Outside a restaurant in Guangdong, a man hurried to his girlfriend's call, thinking something was urgent. On the phone, his girlfriend asked him to come over as soon as possible, and he didn't dare to delay for a moment and rushed from home to the restaurant.
However, when he arrived at the place, he found that his girlfriend had no accidents at all. She just invited her friends to dinner and didn't bring enough money, and she needed her boyfriend to pay for it. "You hurry up and check out, I've been out for a while, and they're almost finished!" The girlfriend urged.
The man's heart suddenly cooled, "You called me here just to make me pay?" He asked as calmly as he could, but the anger in his heart was already burning.
The calmer the person, the more terrifying it tends to be. The man said coldly: "This is a guest you invited, and I didn't eat it, why should I pay for it?" ”
My girlfriend looked impatient: "Don't talk about this, go and settle the bill first, I really don't have the money to pay, I can't let my friend pay it." ”
The man said bluntly: "You called me over to make me pay the bill?" I'm not going to buy it, and I'm not going to dwell on it anymore. ”
My girlfriend said angrily: "Then you don't transfer money to me, what can I do?" ”
The man replied coldly: "It's not that shouting a few words of 'husband' can solve the problem!" ”
It is said that the couple has been together for some time, but his girlfriend has been cold to him. Except for holiday dates, dinners, and movies, we hardly see each other on weekdays. Even chatting online is only perfunctory. It's not that it's time to sleep, it's that there are things to be busy, so that men can't start if they want to cultivate feelings.
What made him even more unacceptable was that his girlfriend used him as an ATM. He was asked to pay for the purchases, and now it is the same for dinner, and he is called to pay for it, as if he is a mobile wallet.
"I don't even hold my hand, what kind of boyfriend and girlfriend is this? Pay the bills yourself! With that, the man turned around and prepared to go home. Obviously, the meals at home are ready, but he ran in vain, feeling that he was completely "fooled".
Some netizens said: "Maybe she's testing you!" Some people think: "No matter what, this order must be bought, and this pattern must be there." If you think she is not good, buy this order and stop loss. ”
Of course, there are also different voices: "Look at the usual interactions." If she really likes you, she can buy this order, and she will buy the bag if she wants to. If she keeps treating you as a fool, then stop the loss in time, you are not her cup of tea at all. ”
In fact, many people don't understand why boyfriends have to pay for falling in love? A netizen said: "I'm also a girl, so I don't have the money to pretend to be a big treat?" It's still up to you. ”
She continued: "Girls nowadays don't seem to have a concept of money. Boys earn 10,000 a month, girls earn 3,000 a month, and most girls feel that they are worthy of this boy. But on the other hand, girls earn 10,000 a month and boys earn 5,000 a month, and girls feel that this man is bad and not worth marrying. ”
Finally, she concluded: "Now that boys are slowly waking up, when there are no boys paying for girls' consumption, they will know how difficult it is to make money." ”
In a relationship, the idea of money and mutual respect are important. Girls should be self-reliant and self-reliant, not dependent on boys, and boys should also have their own bottom line and dignity. Two people understand each other and grow together, which is true love.