations for the future. Maybe I'm Ye Gong Haolong....
Babies love their mothers because if they don't please their mothers, they may be in danger of their lives, which is brought by genes. Ask yourself, is you financially independent, do you still love your mother so much?
That's right, after giving birth, I worked out, traveled, and wandered around. They all said I didn't look like a mother. But what does it look like to be a mother? Is washing diapers at home unkempt like being a mother? I pursue my own life, but I can still make all kinds of complementary food for my children and read hundreds of picture books to my children.
Every mother is a unique individual, theirs
The inner world is full of complex emotions that we cannot fully comprehend
Feel. At some point, they may feel tired and sleepy
confused, and even wavering on the scales of love. But these moments
should not define their identity as mothers, much less so
It should be a reason for self-doubt and self-blame. Let me
We look at these mothers with a more tolerant eye and give them to her
We need understanding and support.
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